Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
Loading ...
Dear Lucille,
I used to feel “guilty or scared to go out in public. I was at a resturant after a Trans gender meeting. There was a Mexican dude cleaning the ladies room. Well he gave me the “ooh look” like he disaproved. I thought to myself: I don’t give a Hoot or Hollar what this little Mexican thought. I actually used the ladies room (1) because I was a lady (2) it was either the Men’s room or the Ladies room. I was excited & thrilled in my own mind to be able to do my business in the ladies room. To hell with those who don’t aprove & I say Frig them. I love me for being who, what & what i want to become. Remember opinions are like A$$hole$ every body has them. So there!!
I do feel guilty every day but as the years go by dress more and more. I love dressing like a woman and if I could I would do so all the time. Where I live it is not a place where that would be acceptable. Plus my circumstances. Why can’t people just accept what you are. I do get a lot of pleasure when I am Lucy Lou and will never stop.
I’ve always been attracted to female clothes since childhood but my mom discovered once that I was wearing her pantyhose and told me I shouldn’t cause it’s a female clothing. Since that time I’ve been hiding to CD, buying lingerie and heels for 1-2 days, then out of guilt, throwing them to garbage. I’ve done this so many times… but since I bought the The Unleash Your Inner Woman Program 2 days ago, my life is changing and I feel so good and feminine! I bought lingerie and heels and I wanna keep them cause I feel so good in them! I’m now ready to wear top femme clothes and do everything I wish like have nice hair and using makeup. Thanks again Lucille! You make my life so happy!!! ❤
I am more afraid of dressing or getting caught than I feel guilty. However I have some guilt because I am confused if it is immoral or not with God. The reason why I am afraid is because I am afraid of what my family will feel. They will probably disown me and I would be in for a divorce. Even my blood kin like my brother and sister would disown me. I am now 67 years old and have always hid my feelings on this subject. I always think about it and wish I was a woman. Would I be better off especially at my age ton just keep on hiding it.
Vanes,
I know how you feel.I’m mft and 65.It wasn’t acceptable in our day and age.I love heels and all that.And having fanasties of being made love to by a man!Yet i feel guilty for the same reasons,it’s hard having a woman’s mind!
it started at 14 years now to 17 my feminine side is desperate to see itself in the mirror alive and well…but I feel so guilty…like I’m a huge failure to my family…I told my mother and she said “son your just confused you need cut this out are you gay?”…the words that eat me up but it’s innocent…I don’t want to be the tough guy…I’m small for age I ain’t physically big what so ever I’m not strong nor am I resistant to pain…I’m soft loving extremely friendly and kind also tender hearted but I’m expected to express only masculine tough macho man
I’m 18 and super new to crossdressing. I have a lot of trans friends to go to for advice, and my girlfriend supports me. I have started to feel uncomfortable in male underwear and i feel a great need to get a bra. Sadly the last ones i ordered didn’t fit, but i hope to get some soon. I’m waiting to get more feminine clothing i.e. dresses for when i have my body in shape… Gonna be the hottest guy/gal on campus next year!
“Jon”…Sweetie, I’m 67 years…Once you put on you’re Bra…You will never want to tack it off…Don’t forget your “Matching Panties” Love, Paula
Hi Lucille. I have been crossdressing on and off since I was 13 (I’m 24 now) it all started off by finding my step moms panties and from there I went into dressing in her clothes. As time went on I started going through all my family members closets (mom, aunts so on) i feel very guilty cause every time I went to someone’s house I would go through there stuff the minute I had a chance. Now I told my girlfriend and she likes it but we only really do it when we are drunk. I would just love some advice
Hi Lucille honey goodness girlfriend I don’t feel guilty really anymore I’m just barely getting by I love to dress and be myself I’m just having a difficult time of doing it right now maybe I’m a little conflicted about it too my family doesn’t really understand and have just left me to myself after the loss of my late wife it’s been rough nobody to talk to really I do play guitar I think I’d be insane if not for that I really love listening to music and playing along lately I’ve been stuck on Carlos Santana. I love all classic rock but have some favs I like Michelle Branch goodness she is so beautiful I found her listening to Carlos Santana he such an amazing artist with guitar I’d really like being myself and playing I seem to play better the freedom I guess I’d love to feel beautiful at least once in my life and look at least as close to how I wish as possible getting my nails done would be great if I ever get out of this rut I can’t seem to escape no matter how I try I’m getting so depressed Christmas is going to come and go and I have no spirit at all I hope things change soon and life improves I’m sorry if I bring anybody down Love MJ
“MJ”…You are “Very Pretty”…Do you have a “Boyfriend” ???