If you’re like many of my transgender or crossdressing readers, you might not be able to present yourself as a woman each day.
That doesn’t mean you have to lose your female side when it’s time to put on the pants!
In this post, I share 5 ways to stay in touch with your femininity – even in male mode.
1. Wear Women’s Underwear
Let’s start with the most obvious tip, shall we? Wearing women’s underwear underneath your male clothing is the easiest way to connect with your feminine self on a daily basis.
Aside from that, women’s panties tend to be more comfortable than men’s boxers or briefs. Plus, they come in loads of cute and sexy styles to add some secret pizazz to your outfit.
2. Try Stealth Crossdressing
Wearing lingerie under your clothes is a classic, but why stop there? Sneaking a piece of women’s clothing into your daily outfit is a great way to feel girly.
A lot of women’s clothing can pass for unisex, so try wearing women’s:
- Basic tees
- Button-down shirts
- Jeans and pants
Don’t forget about accessories! You could also play with wearing women’s boots or using a tote bag as a laptop bag or briefcase.
3. Apply Incognito Makeup
There are lots of ways to incorporate makeup into your daily look, even when presenting as a male. Here are 4 must-have makeup items:
- Concealer or foundation – Apply a thin layer to cover under eye circles or blemishes.
- Setting powder – Apply to shiny spots on your face, like the nose or forehead.
- Clear mascara – Use it to make your eyelashes look subtly longer and fuller.
- Uncolored lipstick – Instead of boring Chapstick, care for your lips with a clear lipstick.
4. Use the Power of Scent
Scents have a powerful effect on your brain chemistry and mood, so this is a great way to connect with your feminine side.
Wear women’s perfume instead of cologne. Musky fragrances are the most unisex, so you can wear them without anybody knowing your secret. (Check out my article on perfume to learn more about choosing the right scent.)
Another option is to burn a scented candle with a feminine fragrance in your home or office.
5. Keep Reminders of Your Female Self
Another tip is to surround yourself with reminders of the woman within.
One way to do this is through photos. Keep photos of your femme self on your phone, in your wallet, or even framed and hung up so you can see them often.
You could also carry around items personalized with your feminine name, such as a necklace, keychain, or coffee mug.
6. Try Feminizing Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a powerful way to increase confidence, reprogram habits and behaviors, and improve the way you express yourself as a woman.
Best of all, it’s the ultimate mental escape – allowing you to connect with you female self regardless of your current situation.
Try it for yourself by signing up for my free Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini-session here.
How do YOU stay connected?
In an ideal world, you’d be free to present yourself as a woman whenever and wherever you wanted. Until then, I hope this gives you ideas for expressing your female side anytime you want!
How do YOU stay connected to your feminine self? I’d love to know, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I wear a bra and panties every day and that makes me feel feminine
I agree with the feminine jeans idea. I used to do it a lot. But also nice panties under them. Then later on I wore pantyhose as well under my jeans. I chose nude, beige or suntan shades. If my pants were long enough, even black! If I had an outdoor job that needed a coat and heavier clothing, I would sometimes wear a camisole, even those with underwired, padded cups, too.
I often wear a small piece of jewelry, like one (or more) bracelets, ring etc. They my look unisex, but a closer observation will reveal they are feminine.
That’s my way to stay in touch with my feminine side, when I have to present myself as a male.
Hugs
Roberta
To help me, I wear panties everyday under my work clothes, along with either thigh highs or pantyhose (pantyhose generally), and like others here, I also polish my toes, generally in a bright red. Somedays I wear a female boot with a little heel to make me feel gurly and sexy!
How I feel feminine everyday and all day long. I wear classic high waisted brief in the silky nylon. I wear a bra everyday as well. During the winter months. I wear a camisole under my shirt and leggings under my pants. I also one or twice a week wear a button down bodysuit as my shirt.
Hi Lucille,
I always wear women’s knickers (panties) and have done for many years even before retiring.
I nearly always have my toe nails polished and have a varied selection of colours. For my finger nails I use clear varnish but if I’m going out then I colour them to compliment what I’m wearing.
I find wearing a bra is so girly and regularly wear one during the day even in Male mode. When wearing a dress (prefer) or skirt I usually wear tights but on occasions love to wear stockings as they’re so feminine and girly.
Haven’t yet tried make up in Male mode but maybe soon.
Joanna. xx
To help me feel very feminine all the time,
I wear silky nylon full brief panties,
and polish my toenails with
a pretty bright shiny polish
in either red, blue, green, silver,
or black to wear under my drab pants,
shoes and shoes.
I went to work like this, and I felt
so very girly and feminine all day long.
Annette I love blue polish on my toes it’s so slutty looking
I’m at work now and I have on panties and my toes are painted bright red and I’m wearing my toe ring that says sissy
I usually wear frilly women’s underwear all the time. The way they feel on makes me feel feminine all the time. I also will wear a bra (small cup). Others cannot tell but I can feel it on me.