Stepping out publicly as a woman is a powerful way to validate your female self.
In fact, I recently published a poll asking “How often do you go out in public as a woman?”
I was happy to see that the majority of my readers (transgender women and crossdressers) go out at least occasionally.
No matter how often you do it, I’m sure you can remember your first time presenting as a woman or crossdressing in public.
Since this is such an important gender-affirming step, I’d love to hear about it!
When was it? Where did you go? And what was your experience?
Please share with us in the comments below!
And if you’ve never been en femme in public, I’m sure you’ll find lots of inspiration in these stories.
As always, thank you for reading and participating!
Love,
Lucille
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I dressed up on Halloween a few years ago, it was a perfect time, since it was that day, I got a blouse and skirt at Value Village, and went to work, I sure got some looks, and a lot of positive comments, coworkers called me pretty and a beautiful woman.
I was chatting with a lady on a dating app and one day I told my feminine side, and I was expecting that she will not talk with me anymore. However, she said she was completely ok with this truth and we went on a date. All our date contained full of fetishes and mistress-slave relationship. I was very very comfortable with her, then one day she offered me go to shopping like two girls. I was so hesitating at first but I accepted, then she helped me a lot for everything (getting dressed, makeup etc). Then we went out. Even the city was so LGTB friendly, I was still nervous but after awhile I got over it and we still go outside when we met. She was one of the great luck in my life, if I am feminine now, she has a big impact
Dressed first time out in Leeds when staying away , just found it brilliant went to city centre and shops
And was even asked if I would liked to be served first as I was a lady.
As I am older I probably don’t pass that well but at least I have tried.
I can’t believe its been 20 years ago !! I had gone to Orlando to see a hooker and we slowly got into me wanting to dress as a girl ! Long story short, I had clothes and things sent to her apartment and heels. After about two months I had acquired a sizable wardrobe. My dear wife had gone to another state 600 miles away and so I was ready to dress !
I had Shawna do the makeup and OMG did I look hot ! We both went to a place where I presented quite well. As a matter of fact, I had an admirer walk into a wall !! The poor dear…….. We went to a bar where I continued to impress and long story short, I got laid !!
My first time en femme, many years ago, took place when I had just had too much whisky and decided, on the spur of the moment, to go out. This was well before I told my wife about my needs. Loved it. Never got a single glance and it’s been like that ever since. However, it is always exciting when I go out, particularly in my case. I live on a small island and, unfortunately, I work in the media so a bit in the public eye when in male mode. Today, my wife helps me prepare to go out, which is also a terrific feeling. If there really is some sort of reincarnation, I am 100% sure I was born female the first time. But I will spare you the philosophy 🙂
I have been walking outside and joined some parties now about 20 years and I use female clothing now every day. But my first experience… must go back to the time I was eight years old. It was summertime on the countryside where I spent time in one farmhouse. There was a girl with same age and she noticed that I was looking her clothes in her wardrobe. She proposed that I should try some. So I did and she helped to choose some nice ones. Next day I did it again and now she suggested we go on a hike to nearby creek. So we did as girls. This happened many times after that and her parents were aware that, they gave us some snacks with. Also some neighbours saw us that summer.
This was my first experience as a girl and having still nice memories on that.
My first time that I went out as a woman was with two tg friends and we went for a drink in a very nice bar. I was very happy when the young waitors trated me as a female and when I opened my purse to pay for the drinks or to put some more of my perfume ! An other thrilling moment was when I visited the ladies room in order to check my make up .
At my country it is ‘almost’ prohibited to show man as a woman, and all change in that matter is suspensed from some years ago. Although I started to go to public 5 years ago first, had positive experience, and 1 year ago there was a change, and the ‘go out to public’ is permanent. People around me made a lot of negative and unpleasant comments, stared at me, laughed at me, looked at me as a man and said. But, there were quite a few who were downright reveling in what they saw, myself included. In a word, it is difficult, but not impossible, to go among people, but I have to be very careful about where I go. I go to doctors, shopping, and work dressed as a woman, as well as going on trips and simply walking around the city or in nature. I have been physically abused, but I thought that people were not yet mature enough to see the reality, and in order for me to continue living with a healthy mind, these experiences and showing my femininity to myself and the world are very important. I assure myself, strongly, that this is all right. My family has completely turned their backs on me, and they won’t even talk to me during a job interview. So, there is a lot of rejection and insults.
So lovely I would never question you as a woman!❤
Hugs and kisses,
Jenny Dee