There are a lot of details that go into creating an attractive feminine image. From clothing and hair to makeup and shoes – the list can seem endless!
If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman preparing for your male to female makeover, you’re in the right place.
To help you stay organized, I’ve crafted a simple Flawless Feminine Image Checklist.
Can you confidently answer “YES” to these 10 questions?
If you can, you’re all set to showcase your fabulous feminine self to the world!
10 Elements of a Flawless Feminine Image
1. Is your shapewear helping to enhance your feminine curves?
Your body’s silhouette powerfully communicates your gender identity to the world. Are you using the right undergarments to achieve your ideal feminine shape?
Here are some recommended items to have in your wardrobe:
- Breast forms
- A properly fitting bra
- Waist cincher or shaping camisole
- Padded panties with butt and hip padding
- Control top pantyhose or tights
While you don’t need to wear all of these pieces at once, they’re good to have on hand in case you want to enhance your shape to match a specific outfit.
2. Are you wearing stylish and flattering clothes that suit your body shape?
Selecting the right clothing is crucial to achieving a polished look. Opt for stylish and flattering clothes that complement your body shape and personal style.
Understanding your body proportions will help you choose outfits that not only fit well but also enhance your femininity.
3. Does your makeup look natural, well-balanced, and attractive?
A common makeup mistake, especially for those just starting their male-to-female makeup journey, is going overboard. When presenting as a woman, it’s important to avoid this error.
In most cases, a light and natural makeup look is the way to go. However, there are two exceptions to keep in mind:
- If you have darker coloring, you can opt for deeper and bolder shades.
- When heading out for an evening event, you can embrace higher-intensity makeup to suit the occasion.
4. Is your skincare routine giving you a clear and radiant complexion?
A clear and radiant complexion is the foundation of any feminine image. Develop a skincare routine tailored to your skin type that includes cleansing, moisturizing, and sun protection.
Regular exfoliation and hydration will leave your skin glowing and ready to showcase your makeup skills.
5. Does your hairstyle flatter your face shape with a feminine touch?
Beautiful hair is an important part of your overall image. To soften masculine facial features, choose a hairstyle with soft waves or layers. Stay away from angular styles.
Shiny hair makes you look sexy and youthful, so use a smoothing serum if you have dry or frizzy hair. I like Garnier Fructis Sleek & Shine Anti-Frizz Serum for Frizzy, Dry Hair.
If you wear a wig, be sure to wash it regularly and use a finishing spray like Bonfi Natural Oil-Free Wig Shine Spray.
6. Do you exude confidence and poise through your body language and gestures?
Confidence is the key to a flawless feminine image. Work on exuding confidence and poise through your body language and gestures.
Stand tall, maintain eye contact, and move gracefully. Confidence is not only attractive but also empowering.
7. Have you been practicing a feminine voice and communication skills?
Perfecting a feminine voice and honing your communication skills are essential aspects of your transformation.
Seek guidance from voice coaches or speech therapists to help you achieve a voice that aligns with your feminine image.
Effective communication is the bridge that connects your inner self with the world.
8. Are your nails well-groomed and looking their best?
Your hands and nails are often noticed, so keeping them well-groomed is essential.
Regular manicures, proper nail care, and choosing feminine nail colors can enhance your overall image.
9. Are you wearing jewelry and accessories that complement your outfit?
Accessorizing can elevate your outfit and add a personal touch to your style. Choose jewelry and accessories that complement your clothing and express your unique taste.
From statement necklaces to elegant earrings, the right pieces can complete your look beautifully.
10. Are you embracing your unique femininity and staying true to yourself?
Above all, remember to embrace your unique femininity and stay true to yourself.
Your journey is about self-expression and authenticity. Be proud of who you are, and let your inner beauty shine through!
In Conclusion
If you answered “yes” to each of the questions on this checklist, then congratulations! Now it’s time to step out and enjoy your flawless feminine image.
Be sure to keep this checklist handy so you can refer to it each time you present yourself as a woman.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Is there anything you would add to this list? Please share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
We all can’t be a perfect 10 so just do the best you can.
I try to take pride in who I am.
I wish I could do all of those things listed.
Oops! I forgot to confess that I don’t wear shapewear, just think about it from time to time.
There’s a thought-provoking list! I can’t say that I am perfect on all of those questions, and maybe a C minus on some. I often end up with a purse that doesn’t quite match, due to no time to transfer contents. Someday I’ll get a little bag with the essentials, and just toss it into the correct purse. I often have to wear shoes that are definitely “old lady”, but then usually tennies are just right here in Casualville. Heels are very rare footwear for me. I think my clothing is done well. I am sometimes overdressed for one occasion, by coming from a more dressy event earlier. I’m a complete failure at checking my backside. Something to work on… Thanks for the reminders.
Great article Lucille, I can answer yes to all except #5 (accessories)and #7 (which purse). I don’t have many purses and try to stay like neutral in styles. I’ve never been out to any kind of special event where I’d have to wear a gown or get really dolled up so I think that’s why the couple of purses I have work out well except for maybe I can use some contrasting colors. If I did get to go to an event, I’d get a purse for a fancier outfit for sure though. As for accessories, I was never very good with jewelry. I understand the concept, but I’m just not all that good with what to wear.
One of the things I can point out too that wasn’t mentioned on hair removed is the hair on your back and shoulders. It’s not very lady like to have hair on your back or shoulders when you wear a backless dress or top and if you go with a halter, for sure you better have cleaned off all the hair there.
My wife doesn’t support me in the least and I just LOVE my fem side. It’s funny when I point out the flaws to her that genetic women do with these 10 things and she gets kind of disgusted sometimes that I can do it. However, she’s always asking me what to wear or do the shoes match with the outfit or other items on the list when we have an event to be at that she wants to look her best and it’s like she never cares when I tell her and then boy does she get flattered when we are there, but I never hear a thank you or that I chose well for her. Sometime I just want to cry, but I like that I am successful with what I’ve suggested.
Dear Lucille, if I wear a long black skirt & a nice white button down blouse does ( the skirt is below the knee but doesn’t go down to the ankle) & wear nice pair of heels; does this make me look recognizable as a MtF & not a proper lady,
Also why control top pantyhose vs sheet to
Waist pantyhose? you
Lucille,
I am 68 and I sure you are speaking to those younger than myself. The only makeup I am using is lipstick and the clothes I wear are denim short, white socks and tennis shoes and a t-shirt. As much as the girl within wants to I need to control her desires as she still thinks she 20 yrs old. My hair is growing back slowly from my chemo and it coming in gray.
I think the only tip on the check list that I can yes to is #9. The removal of excessive hair. I’m fortunate that I have very little hair that needs tending to. Most of it either got zapped by electrolysis or it just fell off by itself. #10 checking yourself out from behind is a good idea. However, I don’t check back there before I go out. I check it out before I shower. I want to know that my exercise is making a difference.
Hon, You look Great!! I Love everything I see especially your complextion. Your face is beautiful, smooth, clean looking skin. All my best!!
Thank you, Breanna! About 2 yrs ago I started to take skin care more seriously. It’s helped my complexion quite a bit.