When it comes to expressing your gender identity, navigating labels can be tricky. For those identifying as transgender or non-binary, finding the right words is essential.
Obviously, it’s important for people to use language that respects and reflects your identity. Outdated or offensive terms can be hurtful.
However, it’s important to remember that you’re more than just a label!
Ultimately, what matters most is how you personally want to be addressed, regardless of where you fall on the gender spectrum.
So, let’s talk about it!
Do you have a particular term or label that resonates with you – such as crossdresser, transgender woman, non-binary person, or something else?
I’m eager to hear your thoughts, so let’s continue the conversation in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
Being labeled is just another way to create class caste’s and that is to make the lower classes less human (or not human) and there by okay to harm them verbally or physically. America is moving towards a simple class system of rich and poor, were the rich see to it that the poor are always fighting among themselves, because of silly things like skin color, gender, religion and a host of other things. Wake up and see that you are all the same and it is time to leave behind the games of the past. Abby is my label and anything that others add past that is most likely because of some fear or another they hold. People that come from a place of Love do not need Labels.
hi i see myself 100%female lesbian from sally anne mare
hiya lucille, i hate lables i am who i am, in my oppinion i am female, because i feel it every day, no matter what i may wear or how i sound, being true to yourself is the main factor which i do, it is hard enough transitioning without worring what lable you are as in what sociaty lables you as…. I am Lea cobb and that is what i am labled as
I have alway been a female inside. I call on my male when I have to fight. I call on my male when I have to control a problem. My female nature always reminds me not to take things to far. To balence control with understanding and not to take violence to far even when it is the only thing dominating my mind at the time. The only time I have ever truelly relaxed in this life was when I express my inner female. It has been odd in this life time to be a girl with a male body. I believe we choose to express different gender rolls in different life times so we learn both sides of the equation but that does not mean we have to like it! I can’t tell you how many times I have seen male souls in females and female souls in males. We are usually not really happy and I notice we don’t seem to fit in well with the other children in this glorified play we call life. So if you really need to label us I think the best label is found in statistics. Those that don’t fit into a statistical norm are called Outliers. Being an Outlier is nothing to be ashamed of. In fact it means you are not part of the herd mentallity and for that I say: “Good for You!” You have no idea how lucky you really are my multidimensional brothers and sisters. God bless you.
I TOO DON’T LIKE THE CLINICAL NAMES PEOPLE HAVE GIVEN TO US AND THE STEROTYPE THAT THEY PORTRAY ON JERRY SPRINGER AND OTHER SHOWS. THEY MAKE IT DIFFICULT FOR US THAT FEEL LIKE ANY OTHER WOMAN. I LIKE THE THINGS WOMAN WANT AND FEEL. SO WHEN A DOCTOR OR SOMEONE SAYS THAT I AM A TRANSSEXUAL I CORRECT THEM AND SAY I AM IN TRANSITION TO BE THE FEMALE I WANT TO BE AS THAT IS MY MIND SET. I HAVE BEEN INSTRUCTED BY MY THERAPIST THAT I HAVE TO BE CAREFUL DUE TO THE MANY DIFFERENT LAWS ON THE BOOKS IN MANY STATES. BUT I WILL ALWAYS THINK OF MYSELF AS BEING A FEMALE AND HOPE TO BE A COMPLETE WOMAN SOON.
I think labels are harsh, wrong, and unneeded. Yes I was born a boy but!! by the age of 11 yrs old I have wanted to be a girl. All through life I was called every name in the book.
My family claims to understand but when i dress like i want I get different looks from them but I DON’T LET THIS worry me on who I am.
Firstly a big thank you Lucille for all the info you give us.
I have never considered myself as transgender or any of the other labels, but only recently realized just how sensitive and sexual nipple play is. I started off by enlarging my nipples over a period of 3 months using small suction cups 10mins twice a day. After that i began to feel a stron drsire to enlarge my breasts and have been using a chinese suction cup to massage them just 10 mins every night with plenty of a plant based hydrating lotion. It has had results, so much so that i actually bought my first bra and loved wearing it, but I want my breasts bigger without surgery or using real hormones.I recently discovered Lucille’s website and have now ordered some Fenugreek capsules, waiting for them to arrive and hope that they will help.
I guess my dream would be to be bodily a she/male the pleasure of having breasts but also having the male parts in good working order. From what I have read it looks like this is possible using the plant oestrogens.
My friends and family would think that I am a nut, but I am sure every man has a feminine side to him and I am enjoying
finding the real me.
Blessings,
Josh.
I hate labels I’m stuck in a man body but feel very female.I never go out without dressing in my bra,panties,and stockings even when I go to work I’m wearing my bra with breasts.So if I was ti have a label it would have to crossdreaser and proud of it.Very few people know that I wear my bra and panries everyday Love Dawn