Do you aspire to be a beautiful MTF transgender woman or crossdresser? If so, you’re in the right place!
But first, what makes someone attractive? Is it just having a pretty face or the “perfect” body? Absolutely not.
Attractiveness goes beyond just the way you look. It’s also about how you carry yourself, how you engage with others, and the vibe you give off!
In this blog post, I’ll share 6 simple habits to help you boost your attractiveness when presenting as a woman. Let’s dive in!
Habit #1: Self-Care Matters
No amount of makeup, breast forms, or high heels can rival the allure that comes from a well-nourished body, regular exercise, and quality sleep.
Taking care of yourself not only enhances your looks but also signals self-respect, a highly attractive quality.
Habit #2: Show Some Skin, But Not Too Much
Beautiful women exude sensuality, so it’s natural to want to express your sexy side. Show off your best feminine assets – whether it’s a peek of skin here or a little leg there.
Just remember that balance is the key. Revealing too much looks desperate, rather than attractive.
Habit #3: Embrace Passion
Passionate women are attractive. If you’ve lost your lust for life, it’s time to break out of your rut.
Be somebody who tries new things and has interesting things to talk about. (Luckily, crossdressers and transgender women are some of the most interesting people in the world!)
The best way to get out of a rut? Do something scary every day. I recommend the book Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway for more on this topic.
Habit #4: Care For Your Hair
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Full, shiny hair projects youth, beauty, vitality, and femininity, so make this a priority when presenting yourself as a woman.
Whether it’s your own hair or a high-quality wig, gorgeous hair can take you from blah to beautiful.
Habit #5: Be Positive
Do you know anybody who is constantly complaining? It’s a huge turn off, isn’t it? There’s nothing appealing about drama and negativity.
People are naturally drawn towards positive, uplifting energy, so let your attitude do the attracting.
Habit #6: Exude Confidence
Attractive women share one universal trait: confidence. The good news is that you don’t have to wait until you feel confident to start exuding it.
Confident body language – standing tall, maintaining eye contact, and wearing a smile – will give you an allure that attracts others effortlessly.
What traits do you find attractive?
Becoming a beautiful MTF transgender woman or crossdresser goes beyond physical looks. Your presentation, attitude, and energy matter just as much.
Which traits do you consider essential for an attractive woman? Please share your thoughts in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
P.S. Looking for even more ways to enhance your feminine image? If so, you will love my FREE 3-part Male to Female Transformation Mini Course.
Everything is what it is. Seems like going out in drag gives me confidence to perform better behind closed doors.
Lucille, thank you for all your great tips and wonderful advice. Your website has helped many of us to be better people, to fit into our society and to combat self doubt. True confidence comes from within when we are content and comfortable with who we are, knowing that we are our best self we can be at this moment. Not necessarily in appearance, for this is temporary. And it’s not by being great in our own eyes or thinking we are better than anyone else or putting on a facade to make others believe we are something that we are not. But by recognizing our self worth and realizing that we can always improve ourselves, our situations and our surroundings. We become a person of value and a benefit to others when we believe in ourselves. Thank you Lucille.:)
Morgan,
You are a great example of what this post states.Over the years you have been an outstanding contributer to this site.Thank you.
Indeed! Although it is not likely in my lifetime I will continue to work towards making progress in this direction and possibly within my grandchildren’s lifetime?
Hi Cynthia!
That would be wonderful, wouldn’t it?
On the subject of our being true to ourselves and not judging others or us by how we appear. Society’s need for complete acceptance of everyone’s rights to their own outward appearance is my greatest hope for the future. Although we all have our own opinion on presenting I don’t believe that any person has the right to make judgments on other people nor should we expect everyone else to accept our choices but merely accept our rights to express in our genuine selves in a way we are comfortable and complete. I see our community as having tremendous value for society if judgment could be removed then our value could be fully realized. Habit #5 is my strongest motivation.
I was just thinking about putting on a facade to make folks think we are what we are not. I’m shy, a Swedish trait I inherited. So one of my facades is to project non-shyness. It works for me!
Excellent tips and better still they are free or inexpensive to do!
I think the most important thing a warm, confident smile. As I was practicing my walk while out with my dog the other day I decided to concentrate on smiling also. I used to smile all the time but gradually stopped over the years and I don’t know why. I find when I smile it improves my attitude and my confidence as well as those I meet.
Hugs and Smiles,
Jenny Dee
I find confidence was my best feature when being out in this world. When I had confidence, people noticed. They complimented me on my look and outfits and some men have approached me. But if I haven’t had free time to be my femme self for a long while, my confidence diminishes and I struggle with it again.
I believe confidence and commitment to be who we were chosen to be. I didn’t choose to be a cd or do drag or even to be gay for that matter, it all chose me and I have no regrets what so ever. I always love the articles here and the comments. I have been out for a long time now. I think I became committed early on. The first time I put it all together I was 13. I stood in front of a full length mirror and fell totally in love with the young girl looking back at me. I decide right then at that moment I loved myself and my look so much more than my boy persona. Thank you Lucille and all that commented, Jackie…..
Thank you Jackie
Thank you for your lovely comment, Jackie! I love the conversations that happen here.
Thanks lucille you are a rock for meu
I’m a 76 year old sissy girl I still love dressing up and looking pretty I belong to a very exclusive club you would be surprised by some of our members well known
I love the positivity that makes me smile and laugh. Everyone is drawn to and loves positive happy people. That has been a tough go in 2020, butt I seem to have been able to smile and show a caring, honest and truly uplifting attitude, that can be seen through a mask. My eyes tell a lot and I keep my appearance in tip top shape. Have taken several eye make up classes on line and what a difference. I call them my Happy Eyes, cause that’s all most people see now. Stay happy, stay positive and try to encourage all those that may be in a negative or depressed state to look beyond the dark clouds to the sun still shining above. Kisses to all, Lia
Terrific article. Out of everything you said, confidence is #1 in my book. I am en femme sporadically of late and when I do get a chance to go out if it has been a while I do my best to stand tall (and I’m already 6’1″ without the 4″ heels I always wear), walk/strut with confidence and smile when I walk into a room. I love the feeling! Looking forward to getting out there again soon!
Love,
Nicole
Thank you, Nicole! I’m so glad you enjoyed this post.