I know your goal is to unleash your most alluring female self. You don’t want to be just any woman – you want to be that mythical creature… the highly attractive woman.
But what makes a woman attractive? Is it simply having a pretty face or “perfect” body?
Definitely not.
Being attractive is about more than just your physical appearance. It’s also about the way you present yourself, how you interact with people, and the energy you radiate.
Ready to turn your attractiveness up a few notches?
In this article, created specifically for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 6 habits of highly attractive women:
Habit #1: Take good care of yourself
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| Transgender model, Carmen Carrera @carmen_carrera |
Eating well, exercising, and getting enough sleep will give you a glow that can’t be matched with makeup. Taking care of your body doesn’t just make you look good, it also shows the world that you respect yourself – another highly attractive quality.
Habit #2: Show some skin, but not too much
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| Transgender model and advocate, Geena Rocero @geenarocero |
Attractive women are in touch with their sensuality, so don’t hide your sexy side! Show off your best feminine assets – whether it’s a peek of skin here or a little leg there. Just remember that balance is the key. Revealing too much looks desperate, rather than attractive.
Habit #3: Be passionate
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| Transgender model Amiyah Scott @kingamiyahscott |
Passionate women are attractive. If you’ve lost your lust for life, it’s time to break out of your rut. Be somebody who engages with life, tries now things, and has interesting things to talk about. (Luckily, crossdressers and transgender women are some of the most interesting people in the world!)
The best way to get out of a rut? Do something scary every day. I recommend the book Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway for more on this topic.
Habit #4: Care for your hair
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| Transgender actress and model Jamie Clayton @msjamieclayton |
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Full, shiny hair projects youth, beauty, vitality, and femininity, so make this a priority when presenting yourself as a woman. Whether it’s your own hair or a high-quality wig, gorgeous hair can take you from blah to beautiful.
Habit #5: Be positive
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| Transgender fitness trainer and model Erika Ervin |
Do you know anybody who is constantly complaining? It’s a huge turn off, isn’t it? There’s nothing appealing about drama and negativity. People are naturally drawn towards positive, uplifting energy, so let your attitude do the attracting.
Habit #6: Exude confidence
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| Transgender actress and advocate Laverne Cox @lavernecox |
Attractive women share one universal trait: confidence. The good news is that you don’t have to wait until you feel confident to start exuding it. Confident body language – i.e., standing tall, looking people in the eye, and smiling – will give you a confident look that attracts others like bees to honey.
Which traits do you find most attractive?
Being your most attractive feminine self is about more than just looks. Your presentation, attitude, and energy are just as important!
Which traits do you think are essential to being an attractive woman?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
P.S. Looking for even more ways to enhance your feminine image? If so, you will love my FREE 3-part Male to Female Makeover Course.
I LOVE this topic! I endorse all the tips. Even though my hair is old and thin, I do the best I can and it is usually ok. My legs are good but the surface is starting to show age, so tights or pantyhose are almost a necessity. I can still show some skin, though. I especially like tips 3, 5, and 6: Passionate, Positive, Confident. Judging by how I am received by my public, they work really well for me. So many people would well be more attractive if they had more passion. But they have a ho-hum attitude about most things I really love or feel for. Disappointing. I try to infect them with positivity anyway. It’s a challenge, but rewarding when it works.
So glad you enjoyed this topic, Joan! I just love people with passion and zest for life.
Hi Lucille
Thanks for sharing this informative and positive post especially at this trying time. Many of us have such a difficult time getting through our journey it’s good to have somewhere to turn for great advice. Staying positive about who you are or who you want to be is essential, fortunately I have had so many wonderful experiences going public I know how lucky I am but being proud of who you are is paramount. For many many years I told myself that I could never pass as female but when I finally found the courage to transition being proud of what I was doing made all the difference. I’m sure most people I interact with know I’m trans and I don’t much care, I love my life as Stephanie, I know I will never be particularly attractive but I make the most of what I have. I will certainly never hide being trans, I’m not ashamed of what I’ve done even if some of my close family are, there are many advantages of seeing life from both sides and I make the most of them!
Thanks and love to you all from Western Australia xxx
Hi Lucille,
This blog is so useful in many ways, I agree with being positive, and taking care of your health are definitely keys to being attractive. Thanks for this informative piece and for all you do for TG community.
Hugs
Lynn
Thank you for the kind words, Lynn!
CONFIDENCE is all you need. Believe in yourself and the beauty will shine. There were times when my Makeup was flawless and my clothes were fierce. My nerves trembled and my back slouched and I was the ugly duckling. But when I stand tall, with my shoulders back, chin up, no hesitation in my speech, step or stance, I am the Goddess that I was born to be. Known, heard, respected and loved. No you don’t have to be flamboyant and loud to be noticed just believe in yourself and your beauty and others will too
U R sizzling HOT Ms Domannique!
You ARE a goddess, wow!
Thank you very much.
In the kitchen with Teri. Perhaps a better picture than my previous post.
Enjoying a libation at Deton Public House.
I love being me where ever I go. I struggle with make up. Part of that is deciding my comfort level with where I am in the crossdressing spetrum.
A voyage of discovery!
Dear Lucille
‘On point’ tips and advice, as always. As I see it, being self-confident is key to being accepted as a confident, attractive person.
I take extra care to make sure I can look as feminine as possible.