Did you know you only have 7 seconds to make a first impression?
If you want to start crossdressing or presenting yourself as a woman, making a strong first impression is key!
In this blog post, I’ll share 7 easy ways to ensure you leave a feminine first impression that lasts. Let’s dive in!
1. Know What You Want to Project
Start by figuring out what image you want to project:
- Do you aim to blend in as an everyday girl?
- Or do you prefer to stand out as a gender-bending fashion diva?
- Do you want to be recognized for your style and sophistication?
- Or do you simply want people to notice your great legs? 🙂
Knowing your desired image helps you align your appearance and attitude with your goals.
2. Be Aware of Your Body Language
Body language is critical to first impressions. You never want to look nervous, shy, or on the opposite end of the spectrum, arrogant.
Instead, project the image of a classy, confident lady deserving of respect.Â
For more on this topic, check out these 27 MTF Body Language Mistakes to Avoid for a Flawless Feminine Image.
3. Wear The Right Color
Did you know that 50% of all non-verbal messages come from color? It’s true!
The colors you wear have a strong impact on how people perceive you, especially when presenting as a woman.
In this blog post, I share the meanings of different colors so you can choose shades that flatter you and boost your confidence.
4. Check your Grooming Habits
Physical attractiveness often boils down to self-care – grooming, neat hair, and stylish clothes.
Luckily, your presentation is within your control! Don’t underestimate the power of good grooming – it can make or break a first impression.Â
Here are 5 feminine grooming habits to incorporate into your routine.
5. Mind your Shapewear
The shape of your body powerfully broadcasts your gender expression in an instant. To appear as feminine as possible, consider investing in quality shapewear, such as:
- High-quality breast forms
- A waist cincher or corset
- Hip and butt padding
Shapewear helps create the right body proportions and feminine curves.
6. Dress for the Occasion
Have you ever found yourself overdressed or underdressed for a particular occasion? Not only do you feel awkward, but you stick out like a sore thumb!
Ensure a positive first impression by dressing appropriately for the occasion and adhering to local style norms.
7. Accessorize for Impact
Accessories can make or break an outfit and your first impression.
A high-quality handbag or beautiful shoes can elevate your look, while scuffed shoes or mismatched accessories can do the opposite.
Add the right touches, such as beautiful jewelry or a flattering pair of sunglasses, to enhance your feminine appearance.
What impression do YOU want to make?
There’s a lot to be said about this topic, but I’ve highlighted the most important areas you should consider.
Now I’d like to hear from you!
What’s the first impression that YOU want to make? Do you have any tips to add to this list?
I’d love to hear from you, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Thank you Lucille for this message. Your right on the mark in every point you make. I tend to believe that a relaxed feminine self confidence which further creates an our attitude, is what drives body language. nervous and stiff gets one read instantly. This holds true at any age. personally I want to blend in, and being that I am transitioning late in life I am more observant of women my age , they’re fashions ,body language etc. while not compromising who I am, and what I like. But it takes time to develop all this. Hypnosis has helped alot with the relaxing part. 😉
Thanks Lucille. I know you cover a lot of great topics and its appreciated. One of the biggest mistakes I see from other transwomen is overdressing and too much makeup. Not dressing your age for example, or trying to look extra sexy to draw attention to your clothes and not the girl inside them. Makeup shouldn’t be applied with a putty knife or mortar trowel (that’s what some look like). Appearance is important as body language. Walking to a construction site in 5″ heels won’t cut it any more than mukluks at the club. (Referring to one’s stance).
Guilty as charged.
Dear Lucille. Everything you say si exelentbut I would be happy for one thing that is not in your blogs. It is that you are contentracing only on young girls about 16-25 years old. In contrary your tips is more difficult to use of women 30-40-50 years old. Oh yes many tips can be used by older girls but by 50-60 there are not much for them. Even most papers are just only handel advertisings and tips for th first group. Can we older girls count on that you give us a little more of your tips. For ex- how to dress up at later years. Mostely we do not have the younger girls bodys anymore.
Greetings from Jullan
I agree, I live in a rural area an I don’t find that all of her tips apply. something along the lines of your comment would be appreciated
I agree with you completely. I am in my 50s and don’t need to know about what not to do as a 20 or 30 year old.
Hi, Girls
Those are nice tips to consider. Sometimes I think I try all the image options mentioned. Not too heavy on the diva though; I try to be realistic. I try to pass, but not obsess about it. When it works: happiness. Body language is very revealing. It’s too easy to relax and fall into a sloppy mode. Constant vigilance needed. Even if it doesn’t always happen, it’s good to try as much as possible to keep reinforcing the habit. I’m lucky that most colors work for me, and I usually prefer them bright when appropriate. Grooming essentials are necessary, but cosmetics should not be overdone, unless that’s the intent for special occasions. I think fondly of the woman who insisted on wearing makeup even on a backpacking trip, and impressed one fellow so much they eventually married, and have been happy ever after. I love the eye contact tip. It shows the world that you are you. Another good idea: smile often and well. It’s another body language aspect. When you project positive, people are more likely to see you in a positive way. If you look sour, they could follow your suggestion and look for reasons to be sour about you. And, notice that men spend a lot of time looking down at the mouth, and that includes many men trying to look like women. Dead giveaway.
Keep your spirits up, girls!
The impression is that of a feminine presence. Even if we’re not able to dazzle with appearance, it doesn’t prevent from captivating with feminine energy. Others tend to focus on what they want to see in us. It’s not always about great legs. Sometimes it’s about warmth , sensitivity, grace and the confidence we portray as females.
Married to a lady who doen’t know or understand my passion so looking forward to going to my lovers, both getting dolled up in high end, classy but clingy outfits, then going for drinks and maybe even have some bought for us
Your comment on body language was oh so appropriate. I just saw “The Danish Girl” and for those that did see the movie, take note of the amount of time that Lili took practicing feminine gestures. Danaer Doyle at Femimage has some really good tapes on feminine gestures. You may have some too
Hi Lucille. Good you are preaching this message. It needs to be heard. It’s our theme over on Sister House. I really get tired of hearing TS girls say it’s all about the clothes for crossdressers and fail to understand that it’s your choice of clothes and how you wear them that leave those first impressions. Take a look at our Stylish Crossdressers (http://www.sisterhouse.net/dressingroom/). It makes a difference