Did you know you only have 7 seconds to make a first impression?
After that, a person’s judgments have been made and are almost impossible to change.
So how can you be sure people see you as the fabulous female that you are?
I won’t lie… good looks help. But it’s often the little details that make or break a first impression.
Here are my top 5 ways to make a feminine first impression:
1. Know what you want to project
First, you have to know what you want to project:
- Is your goal to blend in as an everyday girl?
- Or do you want to stick out as a gender-bending fashion diva?
- Do you want to be recognized for your style and sophistication?
- Or do you simply want people to notice your great legs? 🙂
When you know what you want to project, you can then determine if your appearance and attitude get the message across.
2. Be aware of your body language
Body language is critical to first impressions. You never want to look nervous, ashamed, or on the opposite end of the spectrum, arrogant.
Your posture and body language should tell the world that you’re a classy, confident woman who deserves respect.
Here are 27 body language mistakes that can detract from a feminine first impression. Avoid them at all costs!
3. Wear the right color
Did you know that 50% of all non-verbal messages come from color? Amazing but true!
The color you wear has a strong subconscious impact on how people perceive you – especially when you present yourself as a woman.
Different colors have different meanings (more on that here), so consider what the colors that you wear communicate.
Even more importantly, you should wear colors that flatter you and make you feel great.
4. Check your grooming habits
Studies show that physical attractiveness is mostly based on “self care” – that is, good grooming, neat hair, and nice clothes.
That’s great news because presentation is something you can control! After all, most of us weren’t born supermodels, but anyone can take the time to look the part.
Grooming can make or break a first impression, so be sure your standards are up to par. Here are 5 feminine grooming habits that should be part of your regular routine.
5. Make eye contact
Your eyes reveal more about you than you probably realize. Avoiding eye contact gives the impression that you have low self-esteem or have something to hide.
Confident eye contact puts people at ease and wins respect. That’s definitely a plus for a positive first impression.
So be bold, look people in the eye, and don’t forget to smile!
What kind of impression do YOU want to make?
There’s a lot to be said about this topic, but I’ve highlighted the most important areas you should consider.
Now I’d like to hear from you!
What’s the first impression YOU want to make? Do you have any tips to add to this list?
I’d love to hear from you, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
transformation tips?
Another great article – For me it’s all about body language in the first instance. Having spent years watching deportment videos as well as observing how women move I feel like I’m getting there. I spend 30 minutes a day (when I’m Diane) in front of my wardrobe mirrors and watch and study my every move with a critical eye – sounds tedious I know but worth it to me.
Hi Lucille
Very informative article, I think of my self as a classy and elegant woman in my opinion is very important the manners and the selection of the clothes and colors .
Love Joanna ♡ xoxo
Joanna, those dresses are to die for, I’m just green with envy. LOL. They are beautiful.
Much love
Tina D. H.
Thank you Tina!! xo
Interesting tips, Lucille, and if the first meeting is crucial, and we must be more consistent with the female figure, no hair, panty hose or unpainted broken slippers.
And the vocabulary is important.Therefore that although the monkey dressed in silk is cute.
Happy Day of Love and Friendship Girls 2016
Hi Lucille
I always think of my self as a classy and elegant woman and that isThe way i want to live the rest of my life when I make full transition, good manners and present ourselves with dignity in my opinion is the most important thing for the transgerder woman as always very helpful article thanks. Love Joanna ❤
Hi, I am very much interested to increase the size of my buttock.
Can anyone suggest the most effective way or the supplements.
Hi
Lie down on your belly and try to raise your straight legs one by one. 30 times each leg in 1 set. 2 or 3 sets a day. It really helps.
Squats and deadlifts with as much weight as you can lift. Free hand squats work but they take much longer to do and to work. Be careful what you wish for, my bum is the size of a truck.
All The Best,
Katty-Anne
People often address me as a woman—Ma’am—even when I’m dressed as a man, possibly because I’m only 5 foot 4 inches in height. However, they quickly apologize as soon as I open my mouth, so I guess that is what I should work on…
proper accessories to accent clothes does the trick for me.
Scarfs, gloves, tinted/sunglasses, not gaudy, too-high heels,
shoes that march, do it for me w/ Women and T-GIRLS.
IT’S true! that first impression will put you on equal footing, so to speak, especially when leading up to intimacy with either.
Hi as one of my sister has already written your tips are only for younger generation what about older crossdresser Though for new genration lot many new tachinch have come and lot many assosery are available in our younger years these things were not there at least now if we are guided we can full fill our desire thanks