There’s nothing like silky smooth skin to make a girl feel extra feminine!
For crossdressers and transgender women, hair removal plays a big role in creating a feminine appearance. But when you’re dealing with lots of face or body hair, things can easily go wrong.
The secret to a smooth, hair-free chest, soft feminine face, and silky smooth legs lies in avoiding some common mistakes.
Here are 5 MTF hair removal mistakes to avoid – and what to do instead!
Mistake #1: Not Exfoliating
All methods of hair removal can cause ingrown hairs, particularly in the beard, chest, and bikini area. You can reduce ingrown hairs by exfoliating your skin 2-3 times per week. This helps get rid of dead skin cells that can trap the hair.
To exfoliate, gently massage your skin with a washcloth, loofah, or exfoliating scrub. My favorite tool is The Body Shop’s exfoliating Body Polisher washcloth. You can find similar exfoliating clothes on Amazon.
It’s important to note that exfoliating immediately after hair removal can irritate the skin. Instead, it’s best to exfoliate either right before or a few days after the hair removal process.
Mistake #2: Forgetting to Moisturize
Dry skin is another cause of ingrown hairs, so it’s important to keep your skin hydrated. (Besides, you want the added benefit of soft, smooth skin, right?)
Pure aloe vera gel is a great moisturizer to use immediately after hair removal. Aloe vera is a natural moisturizer and skin soother.
Another option is to use an unscented lotion or body oil. Perfumed lotions can irritate freshly shaved, waxed, or lasered skin, so avoid them for the first 24 hours after hair removal.
Mistake #3: Not Treating Ingrown Hairs
Exfoliating and moisturizing your skin can help prevent future ingrown hairs. But what should you do about existing ingrown hair bumps?
First, let’s talk about what NOT to do. Resist the temptation of shaving over the ingrown hairs or attempting to extract them with a needle. These actions can lead to infections and scarring.
Instead, try using a specialized ingrown hair treatment like Tend Skin or PFB Vanish. These products are designed reduce razor bumps and ingrown hairs.
Mistake #4: DIY Hair Removal Gone Wrong
Professional waxing, electrolysis, and laser hair removal treatments are expensive, so it can be tempting to try to do them on your own.
However, be careful as some DIY hair removal techniques can lead to painful side effects if your technique isn’t perfect. Here are some pitfalls to watch out for:
Waxing – Mistakes to avoid
Newbie waxing mistakes – like waxing over the same area twice, pulling the hairs in different directions, or pulling too hard – can lead to rashes, bruises, and torn skin. Ouch!
If you still want to do it yourself, I recommend investing in a professional waxing treatment first, so you can observe and learn the proper techniques.
Laser hair removal – Mistakes to avoid
Home laser hair removal systems can save you a lot of money compared to professional treatments. However, it’s important to understand the risks (including burns, scars, and hyperpigmentation) if the devices are not used correctly.
Proceed with caution, take your time, and carefully follow the provided instructions.
Electrolysis – Mistakes to avoid
While there are some home electrolysis machines available, I do not recommend venturing down this path.
Performing electrolysis hair removal is a complex process, which is why professional electrologists are required to obtain licenses.
Not only are most home electrolysis machines unreliable, but there’s also a considerable risk of burning or scarring yourself. It’s best to consult a professional electrologist for this particular procedure.
Mistake #5: Going for the Biggest Bargain
I’m all for beauty bargains, but don’t let price be your sole criteria when choosing a provider for hair removal treatments.
Opting for an ultra-cheap price tag may result in a waxing service that leaves behind stray hairs or a laser treatment that yields patchy results. In the worst-case scenario, you could even end up with burns or scars.
Check the qualifications of the person treating you and read the reviews on any place you are considering. Yelp is your friend!
Also, keep in mind that upscale places tend to put more emphasis on comfortable treatments. If you’re a waxing or laser wimp like me, it’s worth spending a bit more for a less painful experience.
In conclusion
To achieve silky, soft, feminine skin, it’s crucial to avoid these common MTF hair removal mistakes. This is a major DO for any crossdresser or transgender woman.
Now that you’re aware of the don’ts to steer clear of, here are some articles that delve deeper into the topic of hair removal:
- Transgender Body Hair Removal – Which Method is Best for You?
- MTF Facial Hair Removal: Top 8 Ways To Remove Or Reduce Beard Hair
- Permanent Hair Removal: What Really Works? (Male to Female Transformation Tips)
- Bikini Hair Removal Tips for Your Male to Female Transformation
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts. What are your preferred hair removal methods, and do you have any additional tips to share?
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Love,
Lucille
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For the past year I have been a big fan of removing all my body hair via sugaring. Sugaring is like waxing but healthier for your skin. I have my entire body done at Humble Bee Hair Removal and they tell me my hair removal will eventually become permanent. I also use a loofah every day over my whole body, as well as coconut oil to moisturize my body. Each morning when I put on my thigh high stocking, panty hose or tights, I feel very feminine with my silky smooth legs. I get compliments on my legs from my Mary Kay rep, as well as the women nail and hair salons.
It takes up some time but it works. At home laser gun..
Ah yes one of my old enemies and reminders , body hair. I have had wax and sugar treatments . The Sugar Treatments were better , left my skin in better conditions . Unfortunately because of a skin condition I can have laser or IPL treatments on my body . Sugar treatments are similar to waxing . Except they don’t hurt, no red or pink Mark’s, hair is completely removed . Skin is left feeling treated, smooth and in better condition.
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I am not yet on HRT. I shave and use a Phillps Lumea every fortnite.
The difference is incredible compared to regular shaving to the extent that my girlfriends all want to come over for treatment because my legs are softer than theirs!
My wife is in charge of my feminization. She has focused first on hair removal, and insisted on permanent methods.
Laser / IPL did not work well for me, so she had electrolysis done instead. My pubic hair has already been completely removed. It worked extremely well, there’s been no regrowth whatsoever.
I don’t really think electrolysis is significantly slower or more expensive than laser. Compare 6-8 laser sessions over a year with annual touch-ups forever versus a dozen electrolysis sessions over 6 months and no touch-ups.
I hate my body hair, it grows back so quick, I Use a braun epi / shaver, as well as shaving, I have used Nair creams, but i find them to messy, and they still leave hairs. My facial hair grows back after a shave within 4 to 6 hrs you can see the shadow through my foundation. Shaving gives me the best feeling, but boy the itch when it grows back. I use a product to help combat the itch. Strictly pro after wax lotion, it’s from Amazon and comes in a handy 1ltr pump bottle. I have Aloe and lavander. And tea tree and peppermint oil. I love them.
What do you think about IPL Hair removal? I came accross an article talking about IPLs and laser hair remval and the difference between the two and wanted to get your take on it. I would seem that IPL is a good route for a longer term slower hair supression method while laser might be quicker… it still takes weeks or months to get goot results.
A professional waxing is to me the best way to be smooth all over. It is also a humiliating and humbling experience to be lying there in all your glory. Getting a Brazilian wax with such a tiny sissy clittie is the way to go. I stay smoother longer and am gradually losing all those roots that reappear.