Of all the topics I cover on this blog, lingerie is definitely the most popular. And no wonder! There’s nothing like indulging your female self in a lacy bra or silk nightie.
While half the fun of lingerie is expressing your own personal style, there are certain “rules” worth keeping in mind…
So, are you following these rules? Find out by reviewing my top 7 MTF lingerie rules for crossdressers and transgender women.
Rule #1: Know Thy Bra Size
Most women wear the wrong bra size, so there’s a good chance that you might be too. A bra that doesn’t fit right is uncomfortable and creates unattractive bumps and bulges. No girl needs that!
Your best option is to be professionally fitted for your bra size. (Don’t be afraid to go in for a fitting. Many lingerie shops are transgender-friendly and welcome your business.)
To learn how to measure your own bra size, check out my article on How to Find Your MTF Bra Size (Transgender / Crossdressing Tips).
Rule #2: Avoid Visible Panty Lines
A bra strap peeking out of your top can be sexy. Visible panty lines? Not so much. Here are 5 ways to avoid VPL (visible panty lines):
- Make sure your panties fit right. If they’re too tight, they’ll dig in and create bulges. Too loose and they’ll wrinkle and bunch up.
- Try seamless underwear for a smoother look. Seamless panties are made without seams or trimmings that can show through clothes.
- Wear a thong. No visible panty lines there!
- Go for boyshorts. Boyshorts might not sound girly, but they’re actually really cute and don’t create panty lines.
- Avoid cotton panties. Cotton undies have a tendency to bunch up. Go for microfiber panties instead.
To learn more about choosing the right panties, check out my post on How to Choose the Perfect Panty (Transgender / Crossdressing Panties Style Guide).
Rule #3: Coordinate Your Bra And Panties
While the rule about matching your shoes and bag is outdated, your bra and panties should look like a set.
Mismatched lingerie looks sloppy and even if nobody sees it but you, why not look your best? The colors don’t have to be an exact match, but they should at least coordinate.
Rule #4: Choose High Quality Fabrics
Since lingerie is worn next to your body, fabric makes all the difference in the world. High quality fabrics feel great, lay more smoothly, and last longer.
Cheap fabrics wear out quickly and can even trap odors. (Eww!) Look for lingerie constructed with quality fabrics like jersey, silk, rayon, and cotton.
Rule #5: Know When To Say Goodbye
Do you own any ratty panties or stretched out bras? If so, toss them immediately.
It’s hard to feel sexy and feminine in worn out lingerie, so get rid of anything that’s lost its luster. Most lingerie items need to be replaced every 18 months or so.
Rule #6: Own More Than One Bra
To extend your bra’s life span, let your bra rest a day between wearings to keep the elastic from stretching out. If you only own one bra, that means it’s time to shop for another one (or 10!).
Rule #7: Buy Lingerie That Fits Your Lifestyle
Do you have a bunch of sexy underthings, yet nothing practical to wear under your clothes? Or maybe you lack certain feminizing shapewear pieces.
Lingerie should fit your lifestyle, so take stock. Are you missing anything from these categories?
- Basics – T-shirt bra, seamless panties, pantyhose, etc.
- Shapewear – Control cami, girdle, padded panties, pocketed bra for breast forms, etc.
- Sleepwear – Nightgown, robe, sleep bra, etc.
- Sexy – Lace bra and panties, body suit, garter, etc.
- Activewear – Sports bra, moisture wicking panties, etc.
Let’s talk lingerie!
What do you think of these lingerie rules? Do you agree with them? Do you have any lingerie rules of your own?
Please share in the comments below! And for bonus points, don’t forget to upload a photo of your favorite (PG) lingerie look.
Love,
Lucille
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I love wearing lingerie! A few years ago, my Cousin’s wife took a pair scissors to all of my lingerie as well as she ruined my breast forms with a box cutter. Ever since, I wear only size 44B bras as this is my natural breast size.
How terrible that your cousins wife would destroy all your lingerie. You should have sent her a bill, along with a strongly worded letter explaining that she needs to replace your property/possessions. It is against the law and shows no class at all. I am feeling so upset and it wasn’t even my lingerie. I cherish my sexy, silky, feminine lingerie and couldn’t imagine anybody cutting up my things. I’m so sorry. I wish I could help.
That really is disgusting and narrow minded behavior – it would have been a salutary experience had you returned the favour !
(Shhh, don’t tell anyone) among other items I have some tighty-whiteys, cotton of course, and I LOVE them, in hot weather. Satiny fabrics get wet, sticky, and uncomfortable, but cotton, ahh, just right. So much depends on conditions…
Sometimes my tights don’t snug up just right (I know, wrong size), and I tug up some sturdy bikini bottoms over them, to help them fit better. They come in all styles, and lively colors, so if they sometimes show a little, it’s ok.
I like t-shirts, so MUCH GRATITUDE for t-shirt bras. Just gotta keep that band bulge under control.
Ohhh, isn’t it FUN?
Lingerie helps, but if it isn’t inside you that you are a woman it is all window dressing.
I like always red satin bra
I love wearing a bra I feel naked without one my boobs r a 46 b and I wear breast forms so I can be a c cup
My natural boobs are size 44D and I am very proud of them.
I love to wear sexy lingerie and wear a lacy bra, matching G-string panties, suspender belt and stockings eveeryday. It gives me an extreme
feminine feeling and I simply love it.
I have such a huge collection of bras , panties , slips and more. they rarely wear out. I rotate my items . and always dress sexy and feminine
I wear a pocket bra to hold my breast forms in place (36C) andprfer wearing bikini panties. I also love the feeling of silky camisoles
I have natural boobies ( i am a 44B),and i am so proud of them.I also have very sensitive nipples and they feel great when they are clad in my lacy bras.I own about 15 .I prefer French knickers for the lower part of my Body.They give me the extra feminime Feeling.