Of all the topics I cover on this blog, lingerie is definitely the most popular. And no wonder! There’s nothing like indulging your female self in a lacy bra or silk nightie.
While half the fun of lingerie is expressing your own personal style, there are certain “rules” worth keeping in mind…
So, are you following these rules? Find out by reviewing my top 7 MTF lingerie rules for crossdressers and transgender women.
Rule #1: Know Thy Bra Size
Most women wear the wrong bra size, so there’s a good chance that you might be too. A bra that doesn’t fit right is uncomfortable and creates unattractive bumps and bulges. No girl needs that!
Your best option is to be professionally fitted for your bra size. (Don’t be afraid to go in for a fitting. Many lingerie shops are transgender-friendly and welcome your business.)
To learn how to measure your own bra size, check out my article on How to Find Your MTF Bra Size (Transgender / Crossdressing Tips).
Rule #2: Avoid Visible Panty Lines
A bra strap peeking out of your top can be sexy. Visible panty lines? Not so much. Here are 5 ways to avoid VPL (visible panty lines):
- Make sure your panties fit right. If they’re too tight, they’ll dig in and create bulges. Too loose and they’ll wrinkle and bunch up.
- Try seamless underwear for a smoother look. Seamless panties are made without seams or trimmings that can show through clothes.
- Wear a thong. No visible panty lines there!
- Go for boyshorts. Boyshorts might not sound girly, but they’re actually really cute and don’t create panty lines.
- Avoid cotton panties. Cotton undies have a tendency to bunch up. Go for microfiber panties instead.
To learn more about choosing the right panties, check out my post on How to Choose the Perfect Panty (Transgender / Crossdressing Panties Style Guide).
Rule #3: Coordinate Your Bra And Panties
While the rule about matching your shoes and bag is outdated, your bra and panties should look like a set.
Mismatched lingerie looks sloppy and even if nobody sees it but you, why not look your best? The colors don’t have to be an exact match, but they should at least coordinate.
Rule #4: Choose High Quality Fabrics
Since lingerie is worn next to your body, fabric makes all the difference in the world. High quality fabrics feel great, lay more smoothly, and last longer.
Cheap fabrics wear out quickly and can even trap odors. (Eww!) Look for lingerie constructed with quality fabrics like jersey, silk, rayon, and cotton.
Rule #5: Know When To Say Goodbye
Do you own any ratty panties or stretched out bras? If so, toss them immediately.
It’s hard to feel sexy and feminine in worn out lingerie, so get rid of anything that’s lost its luster. Most lingerie items need to be replaced every 18 months or so.
Rule #6: Own More Than One Bra
To extend your bra’s life span, let your bra rest a day between wearings to keep the elastic from stretching out. If you only own one bra, that means it’s time to shop for another one (or 10!).
Rule #7: Buy Lingerie That Fits Your Lifestyle
Do you have a bunch of sexy underthings, yet nothing practical to wear under your clothes? Or maybe you lack certain feminizing shapewear pieces.
Lingerie should fit your lifestyle, so take stock. Are you missing anything from these categories?
- Basics – T-shirt bra, seamless panties, pantyhose, etc.
- Shapewear – Control cami, girdle, padded panties, pocketed bra for breast forms, etc.
- Sleepwear – Nightgown, robe, sleep bra, etc.
- Sexy – Lace bra and panties, body suit, garter, etc.
- Activewear – Sports bra, moisture wicking panties, etc.
Let’s talk lingerie!
What do you think of these lingerie rules? Do you agree with them? Do you have any lingerie rules of your own?
Please share in the comments below! And for bonus points, don’t forget to upload a photo of your favorite (PG) lingerie look.
Love,
Lucille
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I noticed when wearing lingerie its helps to have
pantyhose that helps firm up the legs and stomach area,
there are brands that do that.
Also, I try not to get lingerie that fits to tight and shows
my problem area, a little loose is not a bad thing,,,
Colors seem important too, depending on your hair style
and skin tone, can also help in appearance.
Mostly, have fun with it and get your kicks, sure feels
girlie girl,,, hehe…
Thanks for the tips though you didn’t explain best ways to tuck the useless appendix to give the perfect female shape down there
Use kinesiology tape I use 5 ,5inch pieces, ya have to have hair shaved. Fold it down with testys pushed up in ya, fold loose skin over making lips. Rember to leave tip out like a clit so you can pee!!!! Apply tape this is not easy and will take practice. But this dose wor
You can also Google it. There are a few “how to” videos out there.
Love this topic Lucille. I love my lingerie. Make me feel so feminine when I put it on. I agree with all the rules. I enjoy shopping for new lingerie to add to my wardrobe
I’m going to make a blog of pictures of myself, looking sexy, in lingerie. Any suggestions to look my best?
Had my first sexy boudoir photo shoot 3 weeks ago. I’m picking up the jump drive of over 100 photos tomorrow!!! Can’t wait!!
I hadn’t thought of shapewear. Suppose I should look into that. I’m looking into doing some exercises to try to make myself look a little less square, so why I haven’t, I don’t know.
Totally agree with fitting lingerie to lifestyle. I’m living, privately, as a woman, so I’ve quite a casual wardrobe. When I want to feel sexy, then I’ll dress up, but day to day, I don’t feel the need.
I love wearing bras and swim suit tops{bras}.But i don’t have big breasts.Would like to have breasts but dont have the money for your products.
My question concerns breast.Is wild yam root cream from GNC good for breast growth.