Have you ever felt like you looked more feminine or attractive when you were younger?
If so, you’re not alone – many crossdressers and trans women have shared the same feeling with me.
The good news? You can look beautiful and feminine at any age!
While we can’t stop the clock, there are simple things you can do to recapture that youthful glow.
In this post, I’ll share 7 easy tips to help you look younger and feel more confident on your feminization transformation journey.
1. Choose the Right Hairstyle
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Long hair is undoubtedly feminine, but remember that excessively long hair can accentuate signs of aging.
Consider these styles for a fresh, youthful look:
- Shoulder length hair: Universally flattering and youthful.
- Bangs: Cute, youthful, and great for concealing forehead wrinkles.
DO: Shoulder length hair
DO: Bangs
2. Embrace Your Sensual Side
While you shouldn’t dress like a 20 year old, you definitely want to avoid looking like a buttoned-up old lady.
Here are some ways to add a bit of youthful sex appeal to your look:
- Wear high heels and playful stockings.
- Choose clothing in sensual fabrics like lace, velvet, and fur.
- Show some skin (tastefully, of course).
Check out my previous article How to Dress Sexy at Any Age: 3 Crossdressing / MTF Fashion Tips to learn more.
3. Get Enough Sleep
We all need our beauty rest, and as you age, the effects of sleep deprivation become more apparent on your face.
Under-eye bags, dark circles, and lackluster skin can detract from a feminine look, so make sure to prioritize sleep.
4. Add Some Color to Your Wardrobe
If you tend to stick with black or neutral tones, consider incorporating some bright colors into your wardrobe.
Vibrant colors add a youthful energy and vitality to your appearance.
5. Whiten Your Teeth and Eyes
Your teeth can give away your age – over time, they often turn yellow or gray.
Whitening them can freshen up your whole face and make you look younger. Products like Crest White Strips are an easy and affordable way to brighten your smile.
The same idea applies to your eyes. Making the whites of your eyes look brighter can instantly lift your whole appearance.
LUMIFY Redness Reliever Eye Drops are a great option – they whiten your eyes without causing the rebound redness some other drops can.
6. Use the Right Skin Care Products
While most skin creams may not live up to their “miracle in a bottle” claims, there are specific ingredients that have demonstrated anti-aging benefits.
Combat wrinkles and firm your skin by using products containing ingredients such as:
- Retinoids
- Vitamin C
- Growth factors
- Peptides
- Hyaluronic acid
You can easily find affordable products with these ingredients at your local drugstore.
If you really want to take things up a notch, consider using an anti-aging skincare device. My favorite beauty devices include:
- Medicube Age-R Booster Pro
- Omnilux Contour Face LED Light Therapy Mask
- ZIIP HALO Nanocurrent and Microcurrent Facial Toning Device
7. Smile
Yes, it’s a cliché, but it’s true – a smile is the quickest way to enhance your appearance.
Smiling elevates your cheeks and functions like an instant facelift. Plus, it makes you look more pleasant and approachable when presenting yourself as a woman.
Beautiful at every age
Now for my favorite bonus tip: Look to stylish and attractive mature women for inspiration.
I know we have a lot of gorgeous, ageless beauties in this community, so I’d love to hear from YOU: What are your favorite tips for looking sexy and stylish at every age?
Even better, inspire us by sharing your photos below!
Love,
Lucille
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I am 50 now and people are sometimes shocked I am that old.
Won’t say I’ve found the Fountain of Youth but in retrospect so far it seems to be eliminate drama and stress, drink water as your primary liquid, keep moving. Doesn’t seem to be diet, just everything in moderation. Maybe since I’m always active and using my upper body daily as a handyman person but dancing at the clubs worked the bottom half. Haven’t gained a single pound since 1974. High school. 1974. I’m 68 now.
73 and you are absolutely right about the smile!
75 and feel so much younger… my first makeover convinced me my feminine self is who I am
Such true and common sense tips, I try to live by them. Every year gets more of a challenge to hold it all together, but I think the female inside us helps to slow the aging process a little too.
This is me at a friends place on my 75th birthday last month. I feel wonderful as Jennifer, and will probably be full time by sometime next year. I’m getting my ears pierced next week.
Hugs,
Jennifer
Hi ladies – my name is Suzy and I am a 78 year old trans woman. I am retired and try to live my life 24/7 now as a woman. I’m fairly small (5’7” and 150 lbs). I think I pretty much adhere to all of Lucille’s tips. I never have a problem when I am out en femme and am treated like any other woman doing her thing. Here is a recent photo of me at my local mall a week ago!
Simply lovely Suzy. I hope to look as great in another 3 years.
Hugs,
Jennifer
Me at 70 and new dress
You’re gorgeous and I love seeing more of us at this stage of our lives
Me at 62 and going full-time in January