Many crossdressers and transgender women tell me that it was easier for them to look feminine when they were younger.
The truth is, you can look beautiful and feminine at any age!
While nobody can stop the clock, there are some simple ways to shave a few years off your appearance – if that happens to be a goal of yours.
Read on for 7 simple ways to look younger now.
1. Choose the Right Hairstyle
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Long hair is undoubtedly feminine, but be careful – hair that’s too long can emphasize drooping.
Consider these styles for a fresh, youthful look:
- Shoulder length hair – This length is universally flattering.
- Bangs – Bangs are cute, youthful, and perfect for hiding forehead wrinkles.
DO: Shoulder length hair
DO: Bangs
2. Add Some Sex Appeal
While you shouldn’t dress like a 20 year old, you definitely want to avoid looking like a buttoned-up old lady.
Here are some ways to add a bit of youthful sex appeal to your look:
- Wear high heels and flirtatious stockings.
- Choose clothes in sensuous fabrics – like lace, velvet, and fur.
- Show some skin (just not too much!).
Check out my previous article 3 Rules for Dressing Sexy at Any Age for more tips.
3. Get Enough Sleep
We all need our beauty sleep, but the older you get, the more a lack of sleep shows up on your face.
Under-eye bags, dark circles, and sallow skin distract from a feminine look, so be sure to make sleep a priority.
4. Add Some Color to Your Wardrobe
If you usually wear a lot of black or neutral tones, try adding some bright colors to your wardrobe. Bright colors have a youthful vibe and liven up your appearance.
5. Whiten Your Teeth
Teeth are a subtle cue of age – old teeth tend to look yellow or grey.
Whitening your teeth brightens your face and takes years off of your appearance. Try Crest White Strips for cheap and easy tooth whitening.
6. Use the Right Skin Care Products
Most skin creams don’t deliver on their “miracle in a bottle” promises. However, there are certain ingredients that have proven anti-aging benefits.
Fight wrinkles and firm your face by using products that contain one or more of the following ingredients:
- Retinol
- Vitamin C
- Hyaluronic acid
- Alpha hydroxy acid
- Green tea
You can find affordable products with these ingredients in any drug store.
7. Smile
Yes, it’s trite advice, but smiling really is the fastest way to improve your appearance!
A smile lifts the cheeks and acts like an instant facelift. Smiling also gives you a pleasant look and puts people at ease – making it easier to blend in as a woman.
Beautiful at every age
Now for my favorite bonus tip: Look at classy, attractive women age 40+ for inspiration!
I know we have a lot of gorgeous, ageless beauties in this community, so I’d love to hear from YOU: What are your favorite tips for looking sexy and stylish at every age?
Even better, inspire us by sharing your photos below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hii girls.
We Tgirls need to take a few pointers from any girlfriends we can muster up to our side. I had quite the friend who was a huge help to me and my transitioning from years ago and I still use what we and several of other ladies discussed for beauty secrets. Basically, everything said in this posting is what I have been doing since I started into my fem side of life. I’m now 61 and proud of my ability to pull it off to look youthful according to those I meet as they’re shocked at my age. One thing I would add to the list here is to keep the weight in check. I’m a full figure gal and wish I wasn’t. I’m about to go on a weight loss journey with a nutritionist. It’s expensive, but I think it’ll be worth it. Stay away from the gray hair, but do keep some for your age. Don’t fret so much about your looks. That smile that drives people mad is the polish on everything. Just be the confident you and don’t be shy. Good luck!
CKR….
WHEN I saw just how Pretty you are,I had to stop and comment.
At 73, my best days are behind me, while yours are here,now and ahead.
You are doing every correctly, and looking fabulous.
Later, Dr T.J.
Pics for your evaluation.
Hi T.J.! You always look great! Your best days are still ahead for you! We are both the same age, and I go out all the time as Suzy and love it. I love the outfits you wear. Very flattering! Here I am about a month ago at the mall. Happy Thanksgiving!
Hi,I don’t drink,don’t smoke,I have a healthy diet,seafood,avocados,salads,chicken,milk,etc…I also exercise,run & cycle,I’m 46,I will be 47 in March,a lot of people think I’m a teenager,it’s funny,like I’m aging backwards or something. thank yu!….
Hi again – after reading the blog again, I think the only rule I don’t follow is getting enough sleep! Sigh! I think a big nights sleep for me is maybe six hours. Otherwise I pretty much follow Lucille’s points. At 73 now and retired, I just find it now much easier to be a woman than I did in my earlier years. Here I am again doing my thing at a local mall. If you didn’t know, I love shopping!
Awesome Suzy. I’m 71 and I agree, it’s easier to be a woman now than when I was young. I think a lot of it has to do with the changes in society and our acceptance. The freedom in our minds have allowed us to blossom into who we were meant to be. You go girl, you’re an inspiration.
Thanks Jennifer! Yes, I really do feel so much more confident now at my age than earlier in life. It just feels so much more natural to me living as a woman now. I pretty much live my life now 24/7 as a female and love it! I’m always treated as a lady and just try to blend in as any other woman doing her thing. Here is another recent photo of me out and about!
Tu est magnifique, bisous
Thanks!
Merci!!! Thanks!
wow loook great at 73,you go girl
Thanks Michelle! I’m having a blast living my life now as a woman. Love it!
Thank you for this good advise. We Lovell you.
Smile alot,Blonde hair (own hair grown out now shoulder length-use watermans shampoo it’s fantastic) ,extra time spent on make up ,use good quality products such as Estee Lauder ,L’Oreal and Mac
Eat fresh ripe Avocardo pears -I once read years ago that they contain lots of anti oxidants which is good for your skin !
I’m 61 and try to take care of myself. I exercise daily by walking, doing yoga and yard work. I use quality skin products and don’t wear too much make up. I dress sexy but age appropriate. I eat healthy most of the time and try get enough sleep. Most of all I attempt to live as worry free as possible and take each day as it comes. Stress can cause premature aging. I embrace each day and enjoy my life.
Keeping my face really hydrated before makeup really helps keep my skin glowing