Your name is a powerful part of your feminine identity.
Some names feel sweet and innocent, others are classic and elegant, and some carry an exotic or mysterious vibe.
As a trans woman or crossdresser, you have the unique opportunity to choose a name that reflects who you truly are.
Every great MTF name has a story behind it, and I’d love to hear yours!
How did you choose your feminine name?
Please share your story in the comments below. I can’t wait to read it!
Love,
Lucille
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I chose the name, Annette,
because when I was at a family party
many years ago, a very femininely dressed and attractive married
Italian American woman
by the name of Annette,
attended it with her husband
for the first time.
She was totally made up,
wearing a shiny red satin blouse,
silky black pencil skirt,
had gorgeous legs and she was wearing
silky sheer black nylon stockings
that got my excited sissy attention quickly.
I kept to myself, but knew I wanted
to dress up like her, and be just like her.
Because of that exciting experience
that I had that day, I knew that I would choose my feminine name
that would be Annette, just like her’s.
I wanted to keep my original initials. I was named after my grandfather because he died within hours of my birth. Francine in my favorite female name that starts with F.
I chose my name after much consideration and deliberation over several other names my full name was chosen carefully I also have 2 middle names one of which was my mum’s. My first and middle names came from a movie character and the other I loved all along my last name was chosen from a tv host.
So with all that my full name now is Mia Jasmin Ann Riley
I chose the name Jill because a hot cheerleader at my high school. However, I’ve been thinking of changing it since we had a 1st lady named Jill, and I realized how a name can date your era of birth. I like Jamie, but my Master prefers Jill, and he will ultimately have some say in the matter.
Being in my mid sixties, but easily pass for much younger, I’m serious about changing it. Most all of my feminine attire is slutty stripper style, so I think a change is needed.
My mother caught me many times stealing her clothes and other girl clothes I could get my hands on when I was younger. Not sure what the original of the conversation was one day, but she mentioned that had I been a girl at birth, they were going to name me Holly. So later, I thought, well I am a girl, so let’s go with what my name should have been. Holly.
I struggled choosing a name for myself that matched my current initials.
My name is MeeJe, a westernized version of Meje, an Asian name that matched my emotional & cultural emotions, that I chose for myself when I decided to live full time as a woman. I enjoy being referred to as a Madam, as that is a title for a respectful woman.
My name is and was Robin.
my mother gave that name as I am Intersex/Hermaphrodite, so it would fit both masculine as well as feminim background. As they kept my gender secret, my reason of that name was kept secret as well, but she always said; “Sometime you will find out why you are named Robin” …now I know, and also know she used this without my father’s understanding as he and the doctors wanted to keep my inhuman state (as they saw it) secret from me.. He never could accept my biological state of gender and all things happened wrong he did to me were based on his not being able to understand nor accept.
The good thing is , unlike Transgenders, I do not need a costly and often difficult process of changing name.
Even my soul-quest revealed to me Robin was my name, no last name, just Robin…and that feels good
Wow wow wow! I can’t believe the similarities in your story to my own. My name was Robin, I too am hermaphrodite/intersex, my parents lied to me about my beginnings and took the truth to their graves.
In contrast to you, I chose my femme name when I was 13, simply because I liked the name but when I eventually discovered the whole truth I needed to distance myself from the family name and changed all three of my names. Looking back, I was always Stephanie, it suits me perfectly. I was originally going to be christened Robert but my parents changed it to Robin one hour before my christening, supposedly because my father didn’t want it to be shortened to Bob but I now realise that it was in case the surgery which was carried out on me when I was born turned out to be the wrong way. When I was 13 I entered a female puberty and not a male puberty so developed as a girl. I was bullied and abused in school so I left at 14. I was 54 when I discovered the truth and transitioned to how I should always have been a year later. In 2021 I published a book about my journey called Half Him Half Her in the hope of raising awareness about intersex/hermaphrodite people and the issues that they experience.
Mine is short n simple
Ashley is actually my real middle name
So I go by that
I’ve always loved it but didn’t use it much when I was younger but now I use it a lot ❤️
The first time I heard the name I loved to sound of it. A beautiful girls name and fascinating that the masculine nickname,Sam, could be used for a girl. All of the Samantha’s I seemed to be beautiful, tall, red haired Irish girls.
Later, in college, as I was starting to be aware that I loved the thought of being feminine, my best friend started dating a talll beautiful curly haired girl. Not red but light brown, like mine. She had an incredible smile and was very athletic. A lot like me. I knew I had to have that name be mine!