Your name plays a big part in shaping your feminine identity.
Some names sound sweet and innocent, some are classic and regal, while others exude an exotic and mysterious vibe.
As a crossdresser or trans woman, you have the unique opportunity of choosing your own female name.
If you’re like most of my readers, there’s a story behind your chosen feminine name.
So, in this blog post, I’d love to hear about the special meaning behind your name.
Please leave a comment below, sharing your feminine name and the story of how and why you chose it for yourself.
I’m excited to hear the story!
Love,
Lucille
my name came easy jill was on a pair of my first high heels a girl friend of mine we went shopping and had a ball and she introduced me to everyone as jill so i went by jill for many years as i have gotten older ive grown into my name and i am very thankfull for having a friend like her in my life back then even tho i am half asian i dont look it i can pass as hispanic i do not use my real last name cause enuff people screw it up badly so i go by jill harris
Hello:
I grew up in large unaccepting family except for one older sister that accepted me. When we had chances she would help me with makeup and make a good time of it for me. She called me her little Annabelle sonow as an adult the name Anna just fits 🙂
Hi Lucille
Mum told me that her and dadhad chosen two names for me whilst she was pregnant.I was to be Keith if a boy and Kaye if a girl. As mum brought me up as a girl for the first five years of my lifeand everyone called me Kaye it just hadto be Kaye when I am in my chosen persona. As an added bonus it alsomeans that I use the same signature and have less chance of being caught out whichever person I am.
Love Kaye
Two reasons: My male middle name is Christian, so if you switch the last two letters it becomes Christina, which is a common name for females in Denmark. This works for me since I would just like to be like any other girl. The second reason is that before I was born, my mother decided that if it was a girl, she should be named Christina. So here I am 🙂
Christina
Yes… here you are… why am I looking at your butt again?
I guess mine was fairly easy, I wanted to keep my initials the same, which are JC. I have a female friend that i felt had a lovely and unusual name of Janae, and moved my last name letters around a bit settling on Janae Cole.
I had never heard her name before and now have fully become Janae, whenever I get the chance.
Since adopting it however, I find it is not really that unique, but is to late to change it now as I love it. But I’m sure there are not tooo many other TS’s that share it with me, lol.
Hi everyone,
Well…I have a rather…odd history with my name, corny as it may sound.
So as a younger kid, before I became aware of my gender issues, I had picked out a name I wanted people to call me by. That name started out as Kail.
Later on in life I played a game called Fire Emblem. Up till then I had developed (and would continue to) split personalities, and had yet to pick out a female name. Here’s where the game comes in. I played and found a character with whom I identified with the most, and with whom I felt an unexplainable connection. Her name is Lyn. I kept the two names seperate for a while still, as I grew older.
Eventually I ended up merging all my personas together on my own, and ended up with the fused name of the old me that embodied my fighting spirit, and the other me that was the truest me than any other. The two parts of me that I hold dear.
That’s how I got Kailyn.
At first I liked Melissa, but then I realized that could be shortened to Mel which could be male.So a friend I came out to thought about my personality, and she suggested Jennifer, which fits me perfectly and now I love it.
For me as far a a feminine name is concerned, it was easy. My birth name is Stephen, but my mothr had always told me me that if I was a girl, it would be Stephanie. So simple, and yet difficult since I was born intersexed. Putting such a crinkle into the equasion made it difficult for my father to cope. He was Hispanic, I was first born so, therefore, I was a boy no matter what anyone else, including myself, thought. Over the years, having to deal with such emotional and physical abuse from him because he couldn’t figure out quite why I was always acting so feminine. Well, duh, I’m a girl. He thought that if he could beat me enough over the years he would “break me” of my feminine habits. Well, he almost broke my feminine mannerisms, but never my feminine spirit. He could have taught Brainwashing 101. When I transitioned, and changed my name, I also changed my last name. I refused to carry that name anymore, and decided to take on my Mother’s maiden name.