Wearing lingerie is a guaranteed way to feel feminine. Best of all, it’s something you can indulge in on a daily basis.
What are the lingerie pieces every trans woman or crossdresser should own?
I’ve compiled a list of 10 must-have transgender / crossdressing lingerie items that should be part of your MTF wardrobe. Read on to learn more!
1. Basic Black Or Nude Bra
Every girl needs a basic bra, so a simple nude or black bra is a must.
If you’re having trouble finding your size, try the Leading Lady Lightly Padded Contour Underwire Bra. It comes in a wide range of sizes that would fit most crossdressers and transgender women. (Band sizes 36-54, cup sizes A-G)
2. Panty Gaff
For a flat and feminine look, a panty gaff is your best friend. A gaff is an undergarment designed to offer a smooth and tucked appearance. Here are a few options:
- Gold Seal Gaff by The Dress Form Store
- Super Strong Hiding Gaff by Suddenly Fem
- Thong Gaff by Glamour Boutique
3. Shaping Camisole
Who couldn’t benefit from a little mid-section slimming? A shaping camisole can help you slim down your waist and stomach without constricting you like a corset or girdle would. I like the camisoles from Yummie, which go up to a size 3x.
4. Padded Panty
If you crave feminine curves (and who doesn’t?), padded panties offer an instant solution. Your options range from light lifting to full-on hip and butt shaping. Here are a few of my favorites:
- Light shaping – Ulta Sheer Padded Panty by FeelFoxy
- Medium shaping – The Glamour Gal Silicone Hip and Butt Padded Shaper
- Full shaping – Veronicas by Classic Curves
5. Nude Or Black Pantyhose
While women don’t wear pantyhose as often as they used to, pantyhose looks more polished than bare skin and enhances the appearance of your legs. Your lingerie wardrobe should definitely include a pair of black and/or nude hose.
6. Slinky Nightie
There’s nothing like slipping into a slinky nightgown to make you feel extra feminine. Whether you prefer long or short, you should own at least one silky nightie. Or better yet, buy a few in different lengths and colors.
7. Basic Panties
Sometimes simple is best! Whether you prefer thongs, bikinis, or briefs, you should own at least a few basic panties.
8. Sexy Bra And Panty Set
While the basics are important, half the fun of lingerie is expressing your sensual side. That’s why no wardrobe is complete without at least one super sexy bra and panty set.
9. Nubra
The Nubra is an adhesive bra that’s fantastic for creating cleavage. Since it’s backless and strapless, it can be worn alone or under another bra. To learn how to create feminine cleavage with the Nubra, see my post on How to Get Feminine MTF Cleavage.
10. Silk Or Satin Robe
A silk or satin robe is a classic boudoir piece that will make you feel ultra feminine. You should have at least one so you have something sensual to slip into when you are at home.
Let’s talk lingerie!
It was hard to narrow this list to just 10 items, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
What are YOUR must-have lingerie pieces? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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well I must say, both myself and my wife feel the best thing for a sissy or trans girl is, ” a BIKINI “. if used as intended. even if you take it off you can not run and hide from what we are. the moment we look down or in a mirror our need to be feminine rushes back. Im 50 tall and not very passable so ALL is hidden under my male look 🙁
and you imagine, you may be sitting next to a guy that looks like this under his clothes LOL. I often wonder what the man next to me in a bar would think if he knew I looked like this under my clothes 🙂
Love tan lines!!
Go Girl Love Tanlines Mmmmmm!
I just bought the flower bra by Bali. OMG it’s so perfect. It isn’t very stretchy and I got the correct size. I may not need my Diva to create cleavage and the cups hold my breastforms in perfectly. The only things on this list I don’t have are a robe and padded panties. I don’t need the padding in the back so much as on the side which is what I’m looking to do next.
Satin pjs, and satin short pjs are so comfy!
you say we should wear basic panties and bras, the one thing is i can not go back to basic under pinings for a woman. vanity fair is my only underwear i can wear from now on.
Let’s start with a cute feminine haircut and having a pretty feminine name. Now with everything all silky, dress in these items, underwear, nylons with garter belts, short slip, bra, short night gown, long length night gown, long length open in front robe, in full perfume and makeup and of course laying in bed between the silky satin sheets and looking good and all ready to please your loving man.
you are so right on the silky items and silky sheets….help please your man!
“Patty”…I too, love to “Dress Sexy” for my “Loving Man” !!!
i have more than just one like wearing when going to bed it’s a silk or satin top i have other’s forgot what they r however i do have few pair’s of black pantyhose nude kind doesn’t do me well but do have couple of nude or beige bra’s including some black panties i wear they go with my black bra although have assorted color bra’s n panties sorry ladies an lucille don’t have pictures posted also from time to time wear 1 piece under garment snaps from bottom one of them kinda tigh get into most of time usually wearing just top an panties to bed
My favourite piece is a Merrywidow.
Red and black.
You look gorgeous babe.
Hi
You look hot.
I think you miss the most important female attire you should have is slips they help your skirts and dresses hang better. not to mention they feel so good when you are walking in them. one other most of us crossdressers fell in love by seeing a hint of lace peaking out of dress or skirt.
Vintage slips are most essential