Who doesn’t want to look like a sexy, hot woman? The trick, of course, is to avoid crossing that fine line from sexy to slutty.
If you are a crossdresser or transgender woman who wants to look sexy AND classy, you’ve come to the right place.
First, let’s define what won’t necessarily make you sexy:
- Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels
- Putting on huge breast forms
- Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out
True sexiness is a lot more subtle. In this blog post, I share 5 easy things you can do to enhance your feminine sex appeal – without overdoing it.
1. Don’t Bare It All
When it comes to dressing sexy, the #1 rule to keep in mind is: Leave something to the imagination.
Rather than baring it all, try showing off just one area of your body at a time.
- For example, you could flaunt your legs in a shorter skirt or dress, while keeping your arms and chest covered with a higher neckline or long sleeves.
- Or, you might choose to reveal your décolletage with a lower-cut top, but then balance it out with a longer skirt or trousers.
By highlighting just one area of your body, you create a sexy yet sophisticated look that is sure to turn heads.
2. Wear Red
Color is a huge part of the impression you make on people. Each color has a meaning that is communicated on a subconscious level.
If you’re looking to up your feminine sex appeal, there’s one color you should be reaching for – RED.
This bold hue is synonymous with passion, desire, and love, making it the perfect color to wear to ignite your sensual side.
Incorporating even a few touches of red, such as a statement bag or a pair of heels, can work wonders for enhancing your feminine allure.
3. Define Your Waistline
One way to accentuate your figure without showing too much skin is by defining your waistline. This technique not only flatters your shape but also creates a sexy hourglass silhouette.
Achieving this look is simple – try wearing a belt over a dress or tucking in a top at the waist.
Another excellent option for defining your waist is a wrap dress, which cinches in at the waistline and flatters your curves.
For more tips on how to create that sexy hourglass shape, be sure to check out my blog post on How to Get a More Feminine Figure (Male to Female): Top 5 MTF Tips.
4. Try a Sexy Workout
Achieving a fit, toned body through regular exercise is undoubtedly a great way to feel sexy. However, why not take it one step further and try a workout that also enhances your sex appeal?
Belly dancing, pole dancing, or cardio striptease are all excellent options that not only burn calories but also allow you to channel your inner seductress.
These workouts also help develop more feminine and fluid body movements, an essential part of an overall attractive feminine appearance.
Try the Sensual Dance Tutorial For Beginners in Heels workout above and get started today!
5. Wear Sexy Lingerie
It’s hard NOT to feel sexy in a pretty bra and panties.
Even if you don’t plan to show off your underwear, wearing sexy lingerie under your clothes (whether it’s male or female attire) will make you feel more seductive and confident.
You should also get rid of any lingerie that doesn’t add to your sex appeal. This includes anything that’s worn out or that doesn’t fit properly. If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!
For more on how to look your best in lingerie, check out my blog post on Crossdressing / Transgender Lingerie: How to Look Hot in Female Lingerie.
What are your favorite ways to look sexy and classy?
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. What are your favorite ways to look both sexy and classy? Please leave a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
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So glad that I’ve found your website!
x Anne
As always Lucille, I read your comments/suggestions with great interest. I suspect your latest blog is aimed at the younger meembers. Looking sexy at 70 without looking and feeling silly is a very hard job. I do not aggree with the idea that once your past your best you should only wear ‘sensable’ clothes, but I have seen women of my age wear short skirts and high heels which in my view is just as bad. No I try to wear stylish, smart and attractive dresses, skirts, tops and heels, yes I agree with you a splash of colour can make all the diffrence, I must try and upload some photographs so that you will get a better idea of what I am talking about.
Thank you Lucille and keep up all the good work that you do,
Love, Lesley Ann xxxxxx
you do look good hon, I know us older gurls are the best , lol kisses LIz
Hello all, I’ve found a halter style tankini top that takes my forms well and gives me a very natural look, but I’d just die to find a halter top that would handle my forms as well. I live in Florida, so using glue and/or tape doesn’t work well in our humid heat. So I’d need a halter capable of handling the forms as is. I wear a 38D bra. If someone would please email me directly if they have a good solution I’d just have my summer complete from the beginning.
SBC/Stephanie
Stephanie…a hard problem..simplified by looking for a solid color bathing suit halter top..that has removable pads..take the pads out and put your forms in..I have multiple colors and love the feel..the look and the simplicity… Robin
Hi LUCILLE! What makes me feel my sexiest is the feeling of silk against my body, the color pink and red, when I’m dressed up my brain switches over to the feminist side, and leaving my manhood behind. however I still have the problem going out in public dressed up. Yes you may say I’m still in the closet. I love your comments and suggestions about bringing out your feminent side. If I could just meet an other srossdresser in this town to go out with maybe then I would go out in public. GOD knows I have been trying to find someone. It is hard though when you’re up in age like I am. Thank you LUCILLE for listening to my story.
BEST REGARDS MANFRED.
I just took a burlesque class and did a stage performance with 5 genetic women. If you have the courage, it is a wonderful experience. Most women have body image issues, so I was no different from any other student. Burlesque girls also have a wide range of breast sizes, so mine were not the smallest.
That’s awesome! You go, girl! 🙂
totally Agree !
I am new here and looking for help I want to start looking more like the female I am. I have been looking for help in FOrt Worth for counseling. Any one have suggestions. I just want to start looking like who I feel I am ( a female)
I love wearing halter tops with shorts or a nice flowing skirt also like wearing maxi dresses in the summer
Love to be able to wear the tank top with blue jeans or shorts. Just to show off what I have accomplished
XOXOXOX
Michelle
Me TWO
Hello Michelle, first I have to say you have very lovely breast.Second is, how long and what did you do to make them that lovely.I have been on a three month effort with very little success. My goal is a 36c, nothing bigger. Yours are just beautiful. Can you help a girl out.