You’ve put a lot of effort into perfecting your feminine image – from outfits and makeup to practicing your voice and body movements.
But today, let’s pause the improvement talk and take a moment to appreciate the progress you’ve already made. Because, seriously, you’re amazing!
What’s your proudest accomplishment on your MTF journey so far?
It could be a major milestone like starting hormone therapy, coming out to a friend, or going out in public as a woman for the first time.
Or it could be a smaller victory, like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re just starting out, there’s a lot to celebrate. Acknowledging your true self is a significant step forward!
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share your story with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Plain and simple. Just accepting who I am. I’m not bad or wrong. I’m me! I wish I had all those clothes I’ve thrown away
In June of 2010 I did a full concert: the first act I did as my female self and my male self did the second.
Let me provide a little background. Only a few people outside of the transgender community were aware of my being transgender. I had become close friends with a number of members of a LGBT supportive church. A few of these folks knew I was transgender but most were not sure. The fact that my face was hairless (years of electrolysis) and my hair was blonde and down to the middle of my back probably caused some questioning.
I am a singer and was asked if I would do a concert at the church in recognition of Gay Pride Week. I chose that night to come out to over 250 people.
Most of the show was a solo act but I did invite my singing coach to join me. She is a beautiful lady (more on the inside than out…and the out is absolutely gorgeous). We mostly performed Broadway songs but I did do a couple of comedy songs on the guitar (a neat trick since I broke my wrist early in the morning of the concert).
I ended the first act with a wonderful song: “What Makes a Man a Man”. I changed on stage from a woman to a man. Many of the non-transgender audience later commented on what an important statement that song made.
I did the second act as a male. I closed with “Music of the Night” from Phantom of the Opera. I called all the band, crew, and staff on stage and ended the evening with “I Know Where I’ve Been” from Hairspray.
The accomplishment for me was having the nerve to kick the closet door open to my life. Greater still was having a number of transgender friends who attended interact with these church members. I firmly believe that we all grew a lot that night.
Jeanette
I’m just happy to have finally started HRT a few weeks ago. I’m more or less fulltime now outside of work, and that’s just because it’s a light factory job where it’s not practical to dress up and it’s too hot for makeup.
I think my best accomplishment has been becoming so comfortable with my female self that when I am with one of my male friends I thoroughly enjoy having relations as a woman with him. The pleasure can be tremendously delicious!
“Mandi”…You are a “Very Sexy Woman”…What Man wouldn’t want to make love to you…I Love Your “Sexy Outfit”…”Beautiful Legs & Stockings”
I’m 82 and damn if I don ‘t love being a gurl more now then I did years ago. Always thought I would get older and just stop. So I guess the thrill is that I get complements how good I look. Delicious
I had a few items of clothing that were a bit too snug to wear out. I called the my motivational outfits. I was, when I started out, a size 16. Recently, probably less than a month ago, I decided to give them a shot. I am now a size 10 and I can wear my motivational outfits very comfortably!
Mine was at the Reno Airport. This was just past my 7th anniversary of transitioning, and I brushed against the metal detector which caused me to have a wand sweep and pat down. The initial high was when the male agent said it would be a few for a female to get there. Once she arrived and informed me of the pat down, I told her I was pre-op and she said she didn’t believe me. I showed her my license and then after I was cleared she wanted to learn more about being a TS. When we said goodbye, she told me that I was not only possible but beautiful. P.S., for those tat watched Nip/Tuck, this was soon after the Ts character left the show after saying that not being read by TSA was her test of finally being a woman.
I think for me it is the fact I am now comfortable dressing and being a girl almost all of the time when I at ho.