If you’re reading this right now, then I’m guessing you work very hard at perfecting your feminine image.
There’s a lot to think about, isn’t there?
Clothes, hair, makeup, voice, movements …
And that’s not even counting serious life changes like hormones or surgery.
The problem is that when you focus on everything that still needs improving, it’s easy to forget how far you’ve come already.
Well, today I want you to put all that improvement stuff on hold. Forget about what you still need to do and celebrate what you’ve already achieved.
Seriously, girlfriend – you are AWESOME!
So I would love to know …
What has been your greatest achievement on your feminine journey so far?
It could be a big accomplishment like completing GRS (gender reassignment surgery), coming out to your family, or stepping out in public as a woman for the first time …
Or it could be a smaller victory like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re a total newbie, there’s a lot to celebrate: You’re here on this site and acknowledging your true self! You are so much further along than those who try to repress their feminine sides. (We all know that doesn’t work.)
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share it with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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My greatest accomplishment hasn’t transpired yet but it soon will as I am going to see my mother in 4 days and it will be my first time as my transgendered self. I am scared and nervous but I also am tired of living a lie. I came out officially back in August 2013 but never told my family as I moved away shortly afterward. Hopefully my mother will accept me as I really am. I know it will come as a shock but life is too short to keep living what some people consider “normal”. In my opinion, normal is overrated anyway.
Amber, Good luck. I remember that day in my life. I told everyone I’m still the same story with a new book cover and I opened a new chapter for you to read. Everything you knew about me is still the same. I hope you enjoy the new chapter in my life’s story. BTW normal is defined by ones life experiences and everyone has a different degree of normal. For some eating one food is normal and to others it is not. Have fun and be you!
Amber, your comment about your impending coming out reminded me of a dream I had quite recently about my own coming out. When I woke up and knew it was only a dream I still had the most peaceful feeling like a huge weight had been lifted from me every time I re-lived that dream in my mind. I have not “come out” yet but it feels like my dream was telling me something.
I admire your courage and wish you well!
Wow, good luck to you Amber!
Thank you Miss Lucille I appreciate that. xxoo
Being comfortable in public and not giving a hoot if people have a problem with me being a woman. Also, my movements especially while walking have changed significantly. THX for letting me share. 🙂
I remember the feeling the first time a salesclerk called me ma’am without skipping a beat
Owning my own fully complete wardrobe that is overflowing with clothing, accessories, jewlery, makeup, wigs, heels, boots, and everything in betweem!
I’ve had a series of accomplishments also. My greatest is when I changed my name legally and finished coming out to the world. This was earlier this year and my employer and co-workers embraced it with huge enthusiasm I could not have predicted. I had been going out for years after work and on weekends. But now I do not need to worry about confusing the public anymore. Except for a couple of people I came out to the support and congratulations is overwhelming.
The public has not acted suspicious for a long time. My voice is being perfected and you know it is when you talk to strangers on the phone and they address you as feminine because you sound that way.
My next goal is SRS! After 10 years of electrolysis and 2 years of hormones the results is awesome. My friends and family tell me I act and look happier than I have ever been.
Hang in their girls, society and laws are increasingly in our favor.
Sorry for asking but I am unfamilar with the term SRS. What is the meaning? Thanks.
Sex reassignment surgery (or gender assignment surgery)
mine was going into cosmetic store buying make up
then into fashion store trying on then buying a dress
The absolute biggest thing for me is the feeling that I get when my family and friends look at me and treat me like a woman. For the most part, the awkward and pensive behavior from them is gone. No more remembering all of a sudden that this is a guy dressed as a woman. Love it.
My greatest achievement was when I went to a church dance in another county and had a great time dancing. I got to dance with some nice clean cut guys. Some even came on to me, but I’m not that type of girl.
The most nervious part was entering and paying. But I said to myself “Just smile and act lady like”. It worked because no one ever thought I was anything other than a lady. I even had other girls talk to me about girl things, make-up, clothes, and guys. I also saw some gals that I knew as a male and they never recognized me.