Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
Instead of fixating on passing, my advice to crossdressers and transgender women has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead. (Read more on that topic here.)
But lately, I’ve been wondering… Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal when presenting as female?
After all, why wear cute outfits, style your hair, or apply makeup if no one notices?
I think it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out and make a statement. Does your inner woman share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, and I’d love to hear your thoughts:
- Do you enjoy getting positive attention when presenting yourself as a woman?
- Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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i have been on HRT for six months now. the changes have been subtle but, amazing just the same. i have been told that i’m nice looking but, i don’t flatter myself with others’ compliments. instead, i prefer to simply look nice, neat and presentable when i’m in public. i wear unisex clothing and do my best to be graceful and pleasant to others. i firmly believe that your own personal sense of well being will emulate to others without you really being concious about it.
I like to be seen but I am shy. My wife likes me dressing up
Adrian – u are sooo lucky to have a wife that likes yr femme personality. My wife knows; but does not approve. She is – “it’s OK just do not do it around me” phase. She would die if she knew I dressed up for others.
XOXOX – Janette
I think every girl needs to stand out. It’s part of our nature. Whether we are genetic girls or Not it is part and parcel. It’s how a woman finds a mate at it’s very core, and how she competes with other women for a position in the pecking order regardless.
I wish you all well
I do not want to be average. I would rather not fully pass and look dynamic than to pass fully and be a wall flower. Just my philosophy. Of course, I would prefer both if possible.
starting out ppl try to blend in just to be passable as time goes by confidence goes up and then there are times you want to stand out not too far out but just enuff to get some attention not oddles so the question seems that it really depends on how far along you are in the process
I SOOOOOO wish I could just “blend in”…. I am 6-5 before heels ! I would give anything just to be able to walk around and just be a girl…
Im also 6’5″ with out the heels, I feel your pain girl. But hey some people like their women extra tall !!
Hi Lucille, I think I am like most of the other gals in that I think both are important, blending in and standing out. My main goal is blending in however. I do not dress to the nines to go to the grocery store or to go to the gas station to fill my car with gas. I will perhaps wear jeans are slacks and a nice blouse and flats, sandals or maybe a low heel. I do fix my hair nicely, wear light make up and of course jewelry. Even at this I may stand out because a lot of women go to these places and look like slobs. shopping calls for a little dressier outfits, higher heels and a little more glamorous make up and jewelry. Church calls for even a dressier outfit. Big nights out are the most fun as that is when I really feel that I stand out. I am enfemme 90% of the time and have been for the past 8 years and I have never understood why so many women dress so sloppy practically all the time. In a nut shell I just want to be attractive, dress attractive, have fun and enjoy my life as I want to enjoy it, as a lady.
Thanks for all you do, Susan Heiss
Walking, talking mannerisms are fine, but anyone can do that. Getting the female form is the ultimate goal, and its achievable with hard work and proper diet.
One thing to do to get that female form…….well, obviously is to TUCK!!!!