Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
Instead of fixating on passing, my advice to crossdressers and transgender women has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead. (Read more on that topic here.)
But lately, I’ve been wondering… Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal when presenting as female?
After all, why wear cute outfits, style your hair, or apply makeup if no one notices?
I think it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out and make a statement. Does your inner woman share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, and I’d love to hear your thoughts:
- Do you enjoy getting positive attention when presenting yourself as a woman?
- Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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My desire is to blend in, to be thought of as just another woman and not be specially noticed.
I have only gone out twice as Pam, both times walking to a nearby shopping center, and it made me feel good to realize that anybody driving by in a car would have been seeing a woman walking down the street, and would have not thought anything unusual about it.
When I am Pam at home and get dressed up (when I am not casual clothes), I am dressed in skirts or slacks and tops that I would be wearing to work if I had a job where I could be who I really am at work.
I believe each girl will pick whats comfortable for them,blending in or standing out. It shouldnt matter though if you feel feminine and pretty,why should you care if other people are gawking . Its a girls perrogative and how she feels that day. Tommi
Hows this outfit for standing out!!
Thank you both, anywho I got this outfit at a porn store in denver,co at romantix. I think they have a website you could check out. If you have anymore questions you can e-mail me at Jasminecd32@hotmail
I love that outfit……..its gorgeous. 🙂
I personally love that outfit and where can I get one…Tommi
Lucille, I agree with Chris, I like to be noticed for being stylishly dressed. I try never to under-dress for an occasion. I am usually business/professional appropriate. I find many GGs glance and sometimes smile, but most pay no attention at all. I recently went to a Conference at a local college ‘En Femme’ and had a very pleasant conversation and discussion with a full table of other ladies with similar interests. I do not think I was ‘read’ by any of them. Much of that comes with the graces of age. (A lady never reveals her true age, but I will confess I’m approaching the ‘Golden’ years.) I am larger than most women, but not outside of acceptable norms. Through experience I’ve learned to BE a woman, not to just dress up like a woman.
I think that most cd’ers would like to blend rather than stand out and face ridicule from close minded people. Once I got enough confidence, I may start trying to stand out. No one is happy being a wallflower. It’s just a step to becoming who we’d like to be.
eu gostaria de ser mulher… Não apenas ter uma mente feminina,
mas um corpo feminino de verdade. E não fingir ser uma… Usando
símbolos. A imagem é só a imagem! Mas sabemos que não é real…
Thank!
I do not know … The more I think about being a woman in myself as a woman …
More difficult it becomes reality. Always in my dreams at night, I am a woman. There are natural things for me … Here in the real world, looking for some momentary relief sweating symbols. My mind tells me who always was, but my body is contradicted by facts. And against the facts, no argument. I’m happy to talk with you.
kisses, Selene
Me too ,genetic girls have it so lucky to have the female mind and female body….You go Girl Tommi
I would like to be a woman … not just having a female mind,
but a real female body. And do not pretend to be using a …
symbols. The image is only the image! But we know that is not real …
Lucille, I feel that you are a pewrdon with confidence and therefore can be a person that likes to show off. Many trannies and new girls seek confidence in their appearance before they can express themselves and this makes them want to blend in to start with until the confidence grows to the point where they feel that they can express their natural wishes to stand out occassionally or all the time because they have the confidence to do so. Then we can wear the sexy and revealing clothes that we really want to and not hide the fact that we are not GGs. Thanks
hi lucille its xenia .my coment on this subject is this its kind of hard for some of as trannies cause im no spring chiken and unfortunatelly i work in the landscape bussines and im spossed to the elements on a daily basis so to me its important to blend as much as i can . hope my comment was of some use,your trully xenia