Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
Instead of fixating on passing, my advice to crossdressers and transgender women has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead. (Read more on that topic here.)
But lately, I’ve been wondering… Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal when presenting as female?
After all, why wear cute outfits, style your hair, or apply makeup if no one notices?
I think it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out and make a statement. Does your inner woman share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, and I’d love to hear your thoughts:
- Do you enjoy getting positive attention when presenting yourself as a woman?
- Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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I think I have already posted and commented on this awhile back. I blend in. I live as a woman and pass as an everyday woman nad have never had any problems passing. I have nothing male left and everything I have is female and feminine. I wear clothes that are made for a woman to wear.
When I’m “girled up” I want to be “HOT!”, not “WHAT?”
sometime I dress like a slut… this was one of those times. Some times like a elegant lady..this is one of those times. But, I always stand out.
By the way I see cisgender a lot. what does cis stand for?
Very nice Jane Lee! With great clothes and great smile, pass/no pass loses its importance, and you got both…
Hi Lucille and girlfriends: to be honest, i haven’t stepped out . . . i am still losing weight and shaping my figure and perfecting my look, although i have adopted feminine attire for day and evening wear at home and feel entirely comfortable entertaining “en femme” . . . But, when i do completely emerge, i do want to stand out as the elegantly put-together, delicate, and highly feminine being who i am inside, who i am bringing more and more into the open after so many years of self-destructive denial . . . i may be vulnerable in this, but i have many marvelously supportive cis-women friends, including my lovely spouse, upon whom i can count for protection. Love to you all, Laurianna
I actively support the Transgender community in all it’s guises, so I try to stand out and be seen, I try to get people talking to me and educate them to the way we feel.
I stand out but most of the time I find myself at Gay Clubs where they have shows with models who entertain. My dressing is always very good and I look most attractive. Sometimes I go out to Ulta, a makeup place and I don’t wear clubwear but a nice long skirt and top with wedgies instead of my spiked stiletto heels and leather skirts.
Even though I have dressed 24/7 in the past. I have always wanted to blend in and be accepted as female.
Even when my dominant female took me where gay and straight could date. When I was asked to dance with men who were gay or not. My dominant female was pleased that I fit in.
Stand out. Third attempt at a comment. I’m keeping it short 🙂