Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
Instead of fixating on passing, my advice to crossdressers and transgender women has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead. (Read more on that topic here.)
But lately, I’ve been wondering… Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal when presenting as female?
After all, why wear cute outfits, style your hair, or apply makeup if no one notices?
I think it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out and make a statement. Does your inner woman share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, and I’d love to hear your thoughts:
- Do you enjoy getting positive attention when presenting yourself as a woman?
- Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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I like all the testimonies or story’s people have on here…..pretty cool.
I wish I could look more feminine but almost everytime I go out I get compliments or advise from women. I have made a few girl-friends.
So my advice is
Go out, have fun, don’t worry if you can pass or not
Love Ashley
Went out on Halloween and got lots of compliments that I made a wonderful looking woman. Compliments from woman that my cleavage was better than theirs. The dress I am in and the makeup got lots of wonderful compliment that I was not identified as a male.
I love going out shopping and dinner. I try being as convincing as possible and hope to blend in among the other women. I just wish I also had a partner to go out with.
KNOW THE FEELING, HEATHER, ITS MORE FUN BEING WITH ANOTHER WHO RELATES TO US AND ENJOYS BEING WITH ANOHER WOMAN IN SOCIAL /PERSONAL SETTINGS. i. TOO. ONLY HAVE A COUPLE GAL PALS TO ENJOY TIME WITH.
I hope I pass I am a women and I would loved to be asked out or to dance but I’m still waiting
This is me blending in and being sexy while performing on drums. I don’t know if I pass or even look pretty enough but I try. I love to be asked out for dates have a drink bought for me or just some guys hitting on me. That’s what I would like never had it before.
I really like going out as a woman. I do pass but is getting harder as I am getting older. Still looking for a going out partner. Have not gone out lately but still sometime get nurvis. I LOVE to go out and have men try to pick me up.
hola siempre trato de mezclar y pasar como mujer nunca hablo por mas que le hago mi voz no mejora, en fin lo que me sucedio un dia en forma accidental fue que sali vestida con un conjunto extraño me vesti con ropa casual unos pantalones azules , una camisa blanca, unos zapatos de plataforma y un blasser cafe que para es de mujer y mi sorpresa fue que en la calle se referian a mi como mujer fue algo muy extraño pero me encanto fue una experiencia rara si hubo otra cosa tenia algo de maquillaje pero mas bien muy discreto y no puesto a proposito me encanto esa experiencia no se si vuelva a dar pero fue lindo