Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
Instead of fixating on passing, my advice to crossdressers and transgender women has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead. (Read more on that topic here.)
But lately, I’ve been wondering… Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal when presenting as female?
After all, why wear cute outfits, style your hair, or apply makeup if no one notices?
I think it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out and make a statement. Does your inner woman share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, and I’d love to hear your thoughts:
- Do you enjoy getting positive attention when presenting yourself as a woman?
- Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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Wear what I want to project my personality. Corporate suiting to miniskirt with knotted blouse, there is nothing better than getting compliments from other women. One girl told me to keep rocking it the other day when wearing a blazer and mini. Another has told me to do a blog of OOTD Designer clothes oh yeah
To look on the outside with tremendous attention to detail.To be classy.To have classy clothes,shoes, accessories,hair,makeup,etc.Then a nice feminine walking stye and a voice to match.All this compliments the inner beauty that runs through the brain and body celebrating and enjoying the tranquility,and the essence of the the feminine aura.This is done not to be noticed,but to enjoy being feminine.It is the inner feelings that lead to outside joy of expressing one’s feminity.It is such a strong longing and so delightful.Paying attention to the intracate details makes the journey so much better.
The dream would be to stand out as a hot gurl.
As far as I am concerned I dress for ME!!!! and do not give a toss what other people think,one day slutty and the next in a Victorian dress and blouse.
At 64, after a lifetime struggle etc, it is dream to just pass/blend in …… as an older woman .. long gone are the years of any chance of being attractive enough to stand out…. regards P
I don’t try to stand out but i know people notice me and i don’t try super hard to blend in either. I began transition a year ago, so far six months HRT. I’m 55 and just beginning to understand the extent of the grief I’ve borne ever since my voice broke, breaking me utterly along with it. Being XXY genetically I never heavily masculinized. I have watched women and how they dress enviously – longingly- for sooo long I’m catching up on lost time. So I dress myself totally for me. I’m shy so I don’t do anything too outrageous, but I refuse to be bound by a need to blend in totally and efface myself. I think I do an ok job.
To blend in and appear just another fairly attractive older Woman…sigh. It would be a dream come true!!
As a mid 50s 6’ tall girl, I dress my age and for the occasion. If I go shopping I just wear nice pair of jeans and top. Going out I love to dress in dresses and skirts. Do I pass? Not too important too me at this stage, but at least they address me as a woman.