Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
Instead of fixating on passing, my advice to crossdressers and transgender women has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead. (Read more on that topic here.)
But lately, I’ve been wondering… Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal when presenting as female?
After all, why wear cute outfits, style your hair, or apply makeup if no one notices?
I think it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out and make a statement. Does your inner woman share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, and I’d love to hear your thoughts:
- Do you enjoy getting positive attention when presenting yourself as a woman?
- Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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I think that to be a woman is to coordinate blend in and stand out in the dependence of the living situation. And a woman knows on a genetic level how to behave herself in this moment. It calls intuition.
Well, after some thought, this gave me a lot to think about. To blend or stand out is more like neither. I simply just wanted to be myself the best I can. If I do happenly stand out it’s in the window of someone’s eyes but not in every window of everyone. For some, it’s ey’ hey Ms, she, her, mam, lady, girl, bitch, babe, hotty, etc. well I think u got the gist. So with all that, I’m more happy just be me it’s more simple than try to be born with expectation of others think u should be that u r not. Only u know urself. If they don’t like ur real self then they have problem not mines is how I felt.
I think blending in is a place to start, and then standing out . I think there are so many feminine styles and trends that everyone is doing there best to stand out, in their own way . I think Sis Women are standing out , and trans women need to do the same , besides these days it can be difficult to just blend in .
If I’m on a night out I don’t mind standing out but if I’m just walking down the street probably blending in is good
As an older CD , I prefer to blend in . I’ve never liked standing out in a crowd . I feel safer blending in .
Being a mature lady I prefer to blend in when I go out.
I suppose that to some degree we all would love to stand out occasionally and I admit guilt in that vein as well.
I’ve been doing this so long that at this stage of my life I just want to go about my business without all the attention. I don’t seek to turn heads anymore I just want to be me without all the fuss.
it hard to know which way to be, only i will have to know real soon with my body changing so fast and my breast growing even faster, i now have to wear a bra full time and i am not even on HRT. i almost do not have to shave anymore and i found out i walk like a girl natural because of my legs bones. i am still wearing men clothes only now i am starting to look like a girl in men cloth. i have try not stand out my whole life for fear of getting beat up as i was as a child. i put on a persona of someone very distance so not to stand out. only a part of me the women part want to stand out in beautiful clothes and nice hair. i do not want to look sexy only nice. i want people to see me as a women, it the way i feel on the inside only time will make my outside look like a total women and i still waiting and wishing it to go faster.
love Brittney
As an older trans woman, I tend to blend in with other middle-age women around me. We all try to stand out in some way, perhaps a hairstyle or an accessory, but for the most part women my age are pretty much done with the sexy girl thing, and comfort plays a greater role. In a lot of ways, I feel far more feminine blending in with average middle-age women than I do dressing up for a club.