Your mannerisms and body language are a big part of your female image. In fact, they count for over 50% of the impression you make on people!
If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you might be looking for ways to improve your MTF feminine mannerisms.
The good news is that improving your body language and mannerisms can be achieved by mastering a few simple dos and don’ts.
In this blog post, I share 5 dos and don’ts for developing attractive, feminine mannerisms and body language. Read on to learn more!
1. DO Work The S-curve
Curves are a classic feminine feature. Beyond a bubbly booty and ample bosom, you can use your posture to enhance the curves of your body. Create an S-curve by putting your weight on one leg and pushing your hip out.
Contrast this to a more masculine posture where the weight is evenly distributed between both legs. This creates a more square and angular silhouette.
Here are some tips for working the S-curve:
- DO keep your weight on one side of your body instead of centered.
- DON’T exaggerate this posture. It should look natural.
- DO work the s-curve when you’re seated by crossing your legs or sitting with your weight on one hip.
2. DON’T Take Up Too Much Space
A wide, open body position is considered a “power pose.” That’s why you often see men spread their legs and lean forward at the shoulders. They’re essentially puffing themselves up to look larger than they are.
On the other hand, a more closed position will make you look more feminine and elegant. It also makes you appear physically smaller.
You already know that a lady keeps her knees together. But beyond that, you should keep your elbows in and avoid taking up too much space with your limbs. (By keeping your feet tucked close to your chair, for example.)
Here are some additional tips:
- DON’T slouch in an attempt to appear shorter or smaller.
- DO stand and sit with lifted posture. Think “tall” instead of “wide” with your body posture.
3. DO Mind Your Gestures
Gestures are an important part of body language. Women tend to be more expressive with their gestures than men. Next time you’re out, notice the way women use their hands and bodies to express ideas when they talk.
To master fluid, feminine gestures:
- DON’T make jerky or clumsy movements. Keep your elbows tucked in and don’t move too quickly. Practice making slow, smooth movements in front of a mirror.
- DON’T overdo your gestures. Observe women to get an idea of the correct balance.
- DON’T fidget. Avoid nervous movements like twirling your hair, shaking your leg, or tapping your fingers.
4. DON’T Forget Your Facial Expressions
The expressions you make say as much as the words that come out of your mouth. If you’re feeling nervous, it’s easy for this to be reflected on your face. On the other hand, a pleasant facial expression puts people at ease and helps you get the respect and acceptance you deserve.
Tips to keep in mind:
- DON’T wear a stoic expression. What feels “neutral” to you may come across as grumpy to others. (AKA “resting bitch face.”)
- DO put on a pleasant face. Keep the corners of your mouth turned up slightly. This also serves as a natural facelift!
5. DO Make Alluring Eye Contact
Eye contact is a major way to gauge a person’s personality. People who don’t make eye contact appear insecure or as if they’re hiding something. People who look you in the eye appear confident and sincere.
Here’s how to use eye contact to make a feminine impression:
- DON’T avoid people’s eyes. Be proud of who you are and look people in the eye.
- DO make eye contact and hold it for a second or two. (But not too long unless you want people to think you are trying to seduce or intimidate them!)
In conclusion
MTF feminine mannerisms are a fascinating topic and these dos and don’ts are only the tip of the iceberg. To go even deeper, be sure to check out my list of 27 MTF Body Language Mistakes to Avoid for a Flawless Feminine Image.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts…
What other differences in mannerisms and body language have you noticed between men and women? Do you have any other tips to pass along?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I just try to blend in as any other woman and watch their mannerisms. I also have many female friends who treat me as just another girl friend of theirs. I’m very lucky. It’s so gratifying being able to live my life now 24/7 as a female!
Suzy, It is Very nice when you get treated as an equal woman.✝️✝️✝️❤️❤️❤️
Hi AnnaSofia! Yes it is! I wish I would have done it years ago. I feel like who I was supposed to be now. Living my life now as a woman is very gratifying.
girl’s y’all have some good pointers but i ‘ve noticed when im around certain lady’s an women they tent do both bad thing’s for noticeable habits along with feminine postures i dare not say anything to one’s doing bad one’s but take pratice in one’s doing right
As expected… excellent advice.
My new book “The Red Bitch’s Revenge” will be out soon. It’s a Thriller/LGBT fiction.
Cute outfit Jane! Look forward to your book!
Thank you so much. Lucille. has my last novel “Identity” one woman journey from male to female, and all the disrespect and love she finds along the way. You might like it.
Thank you so much. Lucille. has my last novel “Identity” one woman journey from male to female, and all the disrespect and love she finds along the way. You might like it.
Thank you so much. Lucille. has my last novel “Identity” one woman journey from male to female, and all the disrespect and love she finds along the way. You might like it.
Hello, most of the article I do already. Even if not presenting as female. Years of practice, and that is the key practice till it becomes a habit. Long ago in the beginning of my self understanding I came across a set of videos that were super useful, and they are still on YouTube to my surprise. The channel has more but here is one to look at:
https://youtu.be/Rsc0S9rTIvk
Btw I am in no way affiliated with the channel or any of the videos, YouTube is just a place of great info for us girls.
My best secret however is to act like these four things relaxed, confident, happy, and sexy. If you manage all of those at once you will smile and so will others perfectly.
Miriya
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You are a gorgeous example of a young person who has mastered the art of CDing. You’re are beautiful. I also liked your 4 principles.
Noticed you show nothing nail polish…it would add to your femininity.
At 73, out in public since the 1960’s, I could never wear what you have on, but you wear it very well
..love the shoes too!
ENJOY Being You , kiddo. Time flies and the next outfit waits for no one!
Pics for your evaluation…T.J.
Looking good Girl !
Hi Miriya! You are so right. I always just assume to be using these feminine mannerisms in my day to day life. Makes it so much easier. And I love your photo! Very sexy! This is me yesterday at the mall shopping for a new dress for a party I was invited!
One error I see on other TG/CD girls is showing too much hand (with fingers spread). The image you want to present is long thin hands, with relatively long painted nails, keeping your fingers together as much as possible. Making a fist or rolling the fingers under will also make your hands look huge. I suggest girls wear long thin gloves which will entice them to use their hands in a more feminine way/gesture. This is especially necessary for those who have not been able to wear artificial nails and/or paint them.
I think the most important thing is to act yourself once I start to open up to my real self it just feels better and more natural
Thank you for the wonderful suggestions.. I will use them in my presentation.