Being a girl comes with some pretty great perks… high heels, lipstick, lingerie, and let’s not forget – BRAS!
Bras offer endless options for expressing your femininity. And that’s where things can get tricky! With so many sizes and styles to choose from, it’s easy to go wrong.
Do you know what to do and what NOT to do when it comes to bras for crossdressers and MTF trans women? Here are 6 do’s and don’ts of wearing a bra!
1. DO Wear The Right Size
Did you know that there’s an 80% chance you’re wearing the wrong size bra? A bra that doesn’t fit right is uncomfortable and unflattering – and who needs that?
Bra sizing is complicated, so I suggest getting professionally fitted if at all possible. (Many shops are happy to provide this service to their transgender and crossdresser clientele.)
If you prefer to do it yourself, check out my previous article on how to find your MTF bra size.
2. DON’T Let Back Bulge Ruin Your Look
One of the dreaded side effects of wearing a bra is back bulge. This is especially common if you carry extra weight in your upper body. Here are 3 tips for minimizing back bulge:
- Wear a larger band size. A band that’s too tight will cause bulging, so go up a size. For example, from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Look for a bra with extra stretch. Bras made with smooth, stretchy fabrics don’t dig in as much as stiffer bras.
- Try a longline bra. Longline bras have a wider band that extends down the torso to help eliminate back bulge.
3. DO Choose The Right Style
While choosing the right bra size is important, so too is the style. The options are nearly endless! Some of the style details to consider include:
- Padded vs. unpadded
- Underwire vs. wireless
- Cut of the bra cups (low cut, full cut, balconette, etc.)
- Front clasp vs. back clasp
- Straps (strapless, racerback, convertible, etc.)
- Fabric (cotton, satin, lace, etc.)
- Color
Which style is best depends on what you’ll be wearing, as well as your natural breast shape and body type.
For a breakdown of suitable styles, see my article on the Top 7 Bra Styles Every Crossdresser and MTF Transgender Woman Should Own.
4. DON’T Be Boring
While you should definitely own some basic bras, why stop there?
Bras offer endless options for expressing your style, so have fun and experiment with different colors, fabrics, and trimmings! (Just be careful what you wear them with as frilly details can show through clothes.)
5. DON’T Ruin Your Bra In The Wash
Bras are delicate objects, so they need to be properly cared for. You shouldn’t simply toss your bra in the wash with the rest of your clothes. Here are some tips to ensure that your bra stays in good shape for as long as possible:
- Hand wash your bra if possible. This is the best way to extend the life of your bra.
- Use a bra wash bag. This keeps the hooks from snagging and prevents your bra from getting tangled in the washing machine.
- Air dry your bra. Bras should never be put in the dryer, so hang them to dry instead.
6. DO Replace Your Bra When It’s Time
You take care of your bra, it should last a good while. However, keep in mind that bras do have a limited life span. (Expect an average of 6-12 months if you wear it regularly.)
Here are signs that your bra needs to be replaced:
- The bra straps are stretched out.
- The bra no longer fits as well as it used to.
- The bra has lost its shape.
- The bra feels uncomfortable.
Bras! We just can’t get enough
Now that we’ve got the dos and don’ts worked out, the only thing left to do is enjoy your beautiful bra… And maybe go out and buy some new ones!
Since a girl can never have too many bras, I’d love to know…
How many bras do you own? Are you a basic one-bra kinda gal? Or do you have a bra to match your every mood?
Take my poll and tell me about your favorite bra below!
Love,
Lucille
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Carollyn…You are one”Pretty Gal”, Love you.
How does water filled condoms work what is the time limit on using that method
Sara
Before I got my breast forms, I used round balloons filled with warm water to the size I wanted. I put them into my bra with the knot to the front…Wa La Nipples!
I don’t think I would want to trust water-filled condoms, wrong shape, and thin material.
Also love my heels can’t ever seem to have enough of them always trying some on and love the open toes and short heel boots. bought 3 new pairs today at Payless shoes they look & felt great and tryed them on there in the store and walked in the isle feel and sound great hearing them on the pavement 🙂 do love going to store and seeing trying on things and yes buying them and taking home and admire them walk around in them
I DO use a breast pump got off line use at least once a day 20 mins at time or so. also take Swanson Ram Ovarian Glandular pills, they do make my skin softer and have seen a little fuller breast 2. i also have a nipple pump so maybe in time…just love the look & feel of fem things on others and wearing as well 🙂
Hi ladies. I’m looking for some advice. I’m not open about my life style w anyone other then my wife but she can’t really give me any advice on a low key bra style for me. I’m looking for something for everyday wear that is pretty and comfy but will not be noticeable. Any advice would be very much appreciated
Thanks
D. Ann
There are several styles of ‘sport bra’ that should meet your needs.
Try a bralette, those are super comfy, and can be easily hidden under you male clothes. I have several that i wear often.
I’m looking for something conspicuous i can wear daily to work and out and about. Any suggesting ladies
what do you think of the way I wear a bra ?
Hot girl!
Carla…I love your legs “Great Nylons” !!!
Very nice gives U a great look babe 🙂
You look amazing Carla!
WQW, you are Rockin’ it lady friend!! Can’t wait to see you dressed up.
My 40DD Pocket Bras are super comfy, from Amazon. Have in many colors. See pics in others comments areas for effectiveness.
U R a very lovely and beautiful women 🙂
This is me dressed up , what do you think ?
I have at least two dozen now. Some sports bras to go with my yoga outfits; lots of various sexy bralettes which can be easily hidden under my male clothes, and some wonderful Victoria Secret bras for when I want to push up!
I just can’t get enough and not much makes me feel more fem than wearing a bra.
Love and hugs Rachel