Feeling feminine is as easy as slipping into a beautiful bra.
However, it’s not always easy to get the right fit since most bras aren’t designed with crossdressers and transgender women in mind.
But fear not, because there ARE solutions!
In this blog post, I share how to solve your 7 biggest bra problems. Discover how to find the perfect fit and style, so you and “your girls” can look your absolute best.
Problem #1: Wrinkled Or Gapping Bra Cups
Bra cups that don’t lay smooth are a common problem. Fortunately, there are two easy fixes:
- Go down a cup size. The main reason for wrinkles is that your breasts don’t fill out the bra cups. Try going down a cup size. For example, from a 38B to a 38A.
- Choose a demi bra instead of a full coverage bra. Full coverage bras often have extra space at the top of the cup. A demi bra that’s cut lower eliminates this problem.
Problem #2: Can’t Find A Bra My Size
If you opt not to wear breast forms with your bra, it can be tricky to find the perfect fit. Crossdressers and transgender women often struggle to find bras with small cups and large band sizes, as they are not commonly available.
Luckily, I’ve curated a list of bra options specifically catering to those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions:
- Bodycon Multiway Bra – latte – Band sizes 40-46, Cup Sizes B-G
- Flatter Me Bra – Band sizes 40-46, Cup sizes AA-B
- Leading Lady Scallop Lace Bra – Band sizes 36-48, Cup sizes A-DD
- Prima Donna Couture Bra – Band sizes 38-48, Cup sizes B-H
Problem #3: Back Bulge
Another common issue many face is back bulge, often caused by back fat or an ill-fitting bra. So, how can you bid farewell to this dreaded problem?
- Opt for a larger band size. Wearing a band that’s too tight can lead to bulging. Increase your band size by going up one size, such as from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Seek bras with flexibility. Look for bras crafted from smooth and stretchy fabrics. These types of bras are less likely to dig into your skin compared to stiffer ones.
- Give longline bras a try. Longline bras feature a wider band that aids in eliminating back bulge. This design provides additional support and helps create a smooth silhouette.
Problem #4: Wide-set Breasts
Wide-set breasts can be a common concern for crossdressers and transgender women due to having a broader rib cage. This can pose two challenges: finding a properly fitting bra and achieving the desired cleavage.
Here are four solutions tailored to wide-set breasts:
- Look for pushup pads. A bra with padding on the sides helps push the breasts together.
- Wear a wireless bra. Underwires can be uncomfortable if they’re not properly centered beneath the breasts. In this case, a wireless bra will fit you better.
- Choose a bra with a wide center panel. The wider the center panel (the triangle-shaped area between the bra cups), the better the bra will fit.
- Find a front closure bra. Front closure tend to have wider-set cups due to the center clasp.
Problem #5: Bra Straps Fall Down
Nothing is more annoying than straps that don’t stay put. Here’s how to solve this problem:
- Tighten the bra straps. Bra straps stretch out over time, so they should be tightened every other month or so.
- Look for silicone bra straps. Some bras have a silicone lining on the straps that helps keep them in place. You can also purchase silicone bra strap cushions that can be worn with any bra.
- Try a different bra style. Balconette and plunge bras tend to have wider straps that are prone to falling. Instead, look for a bra with a racerback or crisscross straps.
Problem #6: Breast Forms Don’t Stay In Place
When it comes to wearing breast forms, choosing the right bra is crucial. Here are five essential tips to guide you:
- Look for a pocket bra. Opt for a bra with built-in pockets specifically designed to hold the breast forms securely in place.
- Go for a full coverage. Another option is a full coverage bra. The cups should fully cover the breast forms for a seamless look.
- Opt for underwires. Select bras with underwires for added support and shape, especially if you are wearing heavy or large forms.
- Ensure a snug bra band. This provides support for the breast forms. To test, put a finger under the band between your breasts. If you can fit two or more fingers, the band is too loose. Tighten it or go down a band size.
- Avoid low cut bras. Low cut bras don’t have enough coverage to support the breast forms. Choose a full coverage bra instead.
- Avoid bras that are too small. Bras that are too small can damage your breast forms. Look for a bra that fits you properly.
Problem #7: Bra Shows Through Clothing
Just like visible panty lines, a bra that peeks through your clothes isn’t exactly fashionable (unless, of course, that’s the look you’re going for).
Here’s how to ensure your bra stays discreetly concealed:
- Look for bras with smooth cups and minimal details. Lacy fabrics and trimmings are pretty, but they often show through lightweight fabrics.
- Wear a black or skin tone bra. The black bra should be worn under dark clothing, while a nude or skin tone bra words best with light colors. Avoid white bras since these tend to show through clothing.
What are YOUR biggest bra problems?
Hopefully your biggest bra problem now is having too many bras and too little time!
But if you have any bra woes that weren’t covered, share them below so we can help. And if you have any other tips to add to this list, I’d love to hear them!
Love,
Lucille
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My biggest problems with bra’s is that the sizing isn’t always uniform. I wear a 42 C mostly full coverage to fit my forms. But my forms fill some of them out perfectly, while others seem lost in the same “C” cup. And then there are others that seem like their totally too small, even though they are marked 42 C. Once I find a brand that fits right, I tend to by multiple bra’s in different colors. The other issue is the strap length. Some bra’s have plenty of adjustment, while others seem to sit half too high. I’m thinking that my breast forms should be sitting over my breast and that the nipple of the form, should be in line with mine. There’s nothing like a good fitting bra, no matter who wears it. I’ve had great luck with Glamorise brand. I love the Bali styles, but find their straps somewhat shorter than I’d like.
I love love love wearing bras and I would every day if I could. My biggest issue is finding bras that are comfortable on the side of my pecs. Some bras really dig in to my pec muscle as it goes into my armpit area. I prefer wired and padded bras to hold my breast forms (which I have three different sizes of) but the top of that wire on the outside really pokes me sometimes. Any suggestions?
LOVE! the great advice. And thank you for doing so.
My biggest bra problem, besides the costs of, is finding a Simple underwire bra WITHOUT padding in a 40a or 40aa. I have some extremely comfortable bras in the Leading Lady brand in both underwire and wirefree. But they all have padding. I’ve found a few sports bras from Amoena that are quite comfortable as well, but, they are pocketed wirefree bras.
I’ve found a few push-up bras in my size(s)but, I’m not quite sure how those would do under a t-shirt since they are still padded. From the bottom, of course. And with me not wanting to show “breasts” at all, I’m wondering if I should still try them.
Since I just really just enjoy the feeling of wearing a bra, (and panties) do I really need to “display” breasts for that enjoyment? Although, in the future, when it becomes more financially feasible for me, I would like to purchase a set of true to life breast forms, and bras of course, in the D, or DD range so I can truly understand and semi feel what my women in my life went through in that respect, of sorts, on a day to day basis.
i am boy frm mumbai i like wearing bra i am enjoy and i feel good
i love wearing wide side support bras underwire/push ups. together with a front hooking bust line support bra. the picture is from a while and my breasts have gotten bigger since. i also have nicer bras now.
“erik”…Great Breasts…Isn’t Bra Wearing Great ? “Paula”
ooh that sounds very exciting, im happy that i now fill a full b cup. and i’m only a little over a year in with growing my breasts.
“erik”…I am still growing my “Breasts Bigger”…Now I need to get “Bigger Bras”. Love, Paula
“erik”…I am still growing my Breasts…I want to wear “Bigger Sexy Bras”. Love, Paula
I’m in between cup sizes. I’ve had ano unnaturally large bust since teenage years(I think that’s where my journey in feminization started) I got professionally measured last weekend for the very first time. I was super excited btw. I fall between a 46C and D. My deep plunge bra I chose the 46C and it fits perfectly. My full coverage is the 46D. So bra style definitely effects size.
Lucille,
Once again, great advice and help. Like Cynthia, I have been crossdressing for more than 40 years. Us girls back then, didn’t have a great place like “Femme Secrets” for helpful tips and encouragement. I bought several bras over the years that might fit, but did not feminize. I found that for me, Maiden Form (a cup size smaller B, not C) fits, flatters and feels great.
Have fun dressing-up!
Barb
BJW:
What a beautiful picture! You look gorgeous! Wanted to let you know.
CDing , out in public since the 1960’s, STILL going strong &will ( at 72 yo) as long as I can slide into my 100% nylon stockings,, put on the “face ” & get out and about.
Would love to see other pics…ENJOY being You!
T.J.