If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you know how tricky it can be to strike a balance between sexy and stylish – especially as you get older.
Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not! Everyone deserves to feel sexy and confident at any stage of life.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and sky-high heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
The key is to present yourself in a way that’s both stylish and sexy, while complementing your age and body type.
In this blog post, I’ll share my top 3 crossdressing and MTF fashion tips to help you embrace your sexy side at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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Sometimes you just need to dress down!
I agree with you. I dress to please myself and react if others are too judgemental! I.e., “Let’s sit down and discuss this over a latte.” Another aspect 4 consideration is cultural /ethnic headset & class background. I love to checkout fashion magazines. Whatever we wear the most important thing is a beautiful smile (as you have) & as my bff says…the eyes are windows to the heart. I want to feel comfortable in my getup / demeanor so I project my personality and being too serious is a nono for me. My dearly departed Aunt always brought her gorgeous, magic sense of humour. We laughed at the world and stayed healthy!!!! She’d also ask me, ” Have you met anyone you love better than yourself yet?” Talk about hersterical!!! I’d reply that it’s a work in progress!! Oh! Lucille gives basic sensible ideas. Stay positive & love to all XXX Jayne.
These are all good pointers . BUT ….. it’s not a cut in stone thing . I myself am about to turn 49 and I give the college girls here a run for their money !! I’ve got a very trim athletic female body and can wear whatever and don’t look out of place or like I shouldn’t be attempting to wear something like that . Not everyone is this fortunate . I think you should try out what works for YOU, then make adjustments. Watch other women of various ages and look at what they wear and how to wear it . Because I’m an active transsexual woman , I wear a lot of leggings , capris, fitted tops and such . Night out is bodycon or skinny jeans . It’s hard to tell someone to “dress their age”. Biologically I’m 49 , hormonaly I’m only 14-18 . I have always been told to try to find your ” personality ” , mine being an athletic woman who’s active day in day out . So my daily attire fits me well .
I love skirts and dresses, but have some nice jeans too, because that’s what most women actually wear!
looking at your does and do not list i dress as a do not. i love to wear loose fitting maxi dresses and skirts. plus i have to wear blouses that hide muscle, and use scarves to hide adams apple. the thing i think you are missing is fact that wear dresses and skirts because the way i feel in them. so i do not mind being your don’t of the month.
Lucille, Thankyou again.You are helping the world to be a better place to live.The last post was about bras.The one that actually makes a person feel like they have actual boobs was quite compelling.So the lingerie underneath the sexy clothes and the 3 pointers is importmanat as it adds to the feminine experience.As others have mentioned the hair must blend in Then of course the makeup must be appropriate and for many very sexy.Then of course ,when you are dressed and made up properly one can move on to other feminine areas like thoughts,voice,mannerisms etc so one can really enjoy their feminity.Thankyou again Lucille.You are a positive difference maker in society.
Thank you Lucille for your advices)
Lucille, i try to follow your advice, but don’t know is it successfully
Very good thoughts! Thanks again Lucille!
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Eugeni : Just a fabulous look, no doubt about that. You are a gorgeous woman. …I can’t keep up with you young Foxes. . . I am 71! !
Enjoy my pics. . . Send in more. ..T.J.