If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you know how tricky it can be to strike a balance between sexy and stylish – especially as you get older.
Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not! Everyone deserves to feel sexy and confident at any stage of life.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and sky-high heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
The key is to present yourself in a way that’s both stylish and sexy, while complementing your age and body type.
In this blog post, I’ll share my top 3 crossdressing and MTF fashion tips to help you embrace your sexy side at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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I love the ideas from this article. I’ve followed the suggestions and I think it helps. I am older (in my 60s), but have very nice, long legs and small firm ass that I love to show off. So I wear short tight skirts with hose and garter and high heels. I wear nice tops that don’t show too much because my upper body is more masculine. When I’m all dressed up with make-up and wig, I feel very feminine and sexy. Have to be discreet so don’t have any pictures.
Well I’m 53 years old I hope this looks good.
You look great!
Good Morning you look great
I love pin-up fashion.
She is feminine, beautiful and merciful to the character …
Looks very nice and in the right proportions .Someone read your advice and used it.
Hi Lucille, I love Korean fashion and a lot of the skirts do tend to be on the short side though. I am also at the top limit to fit into most of them. I bought this ensemble but sadly the jacket is a but too tight. My legs are pretty good too for someone just under 60.
The second picture is the outfit that I wore to see my psychologist in London. Being in Mayfair, London the outfit fitted right in. I was a bit self conscious but that’s really only because I haven’t had FFS yet. I know people won’t like it but I felt a million dollars even if was only about $100 in total.
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I Love ❤️ Dressing up and love too be in beautiful wedding dresses
I feel like a hot sexy women
I Love ❤️ The Transformation m-f
Sexy Outfits
Love ❤️
Marisa K
This dress is so sexy in my opinion, also in my opinion that it really doesn’t matter what I wear I still look presentable and professional, and i still get a few dates. I remember growing up all my male “friends” call me a f@#got and the same guys want to sleep with me because of the way I dress as a woman, I get tons of compliments and some women don’t think I’m a male until I talk.
I love dressing up in sexy hot dress and going out.
Marisa, you look very hot in the pic. Love how the dress fits your body so well.
Sexy Lingerie is the way go I just love dressing up.
Love ❤️ Marisa
Love the bra and panties with stilettos. Very hot!
You look very beautiful