Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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My favorite piece of lingerie (of course, I love anything feminine) is my bra. I love putting a bra on as soon as I get up and wearing it all day long. I hear, so many times at work, women saying “they can’t wait to get home and take their bras off bra”, as well as their pantyhose and makeup. I’m just the opposite, I could be dressed “fem” all day long. I wear breast pads in the cups and they feel so real, wish they were. A few times at work, I was wearing a bra under a shirt and under a sweater, when I adjusted the straps. A co-worker spotted me from across her desk area and just smiled. I thought I was done. The next morning, when I arrived at my desk, there was a cute VS pink bag there. Of course I was curious and concerned. I peaked in to the bag and pulled away the tissue paper – it was a size 36B pink lace push up bra. A note enclosed said, I’d love to see you model this and maybe more sometime. No name signed. I looked across and there was my co-worker, Marie, just smiling. She knew. Needless to say, we soon became “best girlfriends”.
Ms. Patrice, You are so lucky to have discovered a girlfriend. I can only dream.
SissyCrissy…………..xoxoxo
A teddy , thigh highs and 4 inch pumps work for me!
I love nylons and heels.They make my whole body feel longer and smoother.I think the rest is only covering up.
I love all the lace and frills.
I love to shave and wax and lotion, make my skin look and feel great.
You know what, I finally realise that my skin cna be just as soft and smooth as any women.I just neede to take care of it like a woman does.Why did ouir mothers not tell us that?
Louise CD
I love the feel of nylons, too, on my smooth legs. Mostly, I’m a “pantyhose” girl, but I also love to wear garter and stockings.
Hi , ever since I was Little my favorite lingerie was pantyhose and remember nothing beats a great pair of Leggs. I really enjoy this site and I did like the T-strings site also those are all so cute.
I love my lingerie! But then I love all my clothes… lol
i had alittle help with my make-up and other things from my ex but now i am a happy girl and with my breast line and my private area too now i look like a real girl now this did help me alittle thanks
Rachael, such a pretty dress, and you have such a nice figure….nice…
I love all of my panty and bra sets, they make me look sexy and I feel more fem. I love you site Lucille, thank you
ive always loved this shot im sorry girls my face is not in it, its about the lingerie right ??? lol
Ms. Lisa, It’s most definitely, in my case, always about the lingerie!!!
SissyCrissy