Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I love my good, and matching bras and panties. But nothing makes me feel more feminine than a good baby doll to slide into at night!
love wearing matching bras and panties too and sexy baby doll makes me feel so good
I enjoy wearing sexy Bodystockings and heels
I enjoy wearing sexy Bodystockings and heels in the bedroom
I love nothing better than wearing my lingerie, usually it is a matching pair of bra and panties.
I like wearing bras, they meake me.feel girly!
All-time favorite is “B” Nu-Bra under 36C push-up bra. Nu-Bra provides very comfortable squeeze together of my own soft/loose breast tissue into a deep cleavage line. Push-up bra lifts everything up and completely covers the silicone cups and clasp. So I get an amazing feeling of incredibly full, round, jiggly breasts – along with beautiful image for others to see. So I’ll wear a deep V-neck or scoop-neck clingy knit top or clingy sweater, and not only am I constantly aware of these mounds just under looking over my chin, but everyone I meet (guy or girl) gets a clear view of classic, elegant, tasteful cleavage + bounce just above the neckline of my top. THAT is by far my favorite lingerie!! (See my photo posted June-2014 in Lucille’s blog “Creating Cleavage” … thanks so much Flat2Fem!! …. it really worked for me.)
I have a hard time finding bras, but not anymore because I use the Genie Bra, and it’s the best bra I’ve ever used. I also like to wear a sexy thong or G-String, but I’m also really interested in trying to purchase some ruffled panties.
Love and Lipstick,
Jasmine
definitely my VS push up +2 cups bra & matching thong – with the suspender & stockings so I guess all of it lol