Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I just recently got out of the hospital for some surgery I wore some of my favorite lingerie I wore my camera souls and some my girl pajama bottoms and all my nurses loved it because I support a quite large
i love my fishnet mini dress and waist sincher
Hi,
I really do have to laugh at this , To look hot in Feminine Lingerie,I dont know what buttons you’d need to push for me, its not going to happen , let alone any clothes, I knew at age 10 i would never like how i looked then or now,
You know what i know more men who can dress == like a woman == far better than i can or will.
Yet ….. im a female / woman just because my hormones are imbalanced does not stop me from being who i am or how i was born it stops me from looking like a female,
I know im putting myself down because i dont have any outer beauty to show,
You can not dressup my beauty it comes from with in, where i lack i make up in so many other way’s other wise had i not accepted myself 55 years ago out of 65, i would be insane long ago,
…noeleena…
I believe you really understand this concept and have once again given us the best advice available. I could not agree more about the importance of a proper fit. I learned that lesson personally when I was measured and fitted by a professional sales lady. I walked out of the store feeling more confident and comfotable than I would ever have imagined. I think the personal grooming and skin care is the foundation upon which we hope to make our feminine image and nothing will make you feel in your heart,mind and soul, better than your favorite lingerie (mine would be a silk babydoll nighty) on your silky smooth skin. Thank you again Lucille for your wonderful advice and support. Best Wishes Honey
Hi Lucille, love u & thanks for ur guidence to us. Pls keep it up.
a sexy teddi with a garter belt and nylons are what make me feel very sexy.
Hello Lucille,
Yes, definitely a very important article of clothing.
The feeling under clothing or to bed is fabulous femininity.
Stay Beautiful,
Wanita
Wanita : Love your look! At 71, I go All out, when I dress. HEAD TO TOE, hope you agree. …
Enjoy being You!
So pretty, Wanita!! I love your sexy silky black slip and gorgeous black nylons!
I agree with Danielle, I think that a lacy slip over a bra and panty is very feminine. Of course if you are wearing such a fantastic article of clothhing and cover it up with either a dress or a skirt you must remember to show just a hint if that pretty slip below your hemline. I drives men crazy and really helps with that feminine “look” My deceased wife gave me this tip early in our marriage. She use dto dress me up and help me look feminie. I miss her.