If you enjoy crossdressing or embracing your feminine side as a transgender woman, you probably love the feeling of being all dolled up!
There are endless options for expressing your feminine style – whether your look is girly girl, classic, bombshell, or something entirely unique.
That said, there are definitely a few items that should be on your DO NOT WEAR list.
Whether you dress as a woman full time or just occasionally, here are 7 things not to wear when presenting yourself as a woman.
1. A Too-Short Skirt That Rides Up
Most crossdressers and transgender women have gorgeous legs that look amazing in short skirts and dresses.
But if your skirt is so short that you have to constantly tug to keep it from riding up, it’s a definite NO. There’s nothing more distracting than seeing an otherwise attractive woman struggling with her clothes.
2. A Poor Quality Wig
Your hair is one of the first things people notice about you. If you wear a cheap or worn-out looking wig, you’ll likely attract the wrong kind of attention.
To avoid this, invest in a high-quality wig and take good care of it. This way, you can ensure that you always make a positive impression with your hair.
3. Ill-Fitting Undies
Ill-fitting bras and panties aren’t just uncomfortable; they can create unsightly bulges and wrinkles under your clothes. Who wants that?
Believe it or not, about 80% of women wear the wrong bra size. So, there’s a good chance you might be wearing an ill-fitting bra too.
But don’t worry, you can find your proper bra size with some helpful tips. Check out this article for guidance: How to Find Your MTF Bra Size (Transgender/Crossdressing Tips).
4. Too Much Perfume
The perfect perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine, but it shouldn’t be so strong that it becomes overpowering to others.
A simple rule of thumb is to apply 2 spritzes to 1-2 areas of your body, like your wrists and neck – never exceeding a total of 5 spritzes.
5. Shoes You Can’t Walk In
Sexy stilettos are a surefire way to look and feel gorgeous – but only if you can walk in them! If you have trouble walking in heels, try these tips:
- Stick with heels 3” or lower
- Wear shoes with thicker heels (skinny heels are much harder to balance in)
- Avoid thick platforms
6. Too Much Makeup
When it comes to makeup, less is more. A soft, natural look is always more feminine and flattering than overdoing it.
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7. Worn Out Clothes or Accessories
It’s hard to feel like a poised and polished woman in scuffed shoes or a stretched out bra.
Take a good look at your clothes, undies, and accessories and either repair, donate, or toss anything past its prime.
In conclusion
While I’m not a big believer in fashion rules, I think we can all agree that these items do nothing to enhance your feminine image.
So what do you think of my list? Is there anything else you would add? I’d love to hear from you, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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i tend to dress for occasion she’s right bout dressing for place n length of time don’t want to over do it but at sametime don’t under dress either go according to season place n length of time but if going stay or be indoors for period of time take or keep change of clothes with u at all time’s girl’s never know when might have accident
Thanks!
Thanks for all your great advice!
Dear Kayleigh,
Forget what she said about the “distracting background”! You are a very beautiful young lady and the attention should be focused on you.. Shouldn’t matter if you are in front of a water fall or in the bathroom like me Hon! lol
your a very pretty girl pity about the distracting back ground
A number of excellent suggestions. Here is mine:
Don’t overdress. It’s a mistake I have made many times in the past.
By ‘overdress’, I don’t mean wearing clothes that are too fancy for the occasion. I mean wearing clothes that are (or will be) uncomfortable. Think about where you are going and how long you are going to be there. For example I’ve been shopping at the malls many a time in winter and I can’t count the number of times I’ve worn a heavy coat. After walking around for about 3 minutes, I have to remove it and lug it around for the rest of the afternoon. Even without the coat I remember being very warm and uncomfortable in long sleeves. A lighter coat and a loose fitting short sleeve top would have been much better.
I’ve made the same mistake while flying. I will now only wear a loose fitting top and carry a sweatshirt/sweater in my bag. Nineteen times out of twenty, I end up being too hot rather than too cold. Your situation may be different. Again, the idea is to think about where you are going and how long you will be there.
A few years ago I went to a summer party in a hot pants jumper. (above) Well everything was just fine but I remember drinking alcohol and having to use the ladies’ room more than I wanted to. It was at a house so everything was ok, but if I had been in a public venue, it would have been a lot more inconvenient. I guess going out and about since the mid ’90’s has made me a bit jaded as to what I will wear in public. Don’t make the same mistakes that I did. 🙂
Annette
Dear Annette,
Thanks so much for the advice.. I tend to do the same and it just becomes a burden..
You are such a beautiful lady!
Hugs n Kisses
A frown, never wear a frown. Remember Ladies these are the happiest times for us.
AudryAnne clearly states those photos to be silly at-home outfits so have a heart, Suzy. I do the same, but I use those silly games as practice, AudryAnne, so the day you actually get to wear something sluttish, you will look like a slut, and not like a man in a child prostitute’s castaway underwear. But I have seen gorgeous pictures of AudryAnne, she can. ..
I am just getting started and in the process of growing my clothing, shoes, and makeup. Any tips that will help me would be appreciated. A friend of mine told me to use this site for my transition into my new life , so i will be looking and reading all i can get. Also the 7 things not to do, that was so true, thanks.
Roberta
I also agree. Light makeup, and a bit of a conservative look when going out in public. But if I’m staying home, I do go for a more teen look. Short skirts, more girly girl dresses, etc.
Dear Audrey Ann,
There is nothing wrong with looking sexy when you have the body to do it.. Don’t get me wrong Suzy but every picture of you is in a dressing room.. Do you have one in your home? I think she looks fabulous! I only wish that I could look that hot! lol
I love your short skirts
Hi – please don’t take this personal, but honey how many women do you see dressed like you? I doubt very many. I just try to blend in as a normal woman. Not a big deal. Sorry, but I hope you take my comment as okay! See my photo from the other day. Let me know what you think – love ya, Suzy