Are you someone who doesn’t fit traditional gender norms?
Whether you’re a crossdresser, transgender woman, or embrace a different gender identity, it’s clear that society still has a lot to learn about gender non-conforming people.
Do you agree?
If so, let’s shed some light!
What do you wish people understood about you?
Whether it’s the people closest to you or the world at large, what message would you like to share?
The more voices and perspectives out there, the more others will hopefully begin to understand.
I’d love to hear from you, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
Merci infiniment pour avoir offrir cette fenètre de coeur ouvert.
A chaque personne qui nous accuse:
-Chaque personne à ses imperfections; la mienne – parmi plusieurs – est que je suis née dans le mauvais corps, et ce n’est pas de ma faute.
-Ne me forcez pas à étre comme vous voulez; laissez moi étre moi méme.
-Vous cherchez votre bien étre; moi aussi.
-Vous avez choisi votre vie; alors laissez moi choisir la mienne en paie.
-Mon problème est une question d’existence.
Merci infiniment pour avoir offrir cette fenètre de coeur ouvert.
A chaque personne qui nous accuse:
-Chaque personne à ses imperfections; la mienne – parmi plusieurs – est que je suis née dans le mauvais corps, et ce n’est pas de ma faute.
-Ne me forcez pas à étre comme vous voulez; laissez moi étre moi méme.
-Vous cherchez votre bien étre; moi aussi.
-Vous avez choisi votre vie; alors laissez moi choisir la mienne en paie.
-Mon problème est une question d’existence.
I wish people woud just accept me for who I am a girl who loves other girls and leave it at that
I wish everyone could understand the need for me to let go and become my female self without the looks and stares that say, “Oh my God, a fagot.”
I wish people would realize that just because you are a biological male or female does not mean you are 100% male or female. It is more of a sliding scale. What is on the outside does not necessarily reflect was is on the inside. I have also been very sensitive and emotional, love interior decorating, watching QVC and HSN, and enjoy reading books about women’s studies and feminism. I have always enjoyed the company of women more then men, most of my friends have been female, and I consistently score heavily female on male/female brain tests. I think and feel like a woman, yet on the outside I am a male. People don’t understand that.
My wish is that what i do as a cross dresser effected no one but myself
everyone has made excellent points and, as a blanket statement, I agree. Whatever we are, we are first and foremost, people, friends, neighbors, co-workers, etc with all that goes with it. If you did not know I was born male you might accept the woman you see before you. Once you find out, suddenly I am something entirely different in your eyes. What changed? Knowledge. You now know something you did not know and it deviates from what you were taught was right, correct and proper. Aside from that, I am the same person you previously accepted so, why can’t you to continue to accept? If you don’t understand, ask questions and do research. If you WON’T understand, I can’t help you.
I wish I would be respected for who I am and that people would understand that I didn’t choose to be transgender. I was born this way and have been since my earliest memory. What I DID choose was to live as my true self and not stay hidden in the “mansquerade.” Out at 64 and never felt better. Just a few months (hopefully) to a legal name change and (finally) correct gender marker.