Do you feel like you don’t fit into traditional gender norms?
Whether you’re a crossdresser, a transgender woman, or someone who embraces a different gender identity, one thing is clear: society still has a lot to learn about gender non-conforming people.
Do you agree? If so, let’s talk about it!
What do you wish people understood about you?
Whether it’s the people closest to you or the world at large, what message would you like to share?
The more voices and perspectives out there, the more others will hopefully begin to understand.
I’d love to hear from you, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
I wish my family would “try to open their eyes, accept my choice just a little”. It is my choice to be the real me, I’m still the wild/zany/fun person I’ve been my entire life, I just do it with more flair and fashion now…..ohhh and a bunch more cleavage.
Have a great Christmas everyone,
Missy Jean
I’m the same person you have know for years. Just now the inside matches the outside and I’m so happy just being myself.
So either love me or hate me, just give me the respect that I deserve.
Hi deedra
You look beautiful and i agree 100% with everything you said we still the same person and people should respect wherever decision we take with our lives, by the way I am a client of Monica prata too she’s wonderful.
Hi Deedra – it’s great to read your positive comments, that the inside matches the outside. That photo shows me an attractive and confident woman who obviously feels comfortable as she is. And, she certainly deserves respect – she has earned it !
I wish that people would not be so judgmental about what other people wear I would love to be able to dress in women’s clothes and go out in public without people calling me a fag.I love putting on a bra, panties, girdle, nylons a skirt, blouse and makeup and go out without any remarks from people because I have a beard and am not ready to shave it off
I wish more people will understand our need and desire as well. Also treat us like other gender. So far there is no problem for me to mix with certain communities, but it will become tense when self-proclaim religious individu/community start an annoying and sometimes abuse word toward us in my country.
Do you think this woman is worth while to come out and play?
I wish people who are close to me could understand that I just want to dress, look and go out like born women do. It’s not that I want to be a woman full-time, it’s not a sexual thing, it’s not a perversion (as some insinuate) – it’s just that I want them to accept the Christine in me. And, accept that I love dressing as a woman, looking like a woman and really do love going out as Christine. Too much to ask ?
Christine, I completely understand where to ad coming from. I have been taking hormones if a year and all I wish for is the people I know to understand that I am the same person inside but I feel better about myself when I look like there on the outside.
Hi Anita – thanks for the thoughtful comments and I am with you all the way. Good luck with the hormones and trust they are having the effects you hoped for.
I wish people understood that when dressed as Rachel I am still the same person as when in male mode but with a softer gentler character.
I feel the same way
I wish that people understood that I really am Phoebe Jane and not the guy I was born as just dressing up or pretending to be a girl. I have been a girl in my heart since my earliest memories so this is not just a passing phase. I am so lucky to have some wonderful girlfriends who understand, support and protect me while fully accepting me as just one of the girls, but if only more people understood