Do you feel like you don’t fit into traditional gender norms?
Whether you’re a crossdresser, a transgender woman, or someone who embraces a different gender identity, one thing is clear: society still has a lot to learn about gender non-conforming people.
Do you agree? If so, let’s talk about it!
What do you wish people understood about you?
Whether it’s the people closest to you or the world at large, what message would you like to share?
The more voices and perspectives out there, the more others will hopefully begin to understand.
I’d love to hear from you, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
That I am still the same person that they always knew. There is nothing new, I am just finding my own balance to make myself happy. I am sorry if they feel inconvenienced by my new ways, but that I still love them and hope they will support me as I know I would be there for them. That’s it, nice and simple.
For me I wish my wife could understand that I don’t want to take anything away from her as she is a very beautiful woman and I still love her as much as when we were teenagers. I do understand that it is difficult for her to see me as a woman
And she has been more and more accepting to my fem side however she still gets upset if I want to wear certain outfits
If they are something close to what she would wear,or if I wear my hair similar to hers while I know it is purely by coincidence
Not an attempt to copy or degrade her. I guess iam just being selfish because for the most part she is pretty good and even helps me shop for shoes, wigs, and clothes.As for the public I just wish they could accept us as we are and not judge us or be
Mean or even violent to us everyone has there differences and
We should be able to enjoy those differences without any repercussions .
I just want people, friends and family especially, to take me as I come. I’m just a person. I don’t understand why they don’t get that I just want to feel pretty, which I don’t in “man mode.”
I have always felt out of place in my life, I’m just not happy as a male, being a female I’m so much happier with my life and people see it and praises me for taking that step but can’t my family see it why do they let me be without the pop shots !!
hi every one ,all u ladies have beautiful soles, most of all hello my lady ,I have been leaning a lot from u Lucile,i was born male but wished female think one day people wont care wot clothes u wear wot gender u r as long u got kind heart and soleu live along time butno matter how hard its going to be I want to be the lady that Iwas .I be over the moon if I couldhave sexchange still remain as malewith out the inner puzzle im not complete if any one knows where I can go to chop I be ur slavle 4 as long as u wishmany kiss gina
I wish people in general would just accept me as any other woman in the world ,without the need to ask me Questions like “Oh are you like that Caitlyn/Bruce Jenner person” or “So Why you really think you’re a woman, didn’t you cut it as a man” and other such demeaning forms of harrassment with a condescending societal overtone to it…
Ok I am a (Male to Female) Transexual Woman of 6ft 5inchs tall,slender frame,I do pass (or So I’m told by many before) and I live fulltime as a woman…I’m on hormones,so I’ve gained the acceptance of my Gender Gatekeepers in both general medicine and mental health fields…Ok I’ll admit honestly …Its no rainbow being transexual and not having the aesthetic feminine body contours (though I’ll concede i’m happy to wait for the hormones to do their thing)….I just wish people (specifically men when refering to intimacy issues) would understand I have equally the capacity to love,feel hurt,be bitchy,need to look,feel and be dressed nicely at times,whilst also sexy and alluring at other times etc just like every other woman the world over does without being judged and scrutinised daily… Anyway this is just my opinion viewpoint…Sincerely Saphire Rose..xoxox
I guess I wish that people knew how much of a woman I am on the inside and how much I wish I’d been born a woman. I’m not saying I feel trapped in my body. I don’t hate being a man. I just know that if we were given a choice at birth, I’d always, ALWAYS have Chen to be a woman. I guess the desire for people to “see” the “real” me is why I put myself so frequently in a position to be seen/caught in a mini, etc. I guess it also explains why i almost always seem to opt to be out in a position where I might be seen in public, in places near where I live and where SO MANY people know me. I’m always nervous when I do something like this but seem more nervous to do it in places where pretty much NO ONE knows me which even to me, seems exactly opposite of what you’d expect.
What do you wish people understood about you?
I’m just a transvestite
I’m a man but I like to dress in women’s clothes
As some like the other Fut Bol baseball or basketball
And they do not see us as depraved as we entered we prove boutiques and beautiful shoes