Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I live as a woman. I am not a crossdresser. Maybe this website is not for me. I find it hard to understand why someone would feel that they can’t express themselves in the way that they feel and choose to do so!
Yes there has been and will always be some ridicule and mockery. But I am being true to myself and I have accepted and am at peace with my feminine self, despite all the aggression, violence and evilness I have encountered in my life.
I refuse to be put into a pigeonhole and told I can’t live as the human being I was intended to be.
I make no apology to the haters and I express my love and appreciation to the lovers.
I feel that all this talk about doing this in the privacy of your home and or in your car and reference to CIS or genetic females insulting to say the least and plays directly into the hands of the bigoted and insularities of narrow-minded people.
Please don’t think it’s been easy being as strong-willed as this, it hasn’t. Nor has it been handed to me on a plate. I have had my struggles from birth being born a hermaphrodite.
I searched for the group which would accept me, the acceptance I craved for as we all do, be it if you are a crossdresser or trans etc..
Then I realised that actually, the only acceptance I need is from me. So much ridicule and beatings and violence later, I am at peace because I really don’t care what people think of me. I don’t need anyone’s approval but their tolerance would be appreciated but not required either.
Because of my obstinacy and strong sense of self. Ironically because of all the negativity and violence, I will never hide myself away. I will never be ashamed to be me and say hello world this is me!
Like me or loathe me, it’s all the same to me! I am here and I am proud of who I am. I will not feel the shame I was made to feel as a child growing up. I have learnt to be strong.
However, I did succumb to all the grooming and the fashion etc., that is expected of all women and I learnt the art of make-up. I was lucky to have been born with all the other female qualities such as walking, heels, talking etc.. However, not so lucky when growing up and having to present as a male which we all were in the 60’s.
People like me didn’t exist then lol! A medical phenomenon I was labelled and medical phenomenon’s are special. I am, therefore, special in extension of that.
i am proud despite all my struggles to find my way in the world and so should all of you girls, wherever you fit in along the scale under the transgender umbrella.
Much love. xxx
My wife is happy for me dress fem at home, I am convincing from the shoulders down being slim build anyway, but need to master hair make up and voice before going out
Hi Lucille
I fully dress when I am meeting up with a close circle of former work colleagues/friends. Also, when I am driving, or out to the shops. When it is not acceptable for me to present “en femme” fully, I shall wear skinny “boyfriend” jeans.
I consider the support you provide is immense.
Thank You and Love.
I haven’t got to the point of everyday and everywhere, but I go out to places enfemme, and of course at home. It is nice when I get off work and can go home and slide into some of my favorite girly “comfy clothes” and relax. That can be very relaxing for me
I truely understand your last two sentences as that is exactly how I feel, unfortunately my wife is not accepting of this lifestyle so I only dress out when she is not home.
Hello Lucille, I am a woman and go everywhere. Singing in a LGBT choir has done so much for me.
Hello, girls.
I like to feel like a women, and wear home women clothes ans sometimes outside , in the Streets and in stores, actually I am a straight man.
I would like to have a women breast, and like to know someone with this experience and if possible understand the feeling and pros and …
Kind regards..
Véro
I spend enough time & effort to make this 60+ male appear (& be complimented about) to be in “Her” earl 50s or 40s (sometimes even younger)! I “Present” as a elegant, fashion conscious “Lady” with lots of nice jewelry, well done make-up, ultra-long eyelashes and manicured red nails, fresh floral perfume and feminine yet well groomed natural hair or a well styled wig. This exterior appearance self-generates the female mannerisms, feminine voice, attitude & personality traits (which I have practiced over the years) that are frequently explored & discussed on this web site. This has given me the needed courage to shop as a woman, dine & drink as a lady and flirt like a vampish “Party Girl” depending on my surroundings, what I need and the context of the situations I find (or put) myself in. The inner satisfaction and emotional “high” of a successful transformation experience is exhilarating & hard to fully describe. I can share more details and chat about all this if you search for me on URNOTALONE.com or better yet, if you email me at victoriatrans@sissify.com. We “sisters” should be more willing to share feelings & ideas and socialize just like the genetic females we work so hard to transform ourselves into, that’s one of the nice things about this web site, Lucille encourages sharing our feminine feelings!
I am only just now comfortable telling close friends that I wear nail polish on my toes.