Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
Loading ...
P.S. If you liked this article, you will love my FREE Male to Female Transformation Mini Course.
I am extremely pleased to give my experience when I go outside as a woman though I am a male. For the last 15 years I have often been going out in the female dress. One of the reason is I have large breasts and without a big bra now 42″ Cup size D I cannot hold my breasts. My breasts are much bigger than the breasts of my wife. Initially my wife use to select good bras for me and I have no problem from my wife. She really likes my breasts. I wear T shirt and my breasts are easily visible. I am fond of colorful bras and it is visible through the cloth. I am really proud of my female features and I enjoy every bit when I go outside more often in female dress.
Thomas
I chose other in the poll because I tend to go whenever and wherever as I feel at the time. I always have a bit of self doubt but once I get out
there people seem to go their way and I go mine. For some reason, I don’t know why, I have never been singled out in public. Understand now I’m not out there every day as a woman but with the changes to my body it is probably only a matter of time because it gets harder and harder to hide behind my male persona. I dress as a man for my wife’s sake most time. She accepts me at times but has trouble with what will her friends think. Other fits me because I don’t think I fit in just one category because I ave experienced them all yet I don’t fit in just any one. I enjoy being a woman and I do everything I can these days from hypnosis to weight loss to be the best woman I can.
I was a little shocked over the polls I have resently gave into being a woman as much as possible I can’t drees the way I want for work but I don’t let it stop me from wearing a bra and panties and make up or doing my nails. I work in a wood mill and I catch shit for how I present my self but I don’t care what what they think or say. I couldn’t be more happy with my self. I love being a woman and if you love being women my advice is for you to be true to yourself life is short if being a girl makes you happy then give in to it be happy all the time it’s wrong to denie being your true self it’s not easy because of this judgmental world we live in. Just stop making excuses and Girl Up!!! I’ve been living as a woman for 3 weeks full time I don’t go out the door unless I’m presenting my self as a woman and it’s scary at first but it gets easier and more comfortable every time you do it as if you done it a 1000 times before I came out I told family and my boss that I was Transgender so when they were to see changes they wouldn’t ask what’s up with this or that I strongly recommend a therapist to help one come out into being your true self there can be a lot of emotions and angsytey it can be overwhelming to sort out by one’s self
A Milestone:
Living more authentically as myself, a woman of transgender experience, today seven years since I began my transition, I am finally able to start permanently removing my facial hair through electrolysis. I’ve never been able to afford this (I transitioned on a shoestring), but now I’ve decided to try to remove the (relatively) few dark hairs that still dot my face – everything else is colorless, sparse and grows slowly now that I run on estrogen…
Because of my circumstances, I have had to transition very gradually on a shoestring budget. Many of us start their facial hair removal early in their transition, while they are still perceived as male or “in between.” In my case, I consider myself transitioned, and will be going through this process as a woman.
…Beyond the pain, time and expense, I will need to let my hair grow-out a couple days a week in order for the electrolysis to work her (painful) magic. This makes me very vulnerable: I have a good bit of “passing privilege” – people most often assume that I am “just” a tall, boyish woman. BUT I will have two days of stubble and then a couple days of red-rawness in my face every week until whenever. YIKES!! I’ve learned that I can deal with the pain, but this will make my presentation more challenging…
…STILL, people saw me this week with my stubble, and then yesterday with my raw face, and they *still* treated me as a women (though I sensed a special tenderness: I think they sensed that I was in a vulnerable position and something significant was happening in my life).
Sadly, I am not at all passable as a female as I am silkily built. When dressed ‘en femme’, I feel great and enjoy every moment but I look like a football linebacker in drag (build wise as my make up is minimal as I do have pretty features). I do take walks, drive my car, ride my motorcycle, and swim ‘en femme’ alone…
I liked your frankness and I think that the satisfaction that we get from feeling the woman we want to be may overgrow the need to pass.
beside that ,I think that i s good if you try to enhance the feminility of a big woman by looking at big ,strong feminine woman. What is the the feminility that they express, which is their secret , how they are able to do that, where they hit you with their charm.
liana
I liked your frankness and I think that the satisfaction that we get from feeling the woman we want to be may overgrow the need to pass.
beside that ,I think that i s good if you try to enhance the feminility of a big woman by looking at big ,strong feminine woman. What is the the feminility that they express, which is their secret , how they are able to do that, where they hit you with their charm.
liana
I was amazed and saddened to see the large fraction who don’t go out at all, and the others who restrict their outings to a few places. As a full-timer, it seems so natural to me, and I may have lost track of the apprehension I first felt. The rewards of getting out have proven to be TREMENDOUS, however. So I want to encourage you, girls, to try and expand your outings agendas, if you can do so safely and without endangering your social and economic situation. You may be fearful at first (like I was), but with good study and preparation it can be extremely fulfilling and affirming. Just take tiny steps at first.
p.s. I’m tall, have a rather manly build, not very graceful, so I don’t successfully pass all the time. But I’m treated well, and it really feels good.
Joan
Sadly, I never find the appropriate time to act en femme. My schedule is too filled up with other “important” things. Most of the time whenever I actually do find the time to do so, I’m always forced to conduct activities that most women are forced to do on a daily basis, so nothing really gets done.
But, I think the bigger part of my conundrum is that I’m afraid. Afraid of going out in public as a girl. I know that I live in an inclusive community that’s accepting, but what’s hard to accept is myself. Even if I cover myself head to toe in feminine attire, I’ve still got a very masculine body to show for it. And short of a brain transplant, I don’t know how to make myself physically more feminine.
So, unfortunately, I’m a woman on the inside, who yearns for the outside world, and knows that if I were a genetic girl I could probably do very well in the field, but unfortunately all I can do is keep dressing in the safety of my own house.
as an older t-gal,i am venturing out more and more.i love the feeling of being dressed,feminime,and sesual.thank you for letting us share our fantasies.