You are never too young or too old to be your best female self. But what does that mean when it comes to dressing age appropriately as a transgender woman or crossdresser?
We’ve all seen older women dressed like teenagers… and the attention they attract usually isn’t positive.
Does that mean you have to dress like an old frump after a certain age? Absolutely not!
I believe most of the “dress for your age” rules are silly and outdated… That said, there ARE some guidelines worth keeping in mind.
In this blog post, I share tips on how to look classy and feminine at every age.
Your 20s or Younger
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20s: Transgender style tips
- Your 20s are a time to play with trends and be adventurous. You’re still discovering your style, so take risks and have fun!
- You’re not a kid anymore, so avoid adolescent details like glitter, rhinestones, or cartoony prints.
- You can get away with short skirts and body-baring styles, but be careful not to cross the line from sexy to slutty. Good taste is a fashion DO at any age.
Your 30s
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30s: Transgender style tips
- Your 30s are the time to start adding a touch of sophistication to your look.
- You can still have fun, but it’s time to uplevel your look by dressing less casually than you did in your 20s.
- This is the perfect time to start building a wardrobe of classics while continuing to play with trendy items.
Your 40s
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40s: Transgender style tips
- This is the age to start thinking about dressing in more tailored styles. Consider classic, clean shapes in bold colors or prints for added impact.
- Go for simplicity rather than complicated details. From now on, your look should be clean, classy and sophisticated.
- There’s no reason to turn down your sex appeal once you hit 40. But instead of baring it all, show off one part of your body and keep the rest covered.
Your 50s
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50s: Transgender style tips
- Now’s the time to start highlighting your face instead of your body. (Though if you have a body like Candis Cayne, throw this rule out the window!)
- It’s especially important to wear clothes that fit well. Choose tailored styles that skim your body instead of clinging.
- As you get older, your clothes should get simpler. But simple doesn’t have to mean boring! Accessorize with bold jewelry, gorgeous bags, and great shoes.
Your 60s and Beyond
60s+: Transgender style inspiration
60s+: Transgender style tips
- By now you know yourself well and are past trying to look like a 30-year-old.
- Much like a woman in her 50s, it’s best to stick to the classics, with lots of interesting jewelry and other accessories to liven up your face and wardrobe.
- Invest in good quality shoes, handbags, and jewelry so you can enjoy them through this decade and beyond.
- No matter how far past 60 you are, you NEVER have to dress in frumpy old lady clothes!
NOW is the Perfect Time to Be Your Best Female Self!
The most important thing to know is that you can look beautiful and feminine at any age. NOW is the perfect time to be your best female self, so let’s celebrate your journey!
On that note, I’d love to hear from you…
Which decade are you in and what do you LOVE most about being your current age?
Please take my poll and share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
P.S. If you liked this article, you will LOVE my free 3-part Male to Female Makeover Course.
Hi, Y’All
I’m sure I’ve responded to this one before, but don’t remember what said. I’m in the 70+ bracket, but only feel it when my body says “Whoa!” I vary my dress a lot, not always conventional, like now I have a polka dot tie with an Irish sweater, olive drab skinny jeans, pastel green beret, and black tennis shoes. Actually looks ok, even for a geezer (LOVE that word). In my part of the world (at least as I perceive it), mostly casual terrain, folks wear whatever they want to at any age. Although I admit some do look out of phase, but mostly it works. As you know, a lot of old gals, even some young, wear drab, boring dress. Even when there are many, they still each stand out poorly in contrast to the more hip, instead of the other way around. That said, I still try to use judgement. When I’m dressy, I like a lot of appropriate multicolor, it’s better at hiding geezer defects. Or clothes that look good in themselves, getting that much more attention than old funny me. Old folks get less attention anyway. I resonate with the advice on accessories.
Enjoy yourselves,and your (real) selves!
Joan
Chrissy says, at 75 I feel as sexy, and feminine as ever, and I dress accordingly!
I love dressing feminine and being admired
You look amazing!
Brilliant article. I find it sad when inappropriate clothing spoils a girl’s appearance and credibility. Having said that, I hadn’t planned to wear a mini-skirt and thigh boots for my first ‘outing’ as part of a makeover day but I hope the style did not give away my 69years
I figure you cant go wrong with a silky blouse and skirt. I’ve found some interesting things at garage sales, second hand stores.
I so love Lucille. I have always loved wearing pretty things and buy the time I was 17 I was certain I wanted to be a female. I was totally attracted to men but I repressed those feelings. I spent a fortune on my wardrobe, I had to have everything. I am so very happy I transitioned , just the other day I was reminded who I am. I do identify as a transsexual with my health care providers and even some credit cards. I was in a crowded waiting room wait for a test when the nurse came in and called out “Kristine Brown” you should have seen the looks as the place was full of older sicker folks. I went in for an altitude test. I was and remain so happy to have been recognized by my real name, not the assigned one.