Do you want to create a captivating feminine image as a crossdresser or transgender woman? It’s not about spending a fortune on breast forms, clothes, or makeup.
The real secret is knowing the message you want your image to convey. This is key to expressing your true self.
A simple way to start is by choosing 3 words that describe your ideal feminine self.
For example, is she:
- Sassy, sexy, and spontaneous?
- Bold, brainy, and beautiful?
- Elegant, mysterious, and stylish?
If people aren’t seeing you for who you are, it might be because your outward image doesn’t match your inner self.
Knowing your essence helps you create a cohesive image that reflects the REAL you – through your appearance, behavior, and communication.
For instance, if your ideal self is classy, intelligent, and sensuous, you’d know that a super short miniskirt might not align with that image!
Why just 3 words?
Because it keeps your focus sharp and clear. Any more, and the message loses its impact.
So, what 3 words describe your feminine self?
We’d love to hear them! Please share in the comments below.
Love,
Lucille
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Sensual, earthy, sophisticated
I would always resist describing myself with only three words, but Dee’s “Happy with me” is great. But if pressed, today it would be: intelligent, sassy, and sexy. Adding complex to that makes it four, but so be it. Add complex too.
Work in Progress. 🙂
Smart,fashionable,pretty.
Great topic Lucille!
So my 3 words are 1-Refined, 2-Intelligent, 3-Mature.
I always love to be in classic, timeless, professional workday attire – matching flats, belt, purse with pencil-skirt and knit top or blouse . . . or a great dress with elegant lines, and always well-coordinated make-up and jewelry ensemble. And shoulder length flat-ironed hair with soft bangs in front.
I want people to say/think: “She’s a businesswoman, maybe a university professor, a banking officer, research librarian, marketing director, attorney, or office manager” . . . AND . . . “what a great, timeless, classic look that’s always in style” (“I bet she still likes to wear a full slip or a half-slip + camisole under her outfits, along with either lace-top thigh-highs or maybe even stockings and garter belt”).
I haven’t thought about these before, but I’m now R-I-M from now on.
I could not agree with you more. It is a shame however that just a few years ago you could buy that matching slip/panties/bra in colors to match or coordinate with your outfit. In the ’80s, JC Penney had a “Nice N Spicy” brand that came in matching colors such as red, lavender, navy, peach, even silver gray w/ pink trim. They were soft and silky, lacey and looked sexy yet elegant. And, they even would catch attention with the would show peek-a-boo style such as with a skirt slit or maybe the camisole would show itself a little bit with a low cut blouse or top.
My 3 words are: sassy, sexy, girly
Happy with ME
i would like to be brainy, stylish and elegant
My 3 words that I want to fill myself with are Sexy Beautiful & Stylish.