Are you ready to unleash your inner woman and discover a whole new world of self-expression?
Crossdressing can help you break free from gender norms and embrace your true self.
In this blog post, we’ll explore the top 10 benefits of crossdressing that can transform your life.
There’s a lot to be said for embracing your femininity and all the perks that come with it!
Top 10 Benefits of Crossdressing
1. Embracing both sides
Crossdressing lets you bring out the best of both genders and incorporate them into your own personality.
2. Motivation to look good
When you’re crossdressing, you naturally want to look great, right? That’s why it can inspire you to take better care of yourself, stay in shape, and prioritize self-care.
3. Better understanding of women
Crossdressing helps you see things from a woman’s perspective, which can make you more understanding and empathetic towards them.
4. Finding a community
When you embrace crossdressing, an added bonus is that you can tap into online or local communities. These communities can help you feel accepted and supported.
5. Fidelity and integrity
Now, I hope you’d never cheat on anyone, but there’s an interesting twist here. When YOU are “the other woman,” it can reinforce your commitment to being faithful.
6. Discovering your true self
Crossdressing is an amazing journey of self-discovery. It’s a chance to dig deep and uncover parts of yourself you may not have fully explored.
7. Unleashing your uniqueness
Normal is overrated, right? Crossdressing makes you stand out from the crowd and be an intriguing, fascinating individual.
8. Embracing differences
Crossdressing teaches you to accept and appreciate those who don’t fit into society’s norms. It broadens your perspective, promotes inclusivity, and shows you the beauty of diversity.
9. Stress relief
Crossdressing offers a fantastic and harmless way to relieve stress. It’s like stepping into a different role and enjoying a fulfilling activity that helps you unwind and take care of yourself.
10. Boosting creativity and courage
Crossdressing requires creativity, resourcefulness, and a dose of courage. It’s all about stepping out of your comfort zone, trying new things, and embracing the unexpected.
Final Thoughts
I hope you are now convinced that crossdressing can be a healthy and highly beneficial part of your life.
Do you agree with my list or have any other benefits of crossdressing to add? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
Hi Lucille and everyone 🙂 I absolutely loved reading your latest post about the benefits of being the way we are, and I totally agree with every point 🙂 the other thing I would like to add to the list, is friends 🙂 being a tgirl I have my own girly Facebook as I’m sure many of us do, and I have managed to make so many new friends, some of which I now consider some of the best friends that I have ever had! And I wouldn’t have any of them at all if it weren’t for having a Jenny Facebook and being out there in the world as Jenny 🙂 so “new, amazing friends” is a big benefit that I have had as a result of being a tgirl 🙂
The other thing I would like to say, is that I found Christina’s comment above, extremely rude! I did not like reading it one bit! Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but I found Christinas comment was nothing more than an aggressive, pompous, big headed, jaded, misguided, misinformed, grotesquely arrogant, unfounded and unwarranted attack without any substance at all. If you can’t say anything nice Christina, don’t say anything at all! You may be right that every community looks down on its own memebers, but as far as I can see, the only person here looking down on its own members is you!! And I do not appreciate your attempt to try and belittle Lucilles work! Lucille has been a great help to many of us here and her work provides a great resource for us all and really really does help! In addition to which, I can personally vouch for Lucilles website and work, making me feel a lot less alone in the world, and I’m sure it has made many of you feel the same way as well. It is great to know that there are people out there, that are here for us, supporting us and helping us!
Lucille, I am sending you all the love in my heart. Please don’t listen to the comments of closed minded, pompous, arrogant people such as Christina. Your website is brilliant, you are brilliant and I for one am incredibly, incredibly grateful to you, for just being there for all of us 🙂 in addition to all of the great work you have done and all of the amazing products you have created! Keep up the good work! 🙂 you are an angel xxxxxxx
Hi Lucille
If I may add a little brevity, I just loved getting to the bottom of your list, to find my face on the box of your Top 10 secrets program!!! What a hoot. For me that’s the best statement about being transgender. You can be beautiful and live a good life! I’m living proof… 😉
Now onto more serious subjects. I recognize your list was to spark a conversation, which it clearly has. After reading through many of the responses I had to stop. It was just so disturbing to see so many speaking from a defensive, if not offended place over your list. Many of the items you listed I would agree with. Many of the girls who chided you for daring to parlay your experience with the community, forget without your contribution they’d have no where to speak their piece!
As someone who has actually met you, and spent time with you, I stand at your defense. Yes you have a business to make your living from, however if you were for profit only, minus any real compassion, or understanding for our communities varying experiences, that would be evident in how you conduct your presence online. You’re a genuine, kind hearted person, and never at anytime in your presence did I feel like anything other than a normal everyday girl you were hiring as a model. Your desire to provide products and images all girls can relate to was completely obvious to me. Don’t let those who might misunderstand your motives sway you from your course.
Not all of us experience the hardship and destruction of life as we know it, in the effort to become who we believe ourselves to be. I also believe its your goal to recognize those hardships, but purvey positive options for someone to use to better themselves along the path in become their true selves. who wants to visit a site that reminds one of the hardships or the loss that can be a part of transition.
Speaking for myself I love to see your latest blog posts, and every notice you send out for your products. I always enjoy them, not to mention I get a kick out of seeing where you used my images in your products. It gives me a huge sense of accomplishment, and bolsters my confidence as a woman. It is after all my face I see on the programs that speak to passing and beauty, and confidence in one’s new role in life…
So girls how can that be a bad thing???
My best wishes to you Lucille, keep up the great work!!!!
Hugs,
Sara
I couldn’t agree more! 🙂 I only wish that I lived in America so I could come over and meet you all! 🙂 I do have lots of nice friends in Englabd but there isn’t anyone quite as awesome as Lucille, or anyone really doing anything like what she is doing. It is absolutely brilliant and I am full of appreciation for her and incredibly gratefull for all the work she has done and continues to do 🙂 sending you both lots of love xxxxx
Hi!
being a crossdresser/transgender girl,,loving all your insightful comments!specially liking item #9(relieving stress)
my home life is stressful in the sense that i live with an older brother,older sister,who are not at all supportive of anyone who crossdresses!.,
So even though i have to be extremly discreet,when i do want to dress as a woman,like when u i go to a TG Club,have to dress in private,and leave th house when everybody is asleep,and get home before they wake up.!
However when i do dress up as a woman,it is an exhilirating feeling,and i do become an entirely different person!I get the sense of being in a relaxed environment,just being away from relatives that are closed minded! and if i get an admiring glance or get to talk to someone,that is also dressed as a woman in one of these Clubs,get the feeling that enjoyingmyself as a woman is definitely worth it!
Kissses
elisa michelle
Thanks, ladies, for all your wonderfully insightful comments thus far! It’s always a bit difficult to read critical comments, but I welcome all viewpoints.
Just to clarify, I am not in any way trying to belittle anybody’s experience with this list. I am not transgender, so I can only imagine the struggle you are going through. I am simply trying to offer my perspective and hopefully, spark a conversation.
I realize that there are some similarities and many differences between crossdressers and transsexual women. Sometimes it’s a challenge to be relevant to everybody, but I’m doing my best to create an inclusive community here. Personally, I think it’s sad when members of the transgender community look down on each other. I believe that everybody deserves the same respect, no matter what side of the spectrum they fall on.
Love,
Lucille
Thank you Lucille.
I’m rather new to your site, just found it in March 2017.
I have been a CD for a long time, just as many gurls here have been. It’s been a struggle at times, and a few good moments too.
I just wanted to say thank for your love and understanding.
Much love ❤
Tina
Just wish there was a like button.
Well said & Thank you! Have a nice weekend Lucille ~ Jen : )
I agree with this cuz I hate being normal
I love to b a person who stands out
I mean I know I’m not pretty
but when I have confidence
people think I look better
I’m just here to show people its okay to b different
and p.s. the picture isn’t edited just outside in good lighting
🙂
Hi
As the other ladies said, you are beautiful. Don’t ever think otherwise.
Much love
Tina
You are really beautiful darling dont think otherwise love and kisses xxxxx Denise
Wow youre attractive 😮
Tends to clean away any past negativity allowing you to start over with a clean slate
I have to agree with what you listed, and feel there are many others that could be added… Becoming my true self,, learning to accept and love myself has set me free,.. even though it took 37 years (10 years in transition now) I have become a better person, and I am for once in my life able to commit fully to a relationship without fear (since I am already out) and against all my belief I have found that one special woman who accepts me fully, for who I am in my heart, even she didn’t have attraction to women, and the idea was completely foreign to her in the start,..we are now happily engaged, and hope to be married within the year… It also allowed me to find my path in education and career as a studying psychologist/counselor to gain clout to both support and fight for the needed social changes, especially for our youth,… no guilt anymore,, no more anger,, or self hatred,.. just blessings I never believed possible, it is so wonderful to be free to be me,…the loving caring person I was meant to be,..
All good points! I get something out of exploring our sex life with this as backdrop; I’ve mellowed out, especially when crossdressed, and bluntly, this transgender thing is going to be part of the world’s future, so I enjoy blazing new trails.