Are you ready to unleash your inner woman and discover a whole new world of self-expression?
Crossdressing can help you break free from gender norms and embrace your true self.
In this blog post, we’ll explore the top 10 benefits of crossdressing that can transform your life.
There’s a lot to be said for embracing your femininity and all the perks that come with it!
Top 10 Benefits of Crossdressing
1. Embracing both sides
Crossdressing lets you bring out the best of both genders and incorporate them into your own personality.
2. Motivation to look good
When you’re crossdressing, you naturally want to look great, right? That’s why it can inspire you to take better care of yourself, stay in shape, and prioritize self-care.
3. Better understanding of women
Crossdressing helps you see things from a woman’s perspective, which can make you more understanding and empathetic towards them.
4. Finding a community
When you embrace crossdressing, an added bonus is that you can tap into online or local communities. These communities can help you feel accepted and supported.
5. Fidelity and integrity
Now, I hope you’d never cheat on anyone, but there’s an interesting twist here. When YOU are “the other woman,” it can reinforce your commitment to being faithful.
6. Discovering your true self
Crossdressing is an amazing journey of self-discovery. It’s a chance to dig deep and uncover parts of yourself you may not have fully explored.
7. Unleashing your uniqueness
Normal is overrated, right? Crossdressing makes you stand out from the crowd and be an intriguing, fascinating individual.
8. Embracing differences
Crossdressing teaches you to accept and appreciate those who don’t fit into society’s norms. It broadens your perspective, promotes inclusivity, and shows you the beauty of diversity.
9. Stress relief
Crossdressing offers a fantastic and harmless way to relieve stress. It’s like stepping into a different role and enjoying a fulfilling activity that helps you unwind and take care of yourself.
10. Boosting creativity and courage
Crossdressing requires creativity, resourcefulness, and a dose of courage. It’s all about stepping out of your comfort zone, trying new things, and embracing the unexpected.
Final Thoughts
I hope you are now convinced that crossdressing can be a healthy and highly beneficial part of your life.
Do you agree with my list or have any other benefits of crossdressing to add? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
Lucille, I have been living as a fulltime WOMAN since July 3, 2007.
This is the real ME! I just refer to my former life as “my late husband.”
I never felt any guilt of any kind. Once I realized that I had always been a female person, there was no question or hesitation about full transition immediately.
Surprisingly enough, within a week or two people I didn’t know were telling me I was beautiful; that was the biggest surprise of all in my new life.
I need you to send me a link to the site or information you have for genetic women to increase their breast size, as the daughter of my best friend has asked me how to grow her breasts larger. I told her about you, but I need a link.
Like most of us, I had losses: a job I had for 22 years just because I transitioned. Now it is illegal in this state to discriminate. The EEOC quashed my suit on their third level. And my then lover and “wife” said she couldn’t handle seeing me as a woman, so that dear relationship was ended.
Unlike most I read about, I do not try to blend in, instead I always stand out, in my clothes, jewelry and looks. It is not uncommon for someone to ask to take my picture or the picture of me and my girlfriend of 22 years, who is the same as age less six months as me. I am 78. I transitioned at 72. I still work full time but due to age could only get a minimum wage job.
I have never been happier in my life with myself and the person I now am. All of the lifelong feeling of being “different” is now behind me.
You, dear lady, have contributed so much to me in my journey into womanhood, I can’t thank you enough.
I already thanks to you had B breasts when I started HRT 2-1/2 years ago; now I am a full C.
I occasionally will wear some eye shadow but feel naked without lipstick. I do not need to use makeup on my face, but may once in a great while.
Thank you again, and please send me a link I can give to my friend’s daughter.
Lainie
I feel very fortunate to come across Lucille Sorella on the internet and was personally greeted by one of her staff members in several e-mails after providing a link to my blog. Lucille is someone whom I have tremendous love, admiration and respect for because she has represented the male to female transgender community and is a champion for us and very kind to offer her time, dedication and commitment as her career choice. I have benefited from her programs and just feel lucky to find out about her. Currently I am not working as I was let go and I was very sad about the decision made as I was just hired only 7 months earlier and it was my very first job opportunity where I worked in the female gender role and was accepted but for some reason the owner, a pediatrician with many years of experience was old school and seemed to hold my transgender identity against me and I felt very depressed about the job loss which landed me in the hospital on 4 separate occasions at 3 different hospitals for severe depression. I am under medical care and seeing doctors regularly and am working on rebuilding my confidence and self esteem as I work to heal and continue with the medical support I am fortunate to have. I apologize in sharing this with Lucille and her readers so I will leave with the joys I encounter living full time as a female.
1) I have known since the age of 4 I was transgender but did not know the medical term at the time but I have recently started my journey with HRT for about a year at the tender age of 51.
2) It feels so wonderful to present as a woman. I feel so happy inside.
3) I love the sensitivity and compassion I have now which I always had but now find it more meaningful as a female.
4) I admire women for their strength for they are the stronger sex without question since they endure the pain associated with childbirth but gladly accept it and are rewarded with the joys of motherhood which sadly a trans woman will never know but I can say I was there for the birth of my son when my beautiful wife gave me the wonderful gift of fatherhood which I have always taken very seriously and with love and a sense of privilege.
5) The clothing choices!
6) Shoes, Shoes, Shoes
7) Shopping!!!
8) The softness of my skin as a result of HRT
9) Being addressed as a woman!!!!
10) Finding my true self as Emily, the girl I remember since the age of 4.
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Emilys-story-Life-Family-and-being-Transgender/319158071537381
Thank you!!
Emily
Emily,
There is no need to apologise for sharing your experiences with us, that is what this site is all about, so that others can appreciate the issues with coming out and perhaps learn from them.
You job loss would seem to indicate the ongoing rejection that society offers to t-girls, which can’t appreciate many of them for their abilities regardless of who they want to be. I don’t see how this will change in a LONG time, and this is a significant factor that prevents me from coming out of the closet.
Good luck!
Andrea
It means you have the best of both worlds you can be the best dressed and the best looking
hi girls linda here of nz i so love being a girl
hi linda
are you a genetic girl or tg?
Im tv but I dont see myself as a victim
I like this post a lot
it deals with issues that have been missed in the past
I LOVE THAT SKIRT by the way
i’m nr shoreham
would like to talk without any obligation
Hidden Benefits? Most of my life has been hidden, so what benefits really! I’m single and have no support that I’m aware of! I can agree with some of your 10, (1,2,6,7,8,9,and 10) but for me personally, – #3, it doesn’t make me MORE empathetic towards others. #4, WHO am I supposed to be closer to when I don’t feel I have ANYONE that supports me! #5 – I wouln’t put myself in a position to bve the “other woman” in the first place! I have no desire to cheat, and have not, when I was with another. Why would anyone cheat, when you’re already with someone you think you’re in love with!?
Thanks for the post.
Hello everyone. Not sure if I have alot to add or not. The list is a good starting point, but by no means an end. In fact some of the list can go eather way depending how you look at it. For example: My wife personally hates the fact I am the other woman making it hard to place blame on someone you love. Love trys to be like faith, all or nothing, how can you love and hate someone at the same time?
Also the list is very narrow. I take transgendered as the whole kit and kabutle. (CD/TV/TS/DQ/SM/???) How could a simple top ten be the same for a CD and a TS? They are as diffrent as an apple and an orange, with diffrent issues, relationships, etc.
However, like I said, it is a wonderful place to start. It brings a very postive view vs a negutive one. Just a generation or so ago being a Tgirl was a super no no in the eyes of socity. Wars have been justified based on hair and eye color, and the male image has been socity set for 100’s of years or more. You like us are the ones in the forefront of a socity gender image change. There will be many bumps and pains along the way. I do not blame you for wanting to make sone $$$ like a diffrent poster infered, helping others in a postive way deserves its rewards.
Thank you so much.
Jade
Hi Jade.
Sorry to get off this subject. But I just had to say I think you look so much like Karen Allen, who played Marion Ravenswood on the Indiana Jones shows. You and she are just plain beautiful. Again sorry to get off subject. And I tend to agree with your point of view. But as you said a good starting point.
Much love ❤
Tina
I love your 10 reasons. The 1st people who supported Tina was the Lesbians. I just love them and support them all.
The belly dancing community has also supported me and I have a lot of friends there.
The greaserag bike community has supported me also and have many friends there also. Greasserag is a bike organization for women, trans, and femmes.
My family has never supported me and are very negative. But otherwise I live my life as Tina and really enjoy it. I just wish that I was younger when this happened.
I love your 10 things about being transgender. I love being Tina Marie and enjoy belly dancing and biking with the women, trans, and femmes in greaserag.
I just wish I was strong enough to grow up more girly. I love shopping for female clothes openly and wished I gone into that field or beautitian.
My Tina life now is so good now. My hairdresser and shop (JUUT) is so supportive. I’ve have so many female friends now and love their company. Funny the 1st people who supported me were the lesbian..ss