Clothes are a big part of expressing yourself as a woman, but it’s something a lot of people struggle with.
Do you ever wonder how to put together stylish, feminine outfits?
While I’m a firm believer that there are no rules in fashion, it helps to have some general guidelines… especially if you’re new to putting together transgender or crossdressing outfits.
In this post, I’ve outlined a simple 5-step formula for putting together the perfect outfit.
1. Start With a Basic Piece
The foundation for your outfit should be a basic piece in a neutral color. Examples of basic pieces include: a classic a-line skirt, solid black pants, or a jacket in a neutral color.
2. Add an Interest Piece
The next step is to add an interest piece that will make your outfit POP. This should be something with color, pattern, texture, or shine.
Yes, you can pair basic pieces and neutral colors together, but that’s boring! You’ll look so much younger, prettier, and more feminine if you incorporate something fun or colorful into your outfit.
Examples of interest pieces include: a lace top, a brightly colored dress, or a floral skirt.
3. Choose Your Shoes
Shoes make or break your outfit, so choose wisely. A pair of hot heels can make a basic outfit nightclub-worthy, while the wrong shoes can make you look frumpy and outdated no matter how cute the rest of your outfit is.
Here are 2 rules for choosing shoes:
- Consider the occasion. Formal events call for heels and shiny, sparkly styles. Casual events call for flats and casual styles.
- Consider the color. Neutral colors like brown or black always work, but don’t be afraid to play with color. A pair of beautiful shoes in an unexpected color can raise you to the fashionista level.
One tip: If you’re wearing a bright color, don’t match your shoes exactly to your outfit. It tends to look clownish. Instead, try a related accent color for an edgier look.
4. Add Accessories
The next step is to add accessories, including jewelry, scarves, belts, hosiery, sunglasses, etc. Have some fun with this!
TIP: Be sure to choose accessories that are in scale with your overall proportions. If you have a larger frame, go for bigger earrings, necklaces, sunglasses, etc. that aren’t overpowered by your larger features.
5. Finish With a Handbag
The final step is to finish your outfit with a handbag. There are 2 things to consider:
- Consider the occasion. If it’s a formal event, go for a clutch or a structured handbag. If it’s a casual event, go for a slouchy bag in a casual fabric like leather, suede, or canvas. (The more structured the handbag, the dressier it looks.)
- Consider the color. Neutral colors will give you the most mileage, but brightly colored handbags can look unique and fashionable. If you decide to go for color, don’t worry about matching your bag to your shoes – that old rule doesn’t apply anymore.
Let’s see YOUR outfit!
And there you have it… A perfect outfit in 5 easy steps!
Now I’d love to see YOUR best outfit looks, so share a photo in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Is there any software somewhere to make a choice for us ? ( lol ) Sometime it’s not simple to figure what to wear for a day. Programmer, where are you ?
Listen us… Help us … !
Try My virtual Model.com It lets you select your closet and your avatar can have your sizes and post a face pic on it so you can guess what it looks like.
hope this helps
Joann
Make sure to not wear pantyhose with open toe shoes. Not a good look!
Thank-you Lucille,
I like to dress as sexy and classy as possible.THis really helps me do this better.AWesome tips.
My best advice is to dress age appropriate. I know we’d all love to be 20-something years old and wear mini-skirts, but at my age, it just doesn’t work if I want to blend in.
Hi Mindy
My Mother always says to me when i was five to enjoy life
your never old intil you die But my brother went to Brazil Rio to Visit he saw all kinds women even and i repeat old Midlle aged women in bikins Mini skirts tight jeans He found a woman now my sister n law now 58 years still wears short mini skirts Its a diffent custom there here in the Us we have a time for everything and think people says my sister n law laughs at this country and says AGE IS JUST A NUMBER WHAER ANYTHING YOU WANT. Singer Tina Turner says the same thing WHAT DOES AGE HAS TO DO WHAT It Im 47 Im on the beach this past summer with my bikini I wore my Mini skirt at a bar
I was dancing with diffent men I had a good time!!!!!!
Hi Lucille, thank you for all helpful posts! They are always packaged in your trademark concise, pragmatic style that is both useful and fun to read! I can see that you put as much thought in picking the right topic for its timeliness and particular usefulness to TGs, and I am so thankful for that! You are the consummate, caring professional, and I hope you do offer personal consults in the future!
Thank you for your kind words, Emily! That means a lot to me!!
Love,
Lucille
Hi Lucille,
Thanks for all the tips. Just starting out on my journey. Taking all the advice and trying to use as best as I can. Now I need to accessorize and help on the makeup. Love all the girls showing off and suggesting good tips. Especially on hiding the middle section, lol.
Hugs, Erika
Find a MAC makeup counter near you and they will teach you all you need to know about applying it.
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I sometimes feel like a celebrity the way people treat me. It is not uncommon to have someone ask to take my picture with them.
And do I love it when someone tells me I am beautiful.
I met a gg recently and when someone who knew me for a long time told her I was trans she didn’t believe them.
I’m 77 but this morning a 22yr old hot guy guessed my age at 49.
That really made my day!
You are too cute, Lainie! That green looks fabulous on you!