If you’re like many of my transgender or crossdressing readers, you might not be able to present yourself as a woman each day.
That doesn’t mean you have to lose your female side when it’s time to put on the pants!
In this post, I share 5 ways to stay in touch with your femininity – even in male mode.
1. Wear Women’s Underwear
Let’s start with the most obvious tip, shall we? Wearing women’s underwear underneath your male clothing is the easiest way to connect with your feminine self on a daily basis.
Aside from that, women’s panties tend to be more comfortable than men’s boxers or briefs. Plus, they come in loads of cute and sexy styles to add some secret pizazz to your outfit.
2. Try Stealth Crossdressing
Wearing lingerie under your clothes is a classic, but why stop there? Sneaking a piece of women’s clothing into your daily outfit is a great way to feel girly.
A lot of women’s clothing can pass for unisex, so try wearing women’s:
- Basic tees
- Button-down shirts
- Jeans and pants
Don’t forget about accessories! You could also play with wearing women’s boots or using a tote bag as a laptop bag or briefcase.
3. Apply Incognito Makeup
There are lots of ways to incorporate makeup into your daily look, even when presenting as a male. Here are 4 must-have makeup items:
- Concealer or foundation – Apply a thin layer to cover under eye circles or blemishes.
- Setting powder – Apply to shiny spots on your face, like the nose or forehead.
- Clear mascara – Use it to make your eyelashes look subtly longer and fuller.
- Uncolored lipstick – Instead of boring Chapstick, care for your lips with a clear lipstick.
4. Use the Power of Scent
Scents have a powerful effect on your brain chemistry and mood, so this is a great way to connect with your feminine side.
Wear women’s perfume instead of cologne. Musky fragrances are the most unisex, so you can wear them without anybody knowing your secret. (Check out my article on perfume to learn more about choosing the right scent.)
Another option is to burn a scented candle with a feminine fragrance in your home or office.
5. Keep Reminders of Your Female Self
Another tip is to surround yourself with reminders of the woman within.
One way to do this is through photos. Keep photos of your femme self on your phone, in your wallet, or even framed and hung up so you can see them often.
You could also carry around items personalized with your feminine name, such as a necklace, keychain, or coffee mug.
6. Try Feminizing Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a powerful way to increase confidence, reprogram habits and behaviors, and improve the way you express yourself as a woman.
Best of all, it’s the ultimate mental escape – allowing you to connect with you female self regardless of your current situation.
Try it for yourself by signing up for my free Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini-session here.
How do YOU stay connected?
In an ideal world, you’d be free to present yourself as a woman whenever and wherever you wanted. Until then, I hope this gives you ideas for expressing your female side anytime you want!
How do YOU stay connected to your feminine self? I’d love to know, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I work in a “manley environ” but I have removed all body hair, wear my hair long and coloured,earings etc and dare anyone to question it. I am who I am and no apologies
Hey, just wanted to say thanks for your website and all the advice I have received. I am branching out to live more girly day by day when I can. It is a blast even when I’m not trying to get addresses as Mamm by people in the mall or at a store. Have a great day.
I wear panties and bra everyday and female deodorant don’t have any male deodorant wear perfume and have had males I work with say that I smell nice. I keep my male underwear if I have to go to the doctor as he does not know. I wear ladies jeans and t shirts and (blouses sometime) I wear male shirts but female t shirts underneath always. I wear female pj’s everynight (love the feeling) I sometime use female hygene products during the monthly time. I have no body hair (female razors and hair removal creme) Lipstick everyday a must and mascara also. I wish my breast would grow to a B cup But now I only have a AA to A cup. Both ears pierced and change earrings everyday studs I would love hanging earrings outside but only in the house for now. Thanks for the help and kisses for you and the other girls bye bye Billie
The doctors have seen it all and aren’t worried about what your wearing. The worst you’ll get is a smile. I wouldn’t be caught dead in men’s underwear and the doctors and nurses I’ve seen usually ignore it. They’re dedicated to your health no matter what you are or what you wear. Sounds like they just care about people. You don’t need any male underwear to appear “normal” for anyone. I’m Gordon most of the time and I haven’t worn men’s underwear in more than 20 years. Forget about it. Go girly and have fun silly. :)<<
Victoria’s Secret Boyfriend Jeans (sized right!), panties, and no body hair can all be done on the sly and feel wonderful.
i wear panties all the time,have my eyebrows plucked weekly with a slight arch,keep my legs shaved down to once a week,wear nail polish dailly,i wear a bra dailly,and womans jeans.i have some womans tops but they are real girly same with my dresses. now i just wish my breast woud grow bigger or i could afford your program.
I am so well known, that I have to watch how I dress in public. At home I can dress pretty open, but not out in public. My wife supports my dressing up as a female, even helps me out. I have gone out to some friends of ours dress as a woman, but not very often.
Nail polish at all times. No body hair. Toe rings this summer at the beach!
Hi girls i’m in transition now and never looked back. have changed name work as female and play darts on the ladies team. just love life.x