If you’re like many of my transgender or crossdressing readers, you might not be able to present yourself as a woman each day.
That doesn’t mean you have to lose your female side when it’s time to put on the pants!
In this post, I share 5 ways to stay in touch with your femininity – even in male mode.
1. Wear Women’s Underwear
Let’s start with the most obvious tip, shall we? Wearing women’s underwear underneath your male clothing is the easiest way to connect with your feminine self on a daily basis.
Aside from that, women’s panties tend to be more comfortable than men’s boxers or briefs. Plus, they come in loads of cute and sexy styles to add some secret pizazz to your outfit.
2. Try Stealth Crossdressing
Wearing lingerie under your clothes is a classic, but why stop there? Sneaking a piece of women’s clothing into your daily outfit is a great way to feel girly.
A lot of women’s clothing can pass for unisex, so try wearing women’s:
- Basic tees
- Button-down shirts
- Jeans and pants
Don’t forget about accessories! You could also play with wearing women’s boots or using a tote bag as a laptop bag or briefcase.
3. Apply Incognito Makeup
There are lots of ways to incorporate makeup into your daily look, even when presenting as a male. Here are 4 must-have makeup items:
- Concealer or foundation – Apply a thin layer to cover under eye circles or blemishes.
- Setting powder – Apply to shiny spots on your face, like the nose or forehead.
- Clear mascara – Use it to make your eyelashes look subtly longer and fuller.
- Uncolored lipstick – Instead of boring Chapstick, care for your lips with a clear lipstick.
4. Use the Power of Scent
Scents have a powerful effect on your brain chemistry and mood, so this is a great way to connect with your feminine side.
Wear women’s perfume instead of cologne. Musky fragrances are the most unisex, so you can wear them without anybody knowing your secret. (Check out my article on perfume to learn more about choosing the right scent.)
Another option is to burn a scented candle with a feminine fragrance in your home or office.
5. Keep Reminders of Your Female Self
Another tip is to surround yourself with reminders of the woman within.
One way to do this is through photos. Keep photos of your femme self on your phone, in your wallet, or even framed and hung up so you can see them often.
You could also carry around items personalized with your feminine name, such as a necklace, keychain, or coffee mug.
6. Try Feminizing Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a powerful way to increase confidence, reprogram habits and behaviors, and improve the way you express yourself as a woman.
Best of all, it’s the ultimate mental escape – allowing you to connect with you female self regardless of your current situation.
Try it for yourself by signing up for my free Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini-session here.
How do YOU stay connected?
In an ideal world, you’d be free to present yourself as a woman whenever and wherever you wanted. Until then, I hope this gives you ideas for expressing your female side anytime you want!
How do YOU stay connected to your feminine self? I’d love to know, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I keep my toes painted at all times and also wear toe rings on both feet. I often wear panties and stockings when I go out.
I wear panties all the time, favorite colors are black, green, or pink the brighter the pink the better. I wear my hair long although I am bald on top (oh Well) I have to be careful when removing body hair as I tend to always develope ingrown hairs that easilly get infected, (if not one thing its another). Pluck eyebrows alot but they always come back longer and thicker, thinking of renting them out as a Brazilian rain forest. favorite perfume is called earth.
Ooooooh yessssssss,Feminine is the only to go any where. Expressing your Femininity is sooooooo self exilerating,knowing that you are being your inner self wearing the clothes you want to be dressed in out in public and smelling the essence of a sweet womanly perfume. *wink*,*S*.
Hi,I live as feminine as one can get but still have to dress drab for complicated reasons.I live alone so am always femme @ home.I frequent a concert venue, always Kaye, usually for classical music & jazz;I have always been accepted there & it is lovely.I have to say it is very expensive being the woman one wants to be,I spend quite alot on myself to be pretty & look good which leads to confidence + my best friend is a married lady with whom I go shopping;the three of us are often out together,too.Everyone I meet is lovely with me & I just blend in,so I think many people are not aware of my other side.
True, beauty does not come cheap. 😉
Hi i wear panties all the time and i always wear womans pants and slacks,people don’t seem to notice or say anything and it is fantastic, I also wear womans shirts and tops as well,i sometimes wear a bra but it shows up and is a little bit obvious at times I just wish that people would just accept us and leave us alone you often see born women wearing male clothes and nobody bats an eyelid,it’s not fair
Agree with everything people have said, just what ever you do be happy, I’ve always got my toenails painted & wear knickers, mascara & lip balm or natural colour lipstick whilst in guy mode.
just as a note would like to say the “femmine hypnosis” programme works wonders & really help’s especially when in guy mode.
Keep up the good work.
Thanks for your kind words! Love the photo. You look very feminine.
I love to wear stockings and strings under my male clothes when I am at work most of the time. The feeling of my legs, my stockings and my jeans touching each other is incredible. I always shave and clean all my body and use creams to keep my skin soft. I have started taking estrogens and testosterone killers a year know after trying Lucille’s herbal method( Thanls Lucille) who helped me increase the size of my breasts. Now with this hormones my breasts are firmier, pouty and my nipples very sensitive. I am also using a pump to increase the size of my nipples and areola which I managed to do that.
I always trim my nails and I manicure them with aclear polish at all times!
When home alone I am dressed in full with stockings, mini dresses, boots and do the housewife, cleaning, vacueing, cooking.
It is wonderful to feel feminine at all times and I am happy to say that I found a way to do that and be happy with my lifwe. Wish to everybody to live the same. Kisses Eva
I wear woman panties all the time.I dont have any body hair
wear woman Jeans every da and sleep in Woman Nightdress.I take woman perfume ( Emporio Armani Della She)