If you’re like many of my transgender or crossdressing readers, you might not be able to present yourself as a woman each day.
That doesn’t mean you have to lose your female side when it’s time to put on the pants!
In this post, I share 5 ways to stay in touch with your femininity – even in male mode.
1. Wear Women’s Underwear
Let’s start with the most obvious tip, shall we? Wearing women’s underwear underneath your male clothing is the easiest way to connect with your feminine self on a daily basis.
Aside from that, women’s panties tend to be more comfortable than men’s boxers or briefs. Plus, they come in loads of cute and sexy styles to add some secret pizazz to your outfit.
2. Try Stealth Crossdressing
Wearing lingerie under your clothes is a classic, but why stop there? Sneaking a piece of women’s clothing into your daily outfit is a great way to feel girly.
A lot of women’s clothing can pass for unisex, so try wearing women’s:
- Basic tees
- Button-down shirts
- Jeans and pants
Don’t forget about accessories! You could also play with wearing women’s boots or using a tote bag as a laptop bag or briefcase.
3. Apply Incognito Makeup
There are lots of ways to incorporate makeup into your daily look, even when presenting as a male. Here are 4 must-have makeup items:
- Concealer or foundation – Apply a thin layer to cover under eye circles or blemishes.
- Setting powder – Apply to shiny spots on your face, like the nose or forehead.
- Clear mascara – Use it to make your eyelashes look subtly longer and fuller.
- Uncolored lipstick – Instead of boring Chapstick, care for your lips with a clear lipstick.
4. Use the Power of Scent
Scents have a powerful effect on your brain chemistry and mood, so this is a great way to connect with your feminine side.
Wear women’s perfume instead of cologne. Musky fragrances are the most unisex, so you can wear them without anybody knowing your secret. (Check out my article on perfume to learn more about choosing the right scent.)
Another option is to burn a scented candle with a feminine fragrance in your home or office.
5. Keep Reminders of Your Female Self
Another tip is to surround yourself with reminders of the woman within.
One way to do this is through photos. Keep photos of your femme self on your phone, in your wallet, or even framed and hung up so you can see them often.
You could also carry around items personalized with your feminine name, such as a necklace, keychain, or coffee mug.
6. Try Feminizing Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a powerful way to increase confidence, reprogram habits and behaviors, and improve the way you express yourself as a woman.
Best of all, it’s the ultimate mental escape – allowing you to connect with you female self regardless of your current situation.
Try it for yourself by signing up for my free Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini-session here.
How do YOU stay connected?
In an ideal world, you’d be free to present yourself as a woman whenever and wherever you wanted. Until then, I hope this gives you ideas for expressing your female side anytime you want!
How do YOU stay connected to your feminine self? I’d love to know, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I keep my nails longer than men normally do and I buff them to remove the ridges and give them a little shine. No one seems to notice and I get a constant reminder of my feminine self.
To feel more girly I have focused on how to gain a more feminine figure. I first started with losing weight, and. I lost a lot 63.5. Lbs and also 64 inches of body circumference when measured at 12 different parts of my body. Now I have been focusing on sculpting my body into a more feminine figure. I do this with a combination of Pilates, Yoga and recently Barre classes. I now feel confident enough to attend these classes wearing my Lululemon exercise pants. They are clearly made for us girls and make my flat bottom look fuller and more plump. I crave that Yoga butt that all the woman who are regular Yoga devotees have gained from many months and years of practice. I am the only none genetic female in the classes I attend. The instuctors have been very encouraging and the woman seem to welcome me. I can truly say that woman are the stronger sex. I can only try to achieve what these woman can do. I am proud to say that I have gained some amazing flexibility and I am working on getting down into a split. I look forward to having my leg up on the ballet bar every day and pushing my self further. Now I wonder when I will feel comfortable enough to wear dancer’s tights and a leotard to class.
Veronica
I graduated from clear nail polish to a sheer color. Color Club “Nature’s Way” is perfect for me. Color gives a real sense of being a girl. When I’m in straight company most people comment on the tidyness and good grooming they see. Ilove looking at my nails all day and seeing the shine and color.
when working at home I put on all different colors and designs. It’s so fun.
Taken polish off is so simple with the jars we now have. Stick you finger in and twirl it all about and off goes the red and you’re redy to put on the natural look of a color lke “Nature’s Way”. opague colors really stand out a lot. Unless you want to be more ostentagious and why not if you’re ready you’ll want to stay with the sheer. A top clear coat is essential to protect the color layer and give you more shine and fill.
Oh and a beutiful manicure is a most. To find your prettiest and appropriate length, let the manicurist keep them a bit long when she does them and have her five them a curve. Then let them grow out to your favorite length.
You cn then file them for quite a long time yourself. And it so fun to do that also. Begin and enjoy the experiance of getting better ad better you’ll never stop once you do. It feels so you.
Doing your toes is another thing to try.
You’ll feel so pretty all day and see your feminine you with constant reminders thoughout the day.
Welll I keep my male and female sides completely separated now. I used to wear ladies deodorant and of course, panties and bras. I would also wear polish on my toes daily. It was challenging to wear socks around the house in front of the wife and kids but I did it. I would kick them off when I got into bed. Until my daughter had a horrified dream and woke up screaming and naturally I hopped out of bed with my white French tips glowing in the dark. I pretended to hit my toe and my wife went to her rescue. Then at work we were comparing tattoos and I almost pulled up my pant leg when wearing stockings and I had. Bra on too so I couldn’t show my others. Close calls is why I now keep them both separate. However, I do keep photo of myself locked away and with me keeping my body shavened and getting regular pedicures and manicures I guess the stretch of my two worlds come together there.
I keep shaven, wear panties, and bras all the time, sometimes thigh highs under my work pants. whenever not at work I wear feminine attire, and go out on the town like that, even to church.
I wear panties almost every day. My wife was our of town for the last two weeks and I was able to dress fully after work. Sometimes I use a shower gel and apply lotion before getting our of the shower. I am afraid it causes too much scent and need to be more careful at work. Love your site. Thanks a lot
Like most of the other girls I enjoy wearing panties everyday, the more feminine and sexy the more I’m in touch with my sensuality. I have very thick eyebrows, but have managed to get them somewhat looking feminine without drawing too much suspicion. I bought some products from “Meaningful Beauty” that is promoted by Cindy Crawford. I simply love applying the skin care product to my face and eyes, which helps me to feel even more feminine. For the most part I have gone out dressed in full feminity when I go to Oklahoma City to the Gay district. However, I got daring one day and dressed in pair of female jeans and a female sweater and went out in broad day light and enjoyed the movies. Recently, my wife found photos on my laptop that I had taken of myself to show my transition of learning to become passable. I believe it is the end of my 26 year marriage. She insisted on seeing all my female clothing I had stored in a storage facility. I was more relieved than anything that I was forced to fully disclose to her my desire to have breast and dress as a female as she maticulously scrutinized each and every pair of my 100 plus panties, not to mention my dresses,leggings, jeans, blouses, wigs, and a plethora of beauty products. I can understand her not wanting to stay with me, but I’m not turning back even if she insisted I stop if she’d stay in the marriage. I still intend on growing my breast and have begun to wear my panties to bed along side my wife. She will either accept it or she won’t. I am a woman and I cannot change. Albeit, I’m not much to look at, I would have sent some of my phots if my laptop had not completely crashed. However, Lucille if you have pass photos I’ve sent you, please feel free to post those to this email.
What a great topic. I thought maybe I was the only one who dared to wear scented body lotion as my male persona. My favorite is Victoria’s Secret “VERY SEXY”. The girls at work always say how nice I smell when I wear it. 😉