I’ve observed that many crossdressers and transgender women recognize their gender identity at a young age. For some, it’s an early realization, while for others, it unfolds later in life.
I’m curious about your experience…
When did you first realize you were female or had a feminine side? Was this something you felt as a child, or did it develop over time?
I’d love to hear your story! Feel free share your thoughts in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
I first knew when I was about 7 or 8 years old. My sisters were 2 and 4 years younger than I. Whenever I had a choice to play with them and their friends, or with my male friends in the neighborhood, I always wanted to play with my sisters and their friends. I still do.
When I was Thirteen I would worn my sister clothing nobody knew that I did that and they still don’t know and it made me feel good
I struggled with my identity all my life…at age 13-14 started presenting as a girl and passing. I tried transitioning in 20’s, but wasn’t happening due to Dr. conflicts….then at age 28 finally on my way.
you are gorgeous; great transition!
Thank you
I first realized I wanted to be a girl since my teens. For the longest time it was confused with the desire to crossdress and suppressed as an Uber jock. It was put in a corner through marriage and children and finally expressed in my 50’s. Lucille I thank you so much for your help and support, with sites like yours we comes to realize that not only do we want to look like a girl, but we are one. To actually say the words “I am a transgendered woman “, is one of the most liberating and joyful experiences of my life.
Love always
Michelle
I’m a 29 y/old trans woman. I’m just discovering my real sex. I mean, I’ve always felt atracction to women’s clothes and accesories and lifestyle but I always tought it was only a fetish thing. Now I’ve realized I’m a woman and I’m starting to make changes on my life to make it happen
I knew I was a female at the age of 8. I would sneak into my older sisters bedroom when she wasn’t home and sit at her dressing table and would wonder what it be like to curl my hair, put on makeup, and a spritz of perfume.
I would slip into one of her dresses and put on a pair of heels and look at myself in the mirror and see my true self.
When I was 2 years old I loved playing with my mother’s baby doll and I can remember saying to her, ” I’m going to be a mommy when I grow up”. At 4 years old I was wearing her blouses and sweaters so I would say I’ve always been female. My only regret is that when I was younger there was no internet and resources available to trans girls like myself. I sometimes cry when I see young beautiful trans girls, they are so lucky to be able to be who they are really are inside and outside.
I so totally agree about todays girls being lucky. If I’d had the resources that are available today I think my journey would have been much different. Knowing I wasn’t alone would have been liberating. It would have explained so many emotions and desires that were supposed to be WRONG.
I was 4 years old when my mother dressed me up as a girl, she had put panties (coming back to this) on, a dress, nylon pantyhose, high heels about 3″ in heel height, and makeup. I remembered that like it was yesterday, as she was dressing me up I had to admire the texture against my body and other areas when I put the panties on, it was soft, not so silky and that’s when I realized that I didn’t want to wear boys underwear, my older sister use to buy me panties with cartoon character and heroes on my panties. The pantyhose made my legs feel comfortable energetic and sexy. My mother basically saved my older sisters pink skirt and that skirt I was wearing it all day with the heels and 3 inch heel height was high for a 4 yr old (I was always known as a girl) girl to wear but I made it to be easy walking around in the outfit my mother had dressed me up, but it wasn’t a smile towards boys wearing girls items but I still put on panties and pantyhose when I was able to cover it. Then I was 15 I went to the ladies clothing store (Rainbow) and I bought my first thong. When I put the thong on I told myself this is what I was meant to be a sexy girl. As the years went on my wardrobe was getting a big change and now today, January 13, 2019, I dress up as a woman, like I was born as a female. Now I own 2 5inch heel height high heels (among other womens shoes)and dresses, panties and pantyhose, fishnets to be precise, dresses, skirts, blouses, makeup, and jewelry. Yes some of my family members and friends don’t agree with my decision but that’s what it is my decision and desire to be a sexy/pretty woman. I love to crossdress and I’m obsessed with woman’s shoes.
Well like everybody else I want to be a girl like everybody else strawberry panties and bras all men want to be women to a point whatever you can afford $39,000 for surgery in a bottom I heard that as a 00 00 uh oh now what do I do I’m 60 years old no money saved up all right when I get it done get rid of my little dick I want a pussy so bad I can cry I live all alone Mary wants to female she started me on birth control pills one day she says all your breasts are getting so much bigger or nice then she divorced me such as life right you think you got the right woman to help you with your change over I should drop it like a hot potato so that’s my story but I was five years old when I first started dressing my mom’s underwear
I realized I was a girl first around middle school when I was just thinking I want to be a girl and then it became I’d rather be a girl, I even looked up SRS at that age. But with the way people are I repressed these feelings and went in denial for around 10 years. I’ve finally excepted recently that I’m a girl and will never go back to thinking I’m a guy. I’m in the closet now, but one day I’ll be presenting 100% femme
I first realized something was very different around 6 I felt different I wanted to wear girls clothes, around 8 I started tryng on my mom’s clothes, and I noticed I felt more comfortable in them and rest is history, I knew then what I know now I would have gotten a boob job at least and had body contouring at the waist. I dont think I would go further. Know gurls that now regret the change, why, because the lose of Libido that occurrs. I want to be aroused to be taken and feel excited as a woman, rather loose the feeling of excitement. Besides the men I date seem to enjoy the femininity and usually ignore the rest, which is wonderful