There are a lot of details that go into creating an attractive feminine image. From clothing and hair to makeup and shoes – the list can seem endless!
If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman preparing for your male to female makeover, you’re in the right place.
To help you stay organized, I’ve crafted a simple Flawless Feminine Image Checklist.
Can you confidently answer “YES” to these 10 questions?
If you can, you’re all set to showcase your fabulous feminine self to the world!
10 Elements of a Flawless Feminine Image
1. Is your shapewear helping to enhance your feminine curves?
Your body’s silhouette powerfully communicates your gender identity to the world. Are you using the right undergarments to achieve your ideal feminine shape?
Here are some recommended items to have in your wardrobe:
- Breast forms
- A properly fitting bra
- Waist cincher or shaping camisole
- Padded panties with butt and hip padding
- Control top pantyhose or tights
While you don’t need to wear all of these pieces at once, they’re good to have on hand in case you want to enhance your shape to match a specific outfit.
2. Are you wearing stylish and flattering clothes that suit your body shape?
Selecting the right clothing is crucial to achieving a polished look. Opt for stylish and flattering clothes that complement your body shape and personal style.
Understanding your body proportions will help you choose outfits that not only fit well but also enhance your femininity.
3. Does your makeup look natural, well-balanced, and attractive?
A common makeup mistake, especially for those just starting their male-to-female makeup journey, is going overboard. When presenting as a woman, it’s important to avoid this error.
In most cases, a light and natural makeup look is the way to go. However, there are two exceptions to keep in mind:
- If you have darker coloring, you can opt for deeper and bolder shades.
- When heading out for an evening event, you can embrace higher-intensity makeup to suit the occasion.
4. Is your skincare routine giving you a clear and radiant complexion?
A clear and radiant complexion is the foundation of any feminine image. Develop a skincare routine tailored to your skin type that includes cleansing, moisturizing, and sun protection.
Regular exfoliation and hydration will leave your skin glowing and ready to showcase your makeup skills.
5. Does your hairstyle flatter your face shape with a feminine touch?
Beautiful hair is an important part of your overall image. To soften masculine facial features, choose a hairstyle with soft waves or layers. Stay away from angular styles.
Shiny hair makes you look sexy and youthful, so use a smoothing serum if you have dry or frizzy hair. I like Garnier Fructis Sleek & Shine Anti-Frizz Serum for Frizzy, Dry Hair.
If you wear a wig, be sure to wash it regularly and use a finishing spray like Bonfi Natural Oil-Free Wig Shine Spray.
6. Do you exude confidence and poise through your body language and gestures?
Confidence is the key to a flawless feminine image. Work on exuding confidence and poise through your body language and gestures.
Stand tall, maintain eye contact, and move gracefully. Confidence is not only attractive but also empowering.
7. Have you been practicing a feminine voice and communication skills?
Perfecting a feminine voice and honing your communication skills are essential aspects of your transformation.
Seek guidance from voice coaches or speech therapists to help you achieve a voice that aligns with your feminine image.
Effective communication is the bridge that connects your inner self with the world.
8. Are your nails well-groomed and looking their best?
Your hands and nails are often noticed, so keeping them well-groomed is essential.
Regular manicures, proper nail care, and choosing feminine nail colors can enhance your overall image.
9. Are you wearing jewelry and accessories that complement your outfit?
Accessorizing can elevate your outfit and add a personal touch to your style. Choose jewelry and accessories that complement your clothing and express your unique taste.
From statement necklaces to elegant earrings, the right pieces can complete your look beautifully.
10. Are you embracing your unique femininity and staying true to yourself?
Above all, remember to embrace your unique femininity and stay true to yourself.
Your journey is about self-expression and authenticity. Be proud of who you are, and let your inner beauty shine through!
In Conclusion
If you answered “yes” to each of the questions on this checklist, then congratulations! Now it’s time to step out and enjoy your flawless feminine image.
Be sure to keep this checklist handy so you can refer to it each time you present yourself as a woman.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Is there anything you would add to this list? Please share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
Lucille,
I agree with Sarahin that “control top” are too tight, uncomfortable & Berkshire makes fabulous pantyhose, thigh hi’s but they have sheer for spring & summer hose that are light & breezy. I have an issue with a liitle bit of “Bulge” so Spanx are comfortable, also give you the ability to tuck and hide very nicely.
great tips,i have only done about 6 of those so will try the rest,thanks,would also like to have some feedback on what I can do with my hair,i have to keep it short due to my work ,any suggestion of a female male hair style.
I just love wearing my new long evening dress
Deana, you look stunning!
I started shaving my hairy caveman legs,last year.Whether I’m xdressing or not,I like how my shaved legs offer better freeedom of movement versus when I had hair on my legs.I’ve gone through sooo many razorblades,now!! I may invest in one of those hair removal products like the Yes! or No No Hair Removal device,in the near future.I love seeing my smooth legs with pantyhose on.I just hate the runs!! I’m still a Work in Progress with this xdressing thing,but enjoying the ride.
Hi Darren, I been shaving on and off for about seven years. More in the past year. I only shave areas exposed to wearing short dresses. My sisters tell me I have nice legs. I am over six feet tall. I also shave my arms, under arms an upper chest area.
I will recommend, with all due respect to get laser hair removal.
I am considering this procedure for my face, inner thoughts and back. The rest I could probably get rid of it with HRT estrogen hormones. As you can read I am going all the way.
I am heterosexual, I love women and I guess when I done with my transition, I could be consider a lesbian. I feel as femenine as I could be when I shave the hairs off the areas I exposed.
As for your hair, I wish you the best. You’ll make the right decision.
I really recommend waxing facial hair followed with plucking to control regrowth it takes some time but it is worth it the wax needs to be the hard wax type not the soft wax with material strips I am trying out a salon that does threading so I have had to let it grow a bit this week looking forward to the results.
Hi,
I enjoyed reading this blog, and the tips were generally right on.. The only problem I have is that I trie numerous times to download the checklist (.pdf format) and it won’t download. When I click on the link (above) it takes me to the page where i sign up for the newsletter in order to be able to download checklist. I do that and it just takes me to the page thanking me for signing me up for the newsletter. No .pdf download or anything. I’ve tried this several times and got the same result. Can you help me please? I would relly like to have this checklist so I can print it out to keep with me.
I totally disagree with control top pantyhose. I prefer sheer to waist pantyhose, because those don’t have the darker shaded area around the tummy, and I feel the Sheer to Waist fit much much better than control top.
I decided after a few months of shaving only my upper legs that I needed to just completely shave them. I LOVE how smooth my legs feel and I can feel the cool crisp air brush against them. I can’t believe how good they look without body hair!
Kim :
You have Great Legs, no question. I love the way 100 % nylon stockings from Secrets in Lace in Richmond VA & others like GIO on Amazon. I get nylons from all over the world. Try Those on those freshly shaven legs !! What a treat! Let me know how you feel. ..I have other suggestions as you get back to me! !
Enjoy being You! T.J.
Wow, girlfriend your legs look amazing. Are you Trans?
Forgive me but you have a beautiful pair.
You are proof many of us are equipped with the wrong equipment. I love your leg muscle contour.
Keep posting pictures of those well architected legs. Be safe and many, blessings.